Jin Dong was born in 1976 in an ordinary family in Jining, Shandong.
Jin Dong's father was an employee of a supply and marketing cooperative, and in that era when he needed to buy food, clothing, housing and transportation supplies with tickets, Lao Jin's work was particularly popular, and people often asked him to help buy some in-demand goods.
Jin Dong's mother does not have a regular job, except for the occasional temporary job, she has no other stable income**.
Children who grow up in this family environment will not live a luxurious and wealthy life, but they should feel very happy.
In contrast, Jin Dong's parents quarrel every day, which is the opposite of Shao Lan.
Whether it is trivial matters in life or the upbringing and education of children, as long as there is a disagreement, they will not compromise with each other.
Eventually, as the quarrel continued, their relationship gradually faded.
When Jin Dong was 4 years old, the marriage between the two came to an end.
His father chose to keep Jin Dong by his side and leave him to be taken care of by his grandparents as a boy in the family.
When the older generation takes care of children, it is inevitable that they will show excessive doting on them.
Jin Dong's father didn't have the energy to take care of his son after a long day of work.
Under the care of his grandparents, Jin Dong grew up freely.
The child's self-control is not outstanding.
When he was in junior high school, Jin Dong was fascinated by the most popular rock 'n' roll at the time.
It was the early 90s, and cultural life was becoming more diverse.
People's lives have gradually infiltrated Hong Kong and Taiwan TV dramas and rock music.
Jin Dong is a teenage boy who was born with a soft spot for **, especially obsessed with rock and roll**.
As soon as I picked up my guitar, I had less time to read books.
After graduating from junior high school, Jin Dong's grades in Xi were mediocre and he was not admitted to high school, so he had to be admitted to a local general secondary school.
The secondary school era is also an ideal way for young people to go on to higher education.
The quality of teaching in this school is not the most important thing, and after graduation, you will have the opportunity to be placed in a job, and some people will even be able to enter some excellent companies.
Jin Dong loved rock music in junior high school, but he didn't have much hope for his future.
As long as I can be assigned to work as an ordinary worker in a factory, I am already very satisfied. All I expected after graduation was that simple.
Unexpectedly, after Jin Dong graduated, the policy of secondary school package distribution ended.
Graduated undergraduate and junior college students have poured into the job market, completely breaking Jin Dong's original comfortable "iron rice bowl" dream.
Young people have to go out and about, and they can't stay at home all the time.
As a result, many rock fans have suggested that he sing in bars, and given his good looks and good voice, being a resident singer in a bar is also a good choice.
Although the income of this industry is not low, it needs to be sustained by the resources accumulated in its youth.
Jin Dong thought at the time that a middle-aged man might not continue to hold the guitar and sing to others.
When that time comes, even if there is a boss who is willing to accept it, he feels that he has no face.
Even as a resident singer, no matter how many years you have been engaged in it, you can't become a real star.
At that time, bars abounded, and there were only a handful of resident singers who could truly become famous.
After being a singer for a while, Jin Dong began to consider changing careers.
He didn't have a specific direction and didn't know what to do.
Jin Dong later discovered that the bar owner made a considerable income every day.
As a result, he also began to aspire to be a boss.
After several years of savings, Jin Dong finally realized his dream and opened a bar.
What Jin Dong didn't expect was that observing others doing business and running it himself were completely different things.
Jin Dong was not yet 20 years old and suffered huge financial losses shortly after the bar opened.
Jin Dong's childhood friend heard that he opened a bar, so they wanted to talk to him about the past.
When I saw Jin Dong, I didn't expect him to start complaining, talking about the difficulties and losses of his current business.
My friend suddenly asked: You are good-looking and can sing, why don't you consider trying to act?
In fact, Jin Dong has repeatedly thought about this matter many times.
However, due to the lack of professional Xi experience and not knowing people in the field, it is difficult to realize even if there is an idea.
The friend spoke again, seeing the unconcealable expression on Jin Dong's face.
He said that he was the artist of the crew, and if Jin Dong was interested, he could recommend it to him.
When Jin Dong heard these words in the predicament, a glimmer of hope suddenly appeared in his heart, and he suddenly saw a savior. He muttered to himself: "I finally found someone in the circle, maybe I can become famous myself." ”
After Jin Dong arrived in Beijing, he realized that his friend was just an ordinary employee in the crew.
