In this issue, we talk about how to restart life and how to re-understand oneself and the laws of the world when people reach the age of their establishment. The age of 30-40 is undoubtedly an important turning point in your life, it connects the previous and the next, and if you don't open your mind, the second half of your life will probably be more chaotic and difficult. After reading this chapter, you will be in the second half.
Flying flowers and picking leaves, seeing sex and becoming a Buddha
Okay, let's get started.
Stop the mental internal friction for all causes. You should remember that all mental internal friction is meaningless, and will not bring you positive results other than the dissipation of your self-sufficient life. Life is a process of living towards death, the sooner you survive rationally, the sooner you seek truth and truth, and good results will appear in advance. Please let go of obsessions, stop negative emotions, find positive thinking models, and think quietly and Xi.
In fact, when people reach around 35, there is a high probability that they will experience a period of confusion, the reason is very simple, at this age, what should be encountered, what should be experienced, more or less has happened. Past results are the result of cognitive drive at a young age. If the result is not good, you will inevitably be confused. We clash with past perceptions and even subvert perceptions through unexpected events. I would say that this is all too normal. The solution is to read books, or listen to the voices or guidance of those who have obtained the results, try to understand some concepts and concepts that have been rejected in the past, and try to use objective deduction and logical deduction to dismantle those ideas that have never been agreed.
People are systems, and everything is the driving force behind ideas。Remember, if it doesn't work out, it's something wrong with the idea. The past is the past, the present is the present, and the future is the future. This part will involve cosmology, so I won't expand on it for now, but I can give a conclusion, if you believe it, you have it, and if you don't believe it, you don't. Whatever you do, be mindful and have strong faith. Human behavior is driven by the mind, and the difference lies in whether the mind is strong enough.
We don't touch everything that is wrong, including emotions。We don't take the wrong money, we don't touch the wrong emotions. If, in the past, you have done something wrong, now wait for the consequences to happen and end. If the error continues, kill it. Where there is a cause, there must be an effect, and what is bad is called evil fruit, and what is good is called good fruit.
It is impossible for good and evil to happen at the same time, this is an objective law, which cannot be delusional, and no one can violate it.
We have to stay away, and we have to stay away from people and environments that are not positive. I repeat this sentence every time, people are the environment, and the animal is the environment that determines you, not you who change the environment. Specifically, the environment determines your perception, determines your wealth, and determines what you have. If you want to be better, you must change the environment, the people and information you come into contact with, which is the basis for becoming better. What is good? Is there only to do things to make money? In the world, we don't want to admit the fact thatWealth solves everything, and,There is only contrast, there is no absolute right and wrongYesNot all are transformed in the midst of fickleness.
In other words, anxiety is that you don't have enough money in your pocket, no matter men or women, take care of yourself, keep an eye on the results, focus on your career, and you will find that normal people are meeting on the way to do the right thing. On the contrary, people who don't do things, who like to create anxiety and prove everything with their mouths, never act, never face up to problems, and never solve problems.
Enjoy solitude and fall in love with solitudeChaseAsk for solitude.
This paragraph is actually the content of the cosmology, many extremely simple truths, we did not understand in the past, for example, the normal state of the world is changeable, but we always default to change is wrong, it is wrong. People construct such concepts at the bottom, and the cognitive behavior in the future will make us anxious all the way, inner turmoil, and the pursuit of unchangeable that violates the law.
Another basic common sense is,Loneliness is the norm. Loneliness is one of the most normal states.
People are animals, you see in nature, which animal feels lonely? Loneliness is a normal thing, it must exist like sunlight, air, and gravity. If you are still competing on this road, then you are destined to be really lonely and old in the second half of your life, and no one cares. Because you will waste time in pursuit of not being lonely, you will inevitably not be able to concentrate on things.
If things are not done well, there will be no wealth, and without wealth, many problems in life will not be solved. The quality of natural life cannot be high, so be sure to value time.
The cost of lifeIt's not lost wealth at all, it's your time, it's your thoughts
Time and thought are the biggest, heaviest costs. In fact, a person's life is based on brain power, not other abilities at all. Who can do the precept of wisdom. It is an inevitable process to discipline oneself, not to think nonsense, to focus on doing things, to produce concentration, and to give birth to wisdom in continuous concentration. Whoever understands the laws of nature faster and understands human nature the fastest will win at the core.
