I went home early but saw a man in the house, wife, you misunderstood, I'll get out, divorce
Listen to your mother's advice and stick to your marriage, for it is a sign of responsibility for yourself and your children. Responsibility and stability are paramount in marriage, and once you choose to divorce, you will face an unpredictable future where no one will be accountable to you.
The world is full of **, especially for women, it is relatively easy to find a new partner. However, it may not be so easy for you to find the right person once you get divorced, especially after having children.
Looking back, maybe it was easier for you to attract the opposite sex when you were younger, but now as you get older, do you find it more difficult to find the right partner?Therefore, be thoughtful and don't act rashly. Be responsible for your own future and that of your children, and if you can be patient, choose to be patient. Sometimes, life is like this, and not everything can go as planned.
Although you feel uncomfortable, sometimes you have to choose to compromise for the sake of your family and children. Impulsiveness can lead to irreparable consequences. Have you ever considered your child's feelings?Impulsive decisions can affect the happiness of the entire family.
Please calm down after drinking this bottle of wine and communicate well with your wife. Marriage will inevitably face difficulties, but through rational communication and tolerance, you may be able to find a solution to the problem. Don't make choices that you regret on the spur of the moment.
When I heard my father's words, I couldn't help but cry, even for an adult man. Today I am sharing this story in the hope of getting your opinions. If you were me, what would you choose to do?Would you choose divorce easily?I really couldn't bear it anymore to consider divorce. At the same time, I also hope to remind all men of the importance of family and marriage through my experience. Sometimes, we need to pay more attention to detail in order to avoid similar tragedies.
Sometimes, we men do need attention. If you are negligent about something, you may end up in a dilemma like the one described in the article. Because it is difficult to maintain a pure friendship between men and women. Especially if your wife has a close male friend or male girlfriend.
Be vigilant, or you may end up being like the man in the article, and everything will be destroyed by this relationship. I hadn't paid much attention to it before, and now it's too late. I hope that through this case, all men can be alerted to prevent similar tragedies from happening again. What's going on here?Why did it turn out like this?Let's find out. When I went home early and found that there was a man in the house, my wife defended: It's not what you think. I was furious and filed for divorce.
The protagonist of the case, 37-year-old Mr. Li:
I was wrong, and if I had been more careful in the past, maybe this would not have ended up like this. I really regret it now. I realized that although there are all kinds of medicines in this world, there are no regret medicines, and once I regret it, it is too late to say anything. I would never let such a tragedy happen again if there was still a chance, but it doesn't help to say that this is now.
If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place. My wife and I both felt deep remorse for ourselves. If I had been alert earlier, this would never have ended like this. After that, my mother advised me to go back as soon as possible after drinking and get along with my wife, not only for the sake of my family but also for myself. If I divorce my wife, I regret it 100 percent. There is still room for redemption in going back now, and if you don't go back now, it will be even more difficult to continue in the future.
I hope you understand our sincerity. I told my mother that it wasn't that I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with my wife, but that we couldn't go back to the past. My wife is too much, so don't mention it again. However, my father told me that there are some things that I have to face squarely, and if I don't face them, what will I do in the future?
I believe that many women will have close male friends, yet some women claim to have nothing to do with their male friends when faced with their partners. As my wife told me, she said that since she had chosen marriage, she would never have anything to do with male friends again. She told me that I was the one she chose, that she wanted to spend her life with me, and that male friends were just friends. In her mind, I was more important than myself, let alone my friends.
Her words made me a little stunned. Later, my old friend comforted me and said, don't be stupid, in fact, I know your heart. Don't worry, I'm different from other women, I said I wouldn't have anything to do with a male friend, then I won't. And I will say goodbye in front of you and keep my distance from them. My wife called *** in front of me to male friends and told them that they would not have much contact in the future, let them live their lives and not look for her again because she had a husband and the husband did not want her to have anything to do with them.
She apologized to ** and said, "You used to be good to me, and I will keep it in my heart." If there is an afterlife, or if you need help, as long as I can help, I will help you. But I'm not going to hang out with you like I used to. "After hanging up the ***, she deleted their *** in front of me
My wife said to me, "Now you should believe me." Because in my heart, you are the only one I really want to be happy. For your sake, I can give up my friends, I can give up my male friends. "In this case, I don't think there are many men who can not believe it. She's already blocked them all, and I didn't expect it to be just a superficial effort.
I was deeply influenced by my wife. Although it was later confirmed that my wife was not in close contact with a male friend in front of me, I did not expect that this was just a cover-up. If your wife has male friends, be vigilant and don't let a similar tragedy happen again. Don't be deceived by your wife's superficial behavior, let her live a good life and concentrate on spending time with you. You know, what you see is only the surface, and women are often good at that.
It's like makeup, you may look delicate and beautiful on the outside, but you don't have to look so glamorous without makeup. Don't let your wife live a good life when she doesn't really mean it to you. What I want to tell you is that what you see is only the appearance, and the real thing may not be. Be even more careful if your wife has some close male friends. You are responsible not only for yourself, but also for your family and children. If you're not careful, you're in for a tragedy. After all, there can be no pure friendship between men and women. A man will not be nice to a woman for no reason, what is he being nice to your wife for?Is it to pursue your wife?Or is it to get everything you have?If I had noticed all of this at first, maybe it wouldn't have ended up like this now.