Although he is also familiar with the director, it is simply whimsical to hope that he can play the leading role.
Jin Dong's friends were of course very concerned about his affairs, and soon arranged for him to take a role in the TV series "Oriental Merchant".
The positioning of this character is somewhat awkward, as he plays the main character's teenage years.
Viewers of costume TV series know that this kind of role is often only the main character, and his childhood is often overlooked by most people.
In the Kangxi Dynasty, everyone generally knows that Chen Daoming played the adult Kangxi, but who can remember who the young Kangxi played was?
Jin Dong's role this time is exactly that.
Gao Shuguang really played the role of "Gao Xianyang", and this role was played by Jin Dong.
Gao Shuguang, a native of Shandong, was born in 1964 and graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy and is an authentic graduate of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
When he participated in this play, he had just stepped into the showbiz.
Gao Shuguang was the protagonist at the time, but for Jin Dong, he was not impressed by his youth.
However, the "entanglement" between the two is much more than that.
Because of a woman, their lives intersected again.
Jin Dong participated in the TV series "Mother" in 1998, when he had been adrift in Beijing for 5 years, and played a small role named Zhang Hongbing in the play.
"Mother" is a TV series with the theme of maternal love, and the character played by Jin Dong does not occupy too many scenes in it, he is one of the three children.
However, this drama became an important turning point in Jin Dong's life.
At that time, Yue Hong played the role of "mother" in this drama.
The actor Yue Hong won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress as early as 1985 for her role in the movie "Wild Mountain".
At that time, many of the actors in the play graduated from the ** Drama Academy, and Yue Hong herself also studied at the school.
Yue Hong asked Jin Dong during a break on the set: "You love acting so much, why don't you consider going to ** Drama Academy?."”
Jin Dong didn't actually want to take the exam, mainly because he didn't have professional training, so he wasn't sure if he could get in.
In addition, today's college entrance examination is different from that time.
He was over the age limit at the time because he was 23 years old, and the rules were very strict about the age requirements.
Yue Hong's words made Jin Dong interested in the Chinese drama.
After all, he has been training in the crew for 5 years, has accumulated a lot of experience in acting, and is able to perform on the set, which is much better than those students who attend training classes.
This time, he also got to know the big star Yue Hong, most of the teachers of Chinese opera are insiders, maybe mentioning Yue Hong's name during the exam can make the examiner more fond of him.
On the day of the exam, Jin Dong mistakenly thought that the examiner would not consider the age factor, so he planned to take the exam directly.
The teacher of the Chinese opera directly pointed out that Jin Dong was overage, and at the age of 23, he was asked to be next.
Jin Dong had been preparing for a long time, but this incident frightened him, and he quickly explained to the examiner that he was introduced by Yue Hong.
Relying on Yue Hong's support, Jin Dong successfully passed the preliminary selection of the exam.
Of course, Jin Dong has accumulated many years of experience on the set, and compared with those seventeen or eighteen-year-old children, his acting skills are obviously more profound.
He also successfully became the oldest freshman in the 99th class of Chinese opera.
Despite his age, Jin Dong's appearance is still quite charming.
Jin Dong and Sui Junbo, who was in the same class, became lovers soon after they went to school in Chinese opera.
The role of Hao Dongmei in "The World" is played by actor Sui Junbo.
Although both of them are students of the ** Drama Academy, Sui Junbo's career is much better than that of his boyfriend Jin Dong.
When he was in junior high school, Sui Junbo began his journey Xi dance studies.
Because of his outstanding performance in 1997, he won an award in the Peacock Cup Dance Competition.
Sui Junbo, who is tall and has an outstanding temperament, was quickly selected by many crews to play the leading role in his sophomore year.
In 2001, she co-starred with Weizi, Liu Lili and others in the TV series "Asking Love", and began to gradually become well-known.
In 2003, he co-starred with Gao Hu and others in the TV series "Starry Sky of the City".
Jin Dong's side is quite unfortunate, he sees his girlfriend's career thriving, but he can only compete silently with her behind his back.
