When two people are together, it's usually about feelings.
However, "the economic base determines the superstructure", without the support of money, love will add a bit of bitterness through the hardships of life.
Therefore, when people have love, they always think of "bread".
And women have always been emotional, and the love she wants is not only money, but also three very important things.
If you give her everything, she will feel satisfied even if the money is less.
Understanding is one of the most important methods in interpersonal communication, especially in feelings, if you can understand each other, then there will be less friction between two people, more understanding, and the relationship will gradually become deeper.
In most Chinese families, the male dominates the outside and the female dominates the interior.
Although people are used to it and it seems calm, there are undercurrents hidden beneath the calm surface.
I don't know how many housewives have heard their husbands say, "Stay at home every day and do nothing but say you're tired!."”
Dealing with endless chores at home, tired and having back pain, will take care of the family in an orderly manner, so that the husband has a relaxed and comfortable rest environment after work;
But their hard work was not recognized, the sacrifice of housewives was not understood, and over time, the grievances in their hearts could not be repeated.
Two people will also be estranged because they don't understand, and the distance between hearts will become farther and farther apart.
If a man learns to be a woman, to think in her way, to put himself in her shoes, then he will be able to understand her to the fullest.
Otherwise, the relationship between the two people will slowly fade, and in the end, the two phases will never go back to the past.
I am convinced of this sentence.
Listening is heart-to-heart communication, which allows you to understand others, help others share weal and woe, and can also allow yourself to rely on and help others realize their own shortcomings.
As we listen to each other's thoughts, the two hearts draw closer and closer.
Lin Xiu (not her real name) considers herself lucky to have found a husband who is willing to listen to her.
She is a talkative person who likes to share the bits and pieces of her life with others, and if she doesn't say it, then she will feel depressed;
Her husband loves to listen to her tell stories about her life and finds it relaxing, and sometimes he tells her stories about his work.
Two people listen to each other and gradually enter each other's deeper inner world.
Therefore, their feelings are as sweet as ever, if not sweeter than before.
There are many things in everyone's life, and there are always one or two things that can touch people's hearts and cause infinite thinking.
At this time, people will have a desire to share and want to tell others what is in their hearts.
If you can listen to the other person, then you can get into her heart and strengthen your relationship.
Everyone has their own temper and shows it when things don't go their way.
Or angry, or impatient, but because of face, they will not attack outside, but leave these bad emotions at home and show them to those closest to them.
A bad temper is like a sharp knife that pierces a person's heart, and even if it heals, the pain is hard to forget.
If a person is tied up too much, the heart will be numb, but there will be no longer expectations for feelings.
Usually when a person dies, a relationship ends.