In getting along with our families, we often encounter some special occasions, such as having dinner for the first time with my brother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In this case, we may feel a little nervous and overwhelmed, not knowing how to chat in a way that is not too rusty and not too enthusiastic. Below, I'll give you some chat suggestions to help you better cope with the situation.
First of all, we need to understand that eating with our brother-in-law and daughter-in-law is part of our family life, and we don't need to be too nervous. We can see her as family and treat her with equality and respect.
1.Ask about her current situation: In the chat, we can ask her about her current situation, such as work, life, health, etc. This can both show that we care about her and make the chat more natural and relaxed.
2.Common topics: We can look for some common topics, such as common interests, common favorite movies or books, etc. This way, we can get to know her more deeply and also make the chat more interesting.
3.Family affairs: We can also talk about some family affairs, such as family gatherings, family traditions, etc. This will not only allow her to get to know our family better, but also enhance the bond between us.
4.Respect and listen: In the chat, we need to respect her point of view and listen patiently to what she has to say. This can both make her feel respected and make the conversation more harmonious.
For example, my friend Xiaoli, the first time she had dinner with her brother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she used the above chatting method. She first asked about the current situation of her brother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then found their common interests and hobbies, and then talked about some family affairs. During the chat, she always respects and listens to the views of her brother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a result, their chat was very pleasant, and Xiaoli also successfully narrowed the distance between her brother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In general, when we have dinner with our brother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we should treat her with equal and respect, and make the conversation neither too rusty nor overly enthusiastic by asking about the current situation, finding common topics, and chatting about family affairs. Only in this way can we get along with her better and enhance the family relationship between us.
Finally, I would like to say that getting along with family is an art that we need to keep learning Xi and improving. Eating with your brother-in-law and daughter-in-law is just one of them. As long as we treat and chat with our hearts, we will definitely be able to establish a deep relationship with her. Let's work together to make our lives better!