As the saying goes, "You see the script of life in heaven, and you choose it because it's worth it." ”
Everything you encounter is actually pre-rehearsed, but you forget it. There are still many days in your life. Don't think too much, what should come will come, and what should not come will not come. Things have to be followed, things have to be read, so it's best.
This moment is for the best. Think this is all nonsense. If you take the road under your feet seriously and do the things at hand, you will be worthy of the world.
Socrates gave his students the task of going to the wheat field to find the largest ears of wheat, and they could only go forward, not backward.
The students were picking wheat in the wheat field, always expecting that there would be bigger grains of wheat behind, but they returned empty-handed and found nothing.
The same is true in life. Don't think that tomorrow will be better, maybe the road is long and the snow is full. Don't think that yesterday is better than today, yesterday is gone, and immersing yourself in it is a cage. The moment is the best moment and the only moment you can control.
Zhihu has a question: Why are you perfunctory now and regret it in the future?
A highly praised answer is: because people always think there will be better, but they don't know what is best now.
Life is made up of every moment, grasp every moment, cherish time, precipitate yourself, please yourself, and you will become a better person.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "No matter how beautiful yesterday was, we can't go back, no matter how difficult tomorrow is, we have to continue, life is the heart, life is gratitude." "No one is perfect, nothing is perfect, and with a good attitude, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome. In this life, some people envy you, some people hate you, some people envy you, some people look down on you, some people misunderstand you, tell yourself that it's okay, just be yourself. ”
We may not be in control of our destiny, but we can control our attitude towards destiny and look at everything that happens in our lives calmly.
Whatever happens, or what could happen, don't think about it. It's useless to worry about it, except to toss yourself around, in fact, it doesn't help.
A study in psychology shows that 90% of the things you fear don't happen.
The years are not shocked, you are not in a hurry. Don't worry about what happened yesterday, don't worry about what hasn't happened yet, and don't worry about trifles, trifles, bad things, and nosy people.