Stand in a higher dimension to deal with trivial matters in the world, and never learn shortcuts, and don't deceive. There are only parties in the world, there are no shortcuts, and don't deceive people, don't deceive anyone, and tell you clearly that all deception will make you pay a high price, and it will be difficult to turn back. Deception will distract your cognition, lead you astray, make it difficult to extricate yourself, cloud your mind like a fog, make you unable to see the truth, and the biggest price to pay for it is the time to turn back. Let you lose your good relationship and miss the opportunity.
Hint, two of the lies that are easy to fall into the wrong are:
White lies and exaggerations
They are more deadly, harming others and themselves. Make money and do things, everyone fights to the end is honesty and integrity, and integrity is the gold hand, it is the amplifier of interests, please learn to be truly silent, other people's business has nothing to do with you, your business has nothing to do with others, as long as there is no conflict of interests, you don't need to refute anyone. Don't prove yourself unless you have to, and pay attention to cause and effect, and finally don't understand cause and effect. All the germination is surging in silence, we never pity ourselves, bow our heads to do things, do not hesitate, do not ask about the future.
All enlightenment is the result of long-term thinkingTherefore, you need to think carefully about the reasons for the past results, review and identify the root causes. Remember, all problems are their own problems, they are all the inevitable results of their own mistakes, and finding the root cause requires a lot of thinking and summarizing. In this process, if you always feel that you are still right, it must be a big problem. The strong always think that they are wrong, and the weak always think that they are right.
Clearly know that success is to be able to continue to deliver results, and the fundamental reason why you can attract others is that you can always present one successful result after another, continue to output positive energy, and that's it. So what you have to do is to come up with the result, present the result, and in the meantime, if you fall down, it doesn't matter, get up and go into the battlefield again, and win again. At this time, all the good will emerge again, as long as you are not afraid of failure, never admit defeat, and turn the small probability of success into a large probability of success, you will master the secret of success, please deliberately practice Xi, repeatedly practice Xi, this is not difficult, everything needs to be operated, everything is cooperation.
Sounds cold-blooded, right? There is no love word in the whole article, because the essential relationship between people is the relationship between supply and demand, and the cooperative relationship, these relationships need to be managed by your heart. Human nature is selfish and full of desires, and you have to manage. can get the desired results, rather than choosing to blindly believe in human nature.
Remember, there is no high or low person, only available and unavailable are on the available person, to awaken the other person's motivation to do things, not to remove his resistance to do things, this is the way. And admit that the world is a game, the weak think everything is unpredictable, and the strong understand that everything is regular, which in itself is a huge cognitive gap.
I didn't work hard enough, and I fought for my life. In fact, all of us can only change our lives by fighting for our lives, hard work is the upper limit of ordinary people, and we can only break through by fighting for our lives, I made this clear. Fighting for life is not a brainless struggle, but in the things that can be understood, things within one's ability, fighting hard, often the fastest runner, never wear shoes. As a special reminder, this is about mentality, not money. Seize the opportunity, keep an eye on the goal, and control the risk.
All risks come from not leaving room for yourself. The leeway here is not to leave a backhand, but to have a leeway in money. In general, we must develop that even if we lose money in the project, the remaining surplus food in our pockets can be turned over and made a comeback. You know, the hardest part is always 0 to 1, not 1 to infinity. Therefore, we must seize the opportunity and have a clear goal, but in the end, we must have a bottom-line awareness and risk control concept, and a penny will stump the hero.
Speaking of which, on how to turn the tables, I will issue a separate issue, and the turnaround has its own rules, and it will not be expanded in this issue. People are divided into three levels of cognition, and you choose for yourself.
The third category is people who don't think when they see anyone or anything, and rarely act.
The second category is people who see anyone or something, and always want to figure out why before they can act.
First, when you see anyone or something, you don't ask the reason, you just look at the results, and you're done.
Here, I personally suggest that we would rather be fools who can make money than smart people who don't make money. In the end, life is an account, in which every account is completely written by oneself, and the merits and demerits are not arranged by others. Eventually, you will see that the essence of life is that everything is the inevitable decision that you make under your cognition, and that's it.
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