If a woman wants to become an actress, she can achieve great success in her career by virtue of her beauty.
However, men are different from women, appearance is only part of the story, and it is more important to find the right role and script for yourself.
There are many excellent scripts to choose from, but for an ordinary Chinese opera student, it is not easy to find a suitable one.
Therefore, Jin Dong could only concentrate on Xi and wait for the time to come.
At that time, he slept less than 5 hours a day and read more than 400 scripts for research.
Until he graduated from college, Sui Junbo signed a contract with Beijing Xinbaoyuan Film and Television Investment Company, and Jin Dong became the "pillar" of the class.
Beijing Xinbaoyuan Company has a famous director Zhao Baogang and others, who have directed popular dramas such as "The Age of Naked Marriage" and "The N Power of Home".
Although Jin Dong became the "King of Kangtou" in the class, the gap is obvious compared with his girlfriend's achievements in signing a big film and television company.
This relationship between a strong woman and a weak man soon ended with the graduation of the two.
Thinking about it carefully, it is actually not difficult to understand that Jin Dong, who was addicted to Xi at that time, had neither time to spend with his girlfriend nor achieved any results.
Even if Sui Junbo himself does not achieve good career achievements, he may not be willing to wait patiently for this man's growth.
Although Jin Dong starred in several plays after graduating from Chinese opera, he has never achieved high popularity and has not shown eye-catching performances.
Until 2006, he and Jiang Shan co-starred in a TV series called "Sad Mother and Son".
Although Jin Dong and Jiang Shan play mother and son in the play, in real life, Jin Dong has a love for this woman named Jiang Shan.
Jiang Shan was 39 years old at the time, while Jin Dong was only 30 years old.
The age difference is not too big, and it is not too small.
Women's mental age is usually more mature than men's, so in general, a few years older for men would be more appropriate. After all, women's mental age is more mature than men's.
There are many problems with the relationship between the two, in addition to the age difference.
Jiang Shan had been married and divorced once at that time and had a child.
What's even more amazing is that her ex-husband turned out to be the actor who played the protagonist Gao Shuguang in "Gao Xianyang" with Jin Dong.
This woman named Jiang Shan has shown a maverick style of daring to love and hate, and being consistent with words and deeds since she was in her 20s.
Jiang Shan met 31-year-old Gao Shuguang when filming the movie "I Want to Have a Home" in 1995. At that time, Jiang Shan was 28 years old.
At that time, Gao Shuguang was handsome and had a successful career, and he was the same age as Jiang Shan, and the two were very compatible.
They fell in love as a result of their shared theatrical activities, and soon confirmed their relationship with each other.
Soon after their relationship began, some problems arose.
Gao Shuguang plans to bring Jiang Shan to Shanghai for development.
Jiang Shan's father was the leader of the Beijing Film Factory, who had worked as a director and screenwriter, and the family had a long tradition of acting and was rooted in Beijing.
Obviously, Jiang Shan's decision to follow Gao Shuguang to Shanghai was a bit reckless and unwise.
At that time, the means of communication were relatively limited, and letter writing was the most common use of *** Although many homes have installed **, but due to the high cost, few people will use **chat for a long time.
This brings a problem, if Jiang Shan marries in Shanghai, once there are contradictions in life, it will be difficult to confide in his family.
Jiang Shan's parents certainly took these issues into consideration and once advised her bitterly.
Despite everyone's opposition, Jiang Shan, who fell in love, had no time to take care of it, and she and Gao Shuguang went to Shanghai after getting married.
She didn't expect to marry Gao Shuguang's Jiang Shan without hesitation, but there was a conflict soon after the marriage.
Gao Shuguang looks resolute and has the same firm and decisive personality;And Jiang Shan has been Xi to rebellion since she was a child, and is a resolute character who is good at fighting based on reason.
The marriage of the two faced many difficulties at first.
Jiang Shan in the south is far away from her parents, but she has no one to talk to about the problems in her marriage.
Soon after, the only support for the relationship between the two was their daughter Gao Yixin.
In 2003, this fragile marriage came to an end, and her daughter Gao Yixin was raised by Jiang Shan.
When Jin Dong met Jiang Shan in 2006, she had been divorced for 3 years.
She didn't expect much from her relationship.
