Every family wants to make a fortune, but the wealth is in the **?
The saddest thing is that some families have already made a fortune, but when it comes to the generation of their children, they are quickly lost.
As the ancients said: "Becoming a family is like a treasure;."Loser, money is like grass. ”
If you look at it, you will understand that the family's financial fortune can be known by looking at the appearance of the child.
The appearance of the child has a lot to do with the "family business".
There is a difference between a person's appearance and spirit. A delicate appearance that can make a good first impression;Full of energy, it can bring a lasting temperament, and it also reflects a good upbringing.
Over time, we will see people's hearts and the truth.
In the Ming Dynasty, there were four great talents in the south of the Yangtze River, namely Wen Zhengming, Zhu Yunming, Tang Bohu, Xu Zhenqing, who were proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
Wen Zhengming and Tang Bohu are still very good friends and have had a friendship since childhood, but their life careers are very different.
When he was a child, Wen Zhengming looked wooden, and he couldn't speak at the age of seven. His mother died young, and he had to be placed in foster care with his maternal grandmother.
At the age of eleven, Wen Zhengming was able to speak well and began to enter private school.
When the father Wenlin saw his son's appearance, he was not sad, but said:"Fortunately, it is a late bloomer, and it is harmless. ”It means that the son is a late bloomer and is not harmful.
After Wen Zhengming grew up, he did many scientific examinations, but he did not get into the Jinshi.
Fortunately, Li Chongsi, the secretary of the Ministry of Industry, recommended Wen Zhengming and made him an edict of the Hanlin Academy. The salary is not high, but life can be regarded as rising.
Look at Tang Bohu again, he has been handsome since he was a child, he is also smart, and he can get the first place in every exam.
As a friend, Wen Zhengming persuaded Tang Bohu to be a low-key person;As an elder and teacher, Wenlin tactfully reminded Tang Bohu not to be too crazy.
The spring breeze is proud", Tang Bohu, who is thriving in his life, was involved in the exam fraud case because he handed in the exam papers too quickly in the examination room, and because he was jealous and other reasons, and never had the opportunity to enter the examination room again, and his career was interrupted.
Then, Tang Bohu's family changed, and the husband and wife turned against each other, and they were in a slump for many years, borrowing wine to drown their sorrows. Life also needs to be helped by friends, and the Taohuawu where you live looks dilapidated.
People commented on Tang Bohu"Mo Niantuo is slightly arrogant and slangy. ”
Judging from the life trajectories of the above two celebrities, their appearance is different in two aspects.
The first aspect: when they were young, one was dull in appearance and not very good in spirit, and appeared to be very honest;A smart and clever man, with a good spirit, but very arrogant.
The second aspect: when they grow up, one moves forward steadily, although it is not smooth, but it is very steady;A wanderer, looking for "poor happiness" everywhere, there are many tragedies.
The Japanese writer Soichi Otaku once said, "A person's face is a resume." ”In the process of growing up, the change of appearance is closely related to the change of life.
People are in good spirits when they are happy, but people suffer a lot of tears. Too many people's sophistication and life ideals are written on their faces;From the heart.
The fortune of the family is in the appearance of the child.
Whether a family is prosperous or not is the result of the hard work of the parents, but whether everything can be sustainable or not is the child's "final say".
A change in a child's appearance is essentially a change in the family's financial fortune. The gap in children's appearance is the beginning of the family gap.
As the saying goes, "A good-looking skin is the same, and an interesting soul is one in a thousand." ”Combining physical appearance and spiritual appearance, there are three kinds of children's appearance in a wealthy family.
First, the appearance is clean and the Xi is good.
People who love cleanliness since childhood, most of them have developed hygiene, frequent face washing, parents pay attention to words and deeds, and supervision is also in place.
When we see that the child has a clean face and is well dressed, we are willing to get close. Anyone can have their hands free, hug them, and give them some candy or something.
The habit of loving clean Xi will let children know to be diligent and thrifty, classify and organize things, and self-discipline will be more in place from an early age.
Second, he looks confident and confident.
Being a man and full of self-confidence means that there is a design for the future, and there is a high probability that it can be realized.
The foundation of self-confidence is that he reads a lot, his life ideals are very full, and his family is also very supportive of his ideals.
Liu Xiu, the founding emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty, went to Chang'an to study alone when he was young.
Although he is a royal person, by his generation, it has declined, and he is dressed like a cloth shirt.
He saw ** walking on the road, very magnificent, so he wrote"Shi Eun should be the ruling Jinwu, and marrying a wife should be Yin Lihua." ”Express your ideals.
For everything you have, the future of the family, is in control, it is not difficult to keep the wealth left by your parents, and continue to make a fortune.
Third, the appearance is harmonious and cohesive.
Home and everything is prosperous. The signs of "harmony" have been there since childhood, and they do not suddenly appear when they grow up.
The relationship between brothers and sisters has been very good since childhood, and the love of parents can also take care of all children, so there is family harmony.
After seeing "Kong Rong Rang Pear", I want to train my children to be people who take the initiative to be polite.
Parents are old, and it is a great relief to see their children grow in harmony and wealth. The family business is destined to get bigger and bigger.
Parents are a child's first teacher, and the family is a child's first school.
Parents of the body's hair and skin. The appearance of the child follows the appearance of the parents, which is difficult to change. What really needs to change is the way the spirit looks.
First of all, the church is also a kind person, with more compassion on his face.
The Sutra of the Altar of the Six Ancestors says: "All blessings are inseparable from the heart." "Sow beauty in the soul and pass on the idea of helping each other, one day, the network will be good, and humanity will be sunny. Wealth is the reward of life.
Then, teach your child to read and improve your temperament.
Reading more, people appear energetic, and can use cognition to make money, killing multiple birds with one stone.
Finally, teach children how to communicate and improve emotional intelligence and emotional value.
At any time, treat people with a pleasant face, and you will not worry about network resources. In the future, children can make friends with their playmates and classmates, forming a situation where everyone collects firewood.
Cultivating children is the process of planting in spring and harvesting in autumn, and parents have done it, which is 10,000 times better than directly leaving wealth to their children.
Understand that children are the ones who create the industry, not the ones who inherit the inheritance.
You must understand that to lift your spirits is to be rich.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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