In a way, listening is the first step in interpersonal communication. Think about it, if you can't listen well, how can you get others to open up to you?If you can't listen attentively, how can you understand others more deeply?In fact, the relationship between parents and children is also a kind of interpersonal relationship, and it also requires more listening. Unfortunately, in real life, many parents regard their children as their own accessories and do not pay attention to their children's inner world at all, resulting in poor parent-child communication. If parents want to know their children better, they must respect their children, treat them equally, and listen to them calmly.
Some people say that raising children is a practice, and this sentence is simply too reasonable. Raising children is indeed a spiritual practice, helping us to slow down the pace of our lives and wait for playful children. How can I make my mother feel at ease?Only when a mother loves and accepts everything about her child from the bottom of her heart will there be no complaints. Raising a child is not only a spiritual practice, but also the greatest joy God has given mothers. Children do make mistakes, but they also make us reflect on ourselves and become more perfect.
When children are reluctant to talk, the first thing parents need to do is to be calm. In fact, the child looks very small, but he has a lot of ideas in his heart. If you can calm down and listen to what your child has to say and understand your child's thoughts, parents will often find that they have misunderstood their child, and everything could have been more harmonious.
In life, many parents will find that their children are sometimes emotionally capricious and often lose their temper. In fact, this is due to the fact that the child does not receive understanding and consideration. When your child is talking, don't say "Shut up!"."It's all your fault!"Why did you do it wrong again?"You caused everything!Wait for words, otherwise the child will close the door of his heart and never open it again. Wise parents will first affirm their child's thoughts and emotions, show understanding and consideration to their child, listen attentively to the facts told by the child, and then look for opportunities to guide the child. In the hearts of children, the home supported by their parents is their whole world. It is only when they are loved and noticed at home that they become serene and peaceful.