Master Hongyi said: "The boat does not think about the people on the shore, the boat does not lift the boat, the old people do not need to know the latest situation, and the newcomers do not need to ask about the past. "The best way to live is to learn to "let go" and not think that life is not in a hurry to fight for it, it is a loss;Being able to calm down and reduce some of the impulsive behavior is a real reward. If a thought is persistent, everything is suffering;If an idea is put down, a person is born again. ”
All the pain in life is because of perseverance. The things you cling to, the things that bind you, suppress you, and hurt you. Once you let go, life will be liberated, and your body and mind will be relaxed and free.
In "The Return of the Congo Heroes", when her beloved lover Lu Zhanyuan betrays her and marries a woman named He Yuanjun, Li Mochou begins to kill and poison innocent people. In order to take revenge, Li Mochou killed the whole family of the He butcher, just because his surname was He. And burned 36 warehouses and ships in the Yuanjiang River because they had a "yuan" on their signboard.
Li Mochou killed people to kill people, neither to save his lover, nor to open his heart. She sank deeper, more painful, more desperate.
Hatred is the most poisonous poison in the world, and it can completely destroy a person without a person. People who live in hatred can never feel the happiness of life.
To let go of hatred is not to let go of the person you hate, but to let go of yourself. If there is a problem, solve it, and don't resent this extreme emotion to torture yourself, distort yourself, and destroy yourself.
In Yu Hua's ** "Wencheng", Lin Xiangfu, a wealthy son, met a woman named Mei. They fell in love, got married, and gave birth to a daughter.
However, Xiaomei suddenly said goodbye without saying goodbye, came back once in the middle, and left again. Lin Xiangfu couldn't let Xiaomei go, and handed over the family's business to the servant, according to his imaginary Xiaomei's voice and smile, he thought that she should be a southerner, so he took his daughter and traveled thousands of miles to find a wife.
He is very persistent in Xiaomei and has never given up looking for more than ten years. However, what he didn't know was that Xiaomei was a ** at all, and Lin Xiangfu's encounter and marriage were completely agreed upon by Xiaomei and his lover**.
Life is a journey with no way back, some people can accompany you for a trip, and some people can only accompany you for a while. Let everything run its course, don't be attached. Fate must be conformed, cherish the encounter, fate must be relieved, and there is no need to entangle.
Each has its own ferry, each has its own boat, and the fate is over, how can you not stop.
Xin Qiji wrote a poem:
Young people don't know what it's like to be sad, love upstairs. I loved the upstairs. Tell the new word to be worried. Now I know what it's like to be sad and want to come back. I'd like to talk about it again. But it's a cool autumn. ”
Some people live a prosperous life, have a smooth career, and live a healthy life, but they are easy to hurt the spring and autumn, complain about the sky, and often have a stomach of idleness.
Lin Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions", although her parents died later, she was just a guest, but her life and treatment in Jiafu were not bad, her grandmother regarded her as her sweetheart, the maid was well served, and her husband Jia Baoyu often came to take care of her. However, her heart is too delicate, too sensitive, too delicate, and the wind and grass in the world, a leaf, will make her cry and heartache.
When she walked into the garden and saw the falling flowers in late spring, she immediately thought of her wandering fate, so she was heartbroken and wrote "Song of Buried Flowers".
When the autumn rain fell, she thought of herself again and felt that her life was not good, so she wrote "Autumn Window Rainy Night" with blood and tears.
Positive people are always busy pursuing their dreams and managing a better life, **there are so many needless worries!
Let go of worries and be carefree, and life will be easy.
The more you cling, the more painful you are. As soon as I thought about it, everything was comfortable and my worries disappeared.
Letting go is the best satisfaction in life.