The children of Xiaoli's family have been procrastinating since they were children, and they always wait for a long time before going to school every day. Xiaoli is also very worried about this, "Now the child is still young, and the study is not particularly nervous, so it's okay to rub it off, but what to do in the future, do you want to correct these problems when you grow up?"So Xiaoli wants to help the child get rid of this bad habit. 
The child is inexperienced.
Many parents say that their children are procrastinating, and what could have been done in 3 minutes ended up taking 5 minutes for their children. Parents only see that the child is doing things slowly, whether they have thought about whether the child is going to do something that the child is familiar with, and whether the child has done this before. Maybe it's not the child who is deliberately procrastinatingAnd the child does not know enough about the matter itself, and the inexperienced child will of course be slow to do it.
Silent rebellion against parents.
If parents are too strict with their children, it is easy for them to have a rebellious mentality and have to work against their parents. Many parents have a full schedule for their children, various tutoring and interest training classes, as well as homework assignments assigned by school.
The child is physically and mentally exhausted at the end of the day, so he deliberately procrastinates against his parents. Anyway, it's a day to be fast, and it's a day to be slow, and it's going to be filled up by parents. So the child will use this way to express dissatisfaction.
Experience the results – bear the consequences of procrastination
The previous habit of eating slowly in kindergarten with a small tip is also brought to the home, resulting in a slow meal at home. Usually, the old man went with him. As soon as our family eats, the children are the last, grinding and chirping.
If this procrastination is tolerated, the child will not be able to change the habit even if he has mastered the time scale. At this time, the parents decisively put away the bowl and let the child experience the consequences of starvation.
Sometimes ruthlessness is actually the greatest help to children. He must be made to realize that procrastination is not good for himself.
Usually face the consequences of procrastination
At the moment when the child is procrastinating, it is not appropriate to make a big reason, because saying it will only make things worse. But at the moment when the procrastination happens, even if the child is late or postponed due to the child's procrastination, it is the "natural consequence" of the child, and he needs to be responsible for his own actions, and even bear the corresponding consequences, so we let this natural consequence happen.
My two children have been procrastinating on going to school, because the traffic from my home to the school is not too smooth, if I go out too late, basically the traffic jam is an hour, which affects the class, not to mention, I also need to go to the school secretary's office to get a "late card". These consequences are all experienced by my children, and we just need to speak out objectively and calmly in the moment, "Because we were 5 minutes late, we were stuck in traffic jams for 1 hour." It's a very uncomfortable process, and I can feel your anxiety too. ”
Help your child develop a sense of time
One of the most important problems of procrastination is laziness, and the main culprit of laziness is the lack of a strong sense of time. For example, if you set a time to get up every day, accept a small punishment if you don't get up on time, and if your child doesn't need to be called by your parents over and over again, you should reward your child in time to reinforce the recurrence of this positive behavior.
The sooner parents guide their children to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
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Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
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Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
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