After the age of forty, please put away your "generosity".
At the age of forty, an important node in life, like a ship sailing into the deep sea, begins to explore the vast ocean of life. Many people believe that the age of forty is the pinnacle of life, the accumulation of life experience, and the precipitation of social status. However, this age is also a stage when life concepts, habits, and attitudes begin to be shaped. Especially the following four things, the more generous, the easier it is for our blessings to slip away.
First things first: be generous with your health. Health is the wealth of life and the cornerstone of blessings. Overwork, not paying attention to diet, not paying attention to exercise, these generous behaviors will only weaken our body gradually. And a healthy you can have enough energy to face the challenges of life and enjoy the beauty of life.
The second thing: Generously waste time and energy on meaningless things. Life is short, and we can't afford to waste precious time and energy on meaningless things. The pursuit of superficial honor and material comforts will only cause us to miss out on true happiness. When we generously spend our time and energy on meaningful things, our blessings accumulate unconsciously.
The third thing: be generous to others and neglect yourself. A kind person always treats others generously, which is our merit. However, if we are so generous that we ignore our own needs and feelings, then we lose our own value. We must learn to respect ourselves in order to earn the respect of others. When we focus on our heart's needs, our blessings will follow.
The fourth thing: being overly generous means lacking self-confidence. When we care too much about what others think and evaluate, we lose ourselves and become too generous. We may abandon our principles and values in order to fit in with others, which will only lead to a growing lack of self-confidence. Self-confidence is the source of our blessings, and only when we believe in ourselves can we have true blessings.
To sum up, after the age of forty, please put away your "generosity". Be generous with your health, value your time, respect others, focus on your inner needs, and be confident. Only in this way can we truly be blessed and enjoy the beauty of life. Let's grasp every moment after the age of 40 and create our own happy life. Search Topic Full Time Challenge December