With the change of the times, it is not difficult to find that many boys' concept of life is undergoing profound changes. They refuse to be bound by traditional social frameworks and pursue a free, unfettered life. However, behind this choice, is there a hidden worry and helplessness for the future?
The protagonist of the story, a boy born in 91, is now 33 years old. He rejected his parents' suggestion to buy a property for him and chose to live in a rented house in the city. Almost all of the monthly salary is spent on eating, drinking, and traveling with friends. For him, life is not only a cycle of work and mortgage, but also experience and enjoyment.
Why did he make such a choice?Perhaps, this is exactly what he pursues "freedom". In his opinion, once you take on a mortgage, the pressure of life will follow, and you will work hard for a fixed goal every day, and you will lose more possibilities. He was afraid of the responsibilities that came with marriage and family, and he was afraid that a decision would bind his future path.
The boy's story is not unique. More and more young people are beginning to reflect on traditional values, and they are not willing to live for the expectations of society, but choose the life they really want. However, behind this "freedom", is there also a kind of uncertainty about the future and an evasion of responsibility?
Of course, we can't simply judge whether their choice is right or wrong. Everyone has the right to decide how they live. But what we need to think about is whether this choice really makes them feel satisfied and happyDid they really experience the true meaning of life?
Perhaps, true happiness does not lie in the evaluation and recognition of the outside world, but in the inner satisfaction and peace. Whatever lifestyle you choose, it's important to find your way and be brave enough to go ahead.
For the choice of this post-90s boy, we don't need to make a premature conclusion. Maybe over time, he will rejoice in his decision;Maybe at some point in the future, he will realize the beauty of another life. In any case, let's respect everyone's choice, because life itself is a journey, and everyone has the right to choose their own destination and route. Social