I am a mother who has just given birth to a son, named Lin Wan'er, 28 years old this year, and I have been married to my husband Zhang Liang for three years. Our son is our sweetheart, and we named him Zhang Xiaobao, hoping that he can grow up healthy and happy.
My husband is an architect and is usually very busy with work, but he loves me and my children very much, and our marriage is very happy. The buildings he designed are very distinctive, and sometimes I go to his construction site to see his work and feel his talent.
My best friend Chen Xiaonan is a kindergarten teacher, she and I grew up together, she is my best friend, and she is also my child's godmother. She is patient and caring with the children, and she says she enjoys playing with them and learning Xi together.
After I gave birth to my son, my body had not fully recovered, and my husband was also very worried about me, so he took a month's vacation to accompany me for confinement. Every day he would make me good food, give me massages, tell me jokes, and make me happy.
However, the confinement process did not go well, I often felt tired, anxious, and depressed, my husband also became a little impatient, and the communication between us became less and less. I felt that I was not fulfilling my responsibilities as a wife and not giving my husband enough attention, and I was disappointed in myself.
One day, my husband suddenly made a ** request to me, I rejected him, he was very unhappy, we had a fight, and we had a cold war all night. I felt like he didn't understand me, didn't respect me, didn't love me anymore, and I cried all night.
The next day, Xiaonan called me and said that she was coming to see me, and I was very happy and felt that there was someone to talk to. I told her about my conflict with my husband, and she comforted me and said that it was normal, and that many postpartum women would have such emotions, and she said that she would help me solve it.
Xiao Nan came and brought a lot of gifts and supplements, she talked to me a lot, which made me feel very warm and gave me some understanding of my husband. She said that my husband is also working hard, and he also needs my support and love, and she said that I should communicate with him more, express my feelings, and listen to his thoughts.
Xiaonan also chatted with her husband for a while, she said that she wanted to tell him some postpartum knowledge to make him more considerate of me, and my husband agreed. I looked at them, I felt a little moved in my heart, but also a little guilty, I felt that I was not good enough for him, and I decided to change my attitude.
Since then, my husband's attitude has changed a lot, he no longer urges me, but cares more about me and the child's body and psychology, and our relationship has also made great progress. He will buy me the east that I like.
He would buy me what I liked, cook me my favorite dishes, tell me about his work and life, sing me my favorite songs, write me letters of anticipation, take me the pictures I wanted, paint me the pictures of my dreams, and do me everything I need.
Our son is also very cute, he can laugh, he can cry, he can scream, he can climb, he can stand, he can walk, he can run, he can jump, he can speak, he can sing, he can draw, he can write, he can read, he can calculate, he can do many, many things. We are all very proud of Him, we all love Him, He is our angel, our hope, our future.
I am very grateful to Xiao Nan, she often comes to visit me and brings me a lot of happiness, she also becomes good friends with her husband, and the three of us often play together. She would take pictures of us, video us, play games for us, tell us things, sing to us, dance for us, cook for us, give us gifts, and do many, many things for us.
One day, I found Xiao Nan and her husband sneaking around in the room, and I felt uneasy, and I suspected that they had something unspeakable. I rushed into the room and found them preparing a handmade birthday party, it turned out that they were trying to surprise me, and I was moved to tears.
I joined them and we made a lot of fun stuff together for my birthday party and I felt happy and happy. We made a big cake with "Happy Birthday, Lin Wan'er" written on it, along with the names of my husband and son. We made a beautiful wreath with lots of flowers, as well as ** for me and my husband and son. We made a cute puppet with lots of smiling faces painted on it, and hearts for me and my husband and son.
On my birthday, we had a warm party at home, and both my husband and Xiaonan prepared a lot of gifts and blessings for me, and I thanked them and said that this was the most meaningful birthday I have ever had. Xiaonan said that she just did what a friend should do, and the most important thing is the relationship between me and my husband, and she hopes that we will always be happy. My husband said that he was very grateful to Xiaonan, she made him understand a lot of things, and also made him love me more, he said that he would always take care of me and the children, and not let me suffer any grievances. I looked at them, my heart was full of emotion, I said I was lucky to have such a husband and girlfriends, I said I loved them, we hugged each other and smiled sweetly.
This is my story, I hope you enjoy it, and I hope you can find your happiness. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best.