However, Jin Dong showed an extremely serious attitude.
When Jin Dong confessed to Jiang Shan, Jiang Shan frankly confessed that he had been divorced and had an 8-year-old daughter.
Jin Dong is firm and persistent, he said: "I don't care about this. ”
Yang Jiangshan has some liking for Jin Dong, and since men don't care, she has no choice but to refuse.
During that time, Jiang Shan tried her best to promote the development of Jin Dong's career.
At that time, she had already become a domestic first-line actress because of her starring in dramas such as "Addicted", and she had a very wide range of connections in the circle.
During that period, Jin Dong's career flourished, he not only starred in "Dongfang Shuo" as "Emperor Liu Che of the Han Dynasty", but also played the "revolutionary" Yue Zhensheng, who was well received by the audience, in CCTV's National Day gift film "Special Competition".
Originally, a man is infatuated with a woman, and the woman can promote the growth of men, this kind of love is very perfect.
Jiang Shan asked Jin Dong about the marriage date again and again, but Jin Dong always avoided answering.
Jin Dong actually did not reject marriage, but because Gao Yixin became an obstacle between them.
Gao Yixin was only a teenager at the time, and he was at an age when his understanding of feelings was ambiguous.
She understands that her mother longs for love and should start married life again, but she hopes that her mother can choose a mature and stable man to become the pillar of their mother and daughter.
At that time, Jin Dong, no matter how famous he was, was 9 years younger than Jiang Shan, which obviously did not meet Gao Yixin's expectations of a "mature man".
Although Jin Dong has tried her best to please his girlfriend's daughter, she has always been suspicious of Jin Dong's uncle.
Jiang Shan also began to waver because of her daughter's resolute attitude.
Jin Dong found that if he wanted to marry Jiang Shan, it could lead to a "break" between Jiang Shan and his daughter.
This practice is bound to be very bothersome for the girlfriend.
If he insists on marrying Jiang Shan, it is easy to arouse the suspicion of the outside world about his "eating soft rice" behavior, which will hurt his self-esteem.
Although Jin Dong was not very famous at the time, he was very attentive in acting.
He is confident that his efforts will be successful one day in the future.
With Jin Dong's departure, this relationship, which lasted for 5 years, had to break up helplessly.
At the time, there were many rumors about the end of the relationship.
It is rumored that Jin Dong began to get tired of Jiang Shan, a second-married woman, after playing the leading role many times, and finally when the two quarreled, Jin Dong impulsively proposed to break up.
These rumors are in fact a slander created out of complete malice.
Jin Dong was in love with Jiang Shan at the time, and Jiang Shan also loved Jin Dong deeply.
A woman in her 40s with the responsibility of a child does not pursue love as unscrupulously as a young person.
Jin Dong really loves this woman, so he naturally doesn't want to bother her.
I withdrew from this relationship, not only to allow Jiang Shan's maternal love to be realized, but also to draw a decent end to my love life.
Their breakup was by no means what the outside world had speculated, it was just impulsive.
Regarding the dislike of Jiang Shan's second marriage, it is actually completely groundless.
Jin Dong's new lover Li Jia also experienced an unhappy marriage after breaking up with Jiang Shan.
Jin Dong and Li Jia came together because of the TV series "Youth Never Say Die", and then soon formed a family.
Jin Dong's image is often shown in many film and television dramas as a mature man with rich love experience.
However, in reality, he behaves so simply and low-key in life, even a little like a child.
He never uses scandals to hype, nor does he create topics through his private life.
His success has been achieved through his own efforts and struggles.
Since 2017, he has starred in many urban dramas such as "Mr. Love", "The First Half of My Life", and "Elite Lawyer", all of which have become benchmarks in the industry.
Although he has worked with countless beautiful actresses, there is not a trace of scandal.
After the breakup, Jiang Shan started a new relationship with Tian Xiaojie, a veteran actor in the TV series "Towards the Republic".
It is rumored that Gao Yixin is very satisfied with this relationship, and Jiang Shan's daughter is said to be so.
It is often said that the most beautiful love is to hold hands and be with each other until they grow old together.
Giving up love, in order to make the person you love happy, in many cases, may be another manifestation of beauty.