When I got home early, I saw a strange man in the house. I asked my wife what had happened, and she said, "Not what you think." Without hesitation, I said, ", let's get a divorce." "This is a true story that happened on August 27, 2022, shared by the sea eating small fish.
Xu Wei's "Once You" is accompanied by this experience that reveals the twists and turns of life in a duration of 4 minutes and 21 seconds.
Sometimes, men have to pay attention to something, because there can be no pure friendship between men and women. Especially when the wife has some close male friends, be extra careful.
The hero of this case story is 37-year-old Mr. Li. He was now remorseful, realizing that if he had been more vigilant before, maybe the outcome would have been different. By sharing this case, it is hoped to arouse men's attention to similar situations and avoid repeating Mr. Lee's mistakes.
Mr. Li said: "Why bother in the first place if you knew this was the case. Because of his momentary negligence, the family relationship broke down, and he regretted it a lot. He received advice from his father to go back and not to talk about divorce lightly, because the responsibility would be heavier after the divorce, and it would not be easy to find happiness again.
These words made Mr. Li fall into deep thought. He felt that he could not bear it anymore, but his father reminded him to take responsibility for himself and his children. For impulsive choices, his father persuaded him to think twice. This made Mr. Li's mood even more complicated, and he didn't know how to choose for a while.
Mr. Li confided that he and his wife have been married for 10 years and have three children. It stands to reason that they should be a happy family. However, an unexpected discovery shattered the tranquility. He was convinced of his trust in his wife, but the truth surprised him.
It turned out that the wife used to have a male girlfriend. In order to maintain the happiness of the family, the wife cut off contact with the male girlfriend, which made Mr. Li trust her even more. However, Mr. Li was shocked by the sudden scene.
Mr. Lee warned other men to be vigilant if their wives had male friends. Don't be deceived by superficial gestures and cherish the happiness in front of you. He advised that there are complexities between men and women and that tragedy should not be allowed to happen.
We can't let that happen again. Mr. Li appealed affectionately. He believes that the relationship between husband and wife needs to be maintained, and ignoring it can lead to disaster.
The climax of this story occurs one day when Mr. Lee returns home early. He originally wanted to surprise his wife with gifts and cakes, but found that a strange man appeared in the house. The wife explained that it was to repair the faucet, but Mr. Li was incredulous.
He angrily rebuked his wife and demanded an explanation. The wife insisted that everything was a misunderstanding and that the strange man had come to fix the faucet. Mr. Lee's anger was hard to quell, and he became more and more angry at his wife's steadfastness.
In the end, Mr. Li stood at the crossroads of life and faced the choice of marriage. He asked, what would you do if it were you?He asked for help from everyone for understanding and advice.
This story makes us think deeply about the importance of trust and communication in marriage. The twists and turns in life are very emotional, and I hope that everyone can cherish the happiness in front of them and stay away from the edge of tragedy.
The more I talked, the angrier I became, and eventually I couldn't control my emotions and landed a slap in my wife's face. I gave her one last chance, and as long as she could explain it, I was willing to act like nothing had happened. However, my wife responded, "I've already said it's not what you think, what do you really want?".Don't you want to spend time with me again?He's just my friend, you hurry up and let him go, if you don't agree, you don't want to live with me. "She doesn't give me any face, what else can I say?Can I still bear it?
I couldn't take it anymore, so I slapped my wife in the face and then hit my wife's boyfriend. For this matter, don't say I don't believe it, I don't think even if you did, you wouldn't believe that they were pure.
Finally, I told my wife that since things have turned out like this, let's get a divorce. I went back to my hometown because of this and confided in my parents, and I felt very uncomfortable, and I couldn't help crying as soon as I came back from my hometown. My parents advised me not to get a divorce, and the conversation described above took place. What do you think in the face of all this?If it were you, would you choose to get a divorce?Faced with this situation, shouldn't you choose divorce?I'm very bothered, what should I do?
Conclusion: Faced with this situation, it is indeed difficult to accept. If it were me, I might choose to divorce because your wife doesn't seem to love you. If she loved you, she wouldn't do these things. It may be the way you think, after all, you're not a three-year-old who can't understand what it's like to be alone in the same room.
Moreover, the man is not wearing clothes yet, do you think their relationship is pure?It's almost impossible. The chances of a pure friendship between a man and a woman are slim, let alone in the same room. The man used to wear no shirt, what does that mean?
Alas, such a thing is really unthinkable, so there is nothing wrong with you choosing to divorce. If you don't get divorced, you may spend your entire life in pain. Do you want to live like this?If you don't want to, then choose to divorce, which is not only responsible for yourself, but also for your children.
Your wife can treat you like this today, and if you give her a chance, she will still treat you like this tomorrow. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with choosing a divorce, and if it were me, I would probably do the same. One more thing to say here, women must be cautious, and if they choose marriage, they must be responsible for their marriage, themselves, their families, and their husbands. Otherwise, tragedy awaits you.