Yang Jiang said: "People who live transparently do not have special relationships that they want to maintain, nor do they have special things that they want. Those who approach do not resist, those who leave do not insist, and they don't even bother to care about loss. Time is silent, but it bears witness to the truth;Although the years are quiet, they can see through people's hearts. ”
The only reliable thing in life is yourself. Any expectation of anyone will end in disappointment, disappointment, and frustration. The world is your own, not about anyone else. In all relationships, be kind if you feel happy. If you don't feel well, leave early.
In this world, no one can live without others. If you care too much about a person, are too attached to one thing, and are too entangled in a relationship, it means that you are not mature and have not lived to understand.
Don't expect your leaders to promote you. Why did he promote you?Just a little talent, a little contribution, a little flatteryDon't expect your colleagues to understand you. Why can he understand you?The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, and the world is full of joys and sorrows. Don't complain that someone doesn't respect you, why does he respect you?What value can you bring to him?
Don't expect anybody, not even respect. After all, not everyone is highly qualified, they are all civilized people. Some imbeciles, snobs, little people, you have to take it easy and don't make yourself sick.
People with a clear life don't particularly want to maintain relationships, and they don't particularly want anything. It is enough for glory and wealth to pass through the clouds, to contact hypocrisy in circles, to have a healthy body, to have a happy mood.
As for friends, if you meet someone who loves you, you will drink with each other and have fun with each other. If no one can resonate with oneself, one is still bright and infinite.
Lu Xun said: It is enough to have friends in life, and I am lucky to lose my life.
Don't struggle in any relationship, don't resist those who are close, don't force those who leave, people who don't like you can accept it, and it doesn't matter if you don't respect yourself.