Mountains, staggered;Human, tall, short, fat and thin.
The Tao Te Ching says: "When the sergeant heard the Tao, he persuaded him to do it."When the sergeant heard this, if he survived, he diedWhen the corporal heard this, he laughed. ”
Compared with the appearance of people, people are more stratified by wisdom, status, wealth, etc.
Whoever you meet, it's fate, but people at different levels can't talk together, and everyone is Xi to interacting with people at the same level.
Don't forget, the level of people changes.
In social interactions, be visionary, see the present moment as the beginning of change, and save the best relationships for the end.
People are not arrogant, low-key and humble.
Too many people, mixed up at the top, immediately show a high-toe appearance.
The words are a few decibels higher, and all kinds of words that look down on people are on the lips. Treat low-level people as if they were their own slaves. He thinks that low-level people should serve themselves and obey themselves.
Don't forget, tall buildings rise from the ground. There is no ground floor building, and high-level people are standing in the sky.
No matter how tall the person is, counting up the generations, he is still a farmer.
A person who is truly a visionary, the higher his level, the more low-key, and has the characteristics of a loud voice.
During the Tang Dynasty, he made achievements in literature and painting, and he also became a big official in Chang'an City, and he was very famous.
Many students seek to find Gu Gu and hope to be recommended.
Bai Juyi brought his own poems and texts to take care of the situation.
Gu Guo said: "Juyi, everything in Chang'an is expensive, and it is not easy to mix." ”
After a while, I saw the sentence "Leaving the grass on the plain, one year old and one withering", and said: "With these literary talents, it will be easy to live in Chang'an, and you can live." ”
Then, considering the situation, Bai Juyi was recommended, and they became friends with each other.
Although he is in a high position, he is very dissatisfied with the luxurious life of the nobles. The poem said: "Light and thin, the face is like jade, and the spring breeze of Zimo wraps around the horse's feet." ”
Because he is willing to help students, he has a good reputation and is highly rated.
Emperor Tang Xizong, in the face of students, foresight is not enough. When he saw Huang Chao, who was born as a merchant, he felt that his appearance was ugly, so he removed him from the title of champion;At the beginning of the Huangchao Uprising, many ** people thought that as long as they went to Zhao'an, they would be fine, but the emperor thought that he was a thief and was not worth it.
The Huangchao Rebellion, which eventually led to the fall of the Tang Dynasty.
The grassroots raised their arms and exhaled, maybe there was no power;In front of the powerful, it is inevitable that the mantis arm is used as a car. But every grassroots is unstoppable.
All that is crushed will become the power that hits the bottom. Don't crush anyone, put away your arrogance, smile and bow your head, and don't look down on anyone.
People do not complain and forge ahead.
People are under the roof and have to bow their heads, this is the norm. It is also a scene that many people do not want to see.
Even if the parents live in their children's homes, they are also very wronged, and everyone wants to be the parents all the time.
In the workplace, a soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier. Everybody wants to be in a position of authority.
How to get on the throne, not all people can get their wish and take the right path. There is no absolute fairness either. Therefore, it is inevitable to arouse the resentment of the people at the bottom.
Think about it, what's the use of complaining?It's just that it consumes his own spirit, and when others are on the side, he will steal the fun.
As for people, first of all, they must look down on themselves.There is a story in "Northern Dream Trivia".
Li Guyan, the son of the Tang Dynasty, did not improve when he was a fledgling, and he had no connections. To be an official must be difficult.
In the first scientific expedition, he failed the list. His peers laughed at him for days.
When Li Guyan's entanglement ran out, the Liu brothers who were traveling with him put a note on his headscarf that read, "There is a house for rent here", and he had no intention of helping.
In order to change himself, he stubbornly found ** Xu Changshi. At that time, Xu Changshou was being ostracized by officialdom, and he attached great importance to Li Guyan's visit.
A dog has his day. In the next scientific examination, Xu Changshi became the examiner, and Li Guyan also won the first place. My own efforts, coupled with good personal connections, have made me who I am.
Many people live at the bottom, either willing to live under the people, or lie down, hating the rich and hating the officials. To do so is to despise oneself and suppress oneself.
People are poor, and they must have backbone. If you think of yourself as a normal person and maintain a positive attitude, you will be looked down upon.
The people that the society wants to help are all people who dare to work hard, and they are never people who are willing to fall.
There is no group among people, and there is no fear of loneliness.
In this life, there will be a lot of time in groups.
If you are Xi to being in the clouds and blindly obeying others, you will definitely lose yourself.
Others are always bullying you, maybe you are too obedient. Such Xi must be changed.
"Hanshu Jing Thirteen Kings Biography" said: "The husband is only elegant, outstanding." ”A swan, mixed in a flock of chickens and ducks, is an ugly duckling, bullied by ducks. When the swan leaves the chickens and ducks and swims in the lake, it becomes a real swan.
In the world of crows, swans are also guilty. This sentence is to warn us to keep a clear head and dare to be independent in the group.
Tang Bohu said: "Others laugh at me for being too crazy, and I laugh at others who can't see through it." ”People can't stay in one group all their lives, they must go out of the low-level group and go to the high-level group according to their own development. You are brave enough to be yourself, interspersed in many groups, and there is always a better way to go around a few times.
Understand that there are two situations when a person is lonely: being excluded by everyone and isolated;Actively isolate groups. Take the initiative and you will be able to "stay alone".
Life is destined to be ups and downs, you should never let yourself live in a straight line, let alone be cocooned.
People are in high places, keep a low profile, not incompetent, but introverted, and consolidate their mass base.
People are in a low place, full of confidence, not blindly confident, but step by step, accumulation.
People are in the middle, do not dislike the group, do not please the group, are neither humble nor arrogant, and live as the mainstay of the group.
Of course, we also have to judge how the people around us will develop, and be in the company of those who are also actively struggling, and stay away from those who are resigned to fate.
Life is a mirror, and whatever posture you have, you will live to what level.
Climb high and look into the distance, and see the mountains at a glance.
Look down at the road, step by step.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The picture in the article is ** on the Internet.