A netizen wrote to ask that my wife was only very close to a male colleague at work, is there a problem?As the saying goes, rabbits don't eat the grass next to the nest, which means that it is impossible to have a relationship with the people around them that should not happen.
It's too close to start, and it's too close to feel it, and it's impossible to develop into a problem.
It's like a man and a woman in an office, working together and having more contact, and there is no problem in helping each other at work, these things are human nature.
Whoever can't get busy with things in their hands is normal.
I don't have too many worries, and I don't have too many thoughts, maybe only those with a careful eye will think differently.
If you think a little too much, you will feel too tired, just go with the flow, husband and wife are of the same heart, don't be suspicious, this will affect the relationship between husband and wife.
They are all young people and have families, presumably both sides know which one is light and which one is heavy, and no one will make such a low-level mistake.
If you have children, you must be responsible and give your children a complete home.
If it's really what you think it is, then it's asking for trouble, and it's okay to find trouble.
Such things are not absent, there are some, but they are rare.
I remember when I was in the unit, two women who were eight years apart and an unmarried young man got together.
At first, no one thought about it, until one day the matter was exposed and her husband met.
The matter was **, the secret was made public, her husband filed for divorce, at that time, the young man had not been married for a long time, and the daughter-in-law had just given birth to a child, and begged for a divorce.
The two of them are far apart, the woman is eight years old, the man is young, no one is optimistic, and they didn't expect that the ending would be like this.
The children of the woman's family are sensible, and they have no energy since their parents divorced, and they have become more taciturn and don't speak day by day, it seems that the divorce has hit the children too hard.
In addition, the child is still young, only a few months old.
That's it, the two good families were separated.
The two of them had no face to stay in the unit, lost their jobs, and rented a house not far from the unit to live.
The man's father was angry, worked hard and had a family, but it was gone in an instant, so he went to the woman to theorize, started to fight, pulled the woman's hair and beat the woman.
The two saw that the city could not stay any longer.
Packed up my things and dragged my suitcase to live in another city.
Extramarital affairs have a price, it hurts the family too much, it ruins the children, and it also destroys itself, smart people will not wade into this troubled water, they are all adults and know what to do.
To put it bluntly, no one will ruin their future with their own hands, and it will be shameful to do this, embarrassing others, and harming others and themselves.
In the end, a family was dissolved, and no one wanted to see the ending, so that the child instantly lost his mother's love and father's love, and the price paid was too great.
Smart people will keep the distance between men and women, and if it is really interesting, they will also cherish this relationship with peace of mind, as a good memory, and will not go beyond the bottom line. Rest assured, husband and wife should trust each other, think about each other's interests for the sake of the family, and will not do anything sorry for the family.