"My mother is sick, you come to serve" the husband demanded, and the wife was angry that she hid at her uncle's house during my confinement
When Zhang Mei got married, she was not welcomed by her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law found her difficult to handle and could become a source of conflict between her and her son. Although her husband has always been obedient, this time she insisted that she would not marry, and her mother-in-law had no choice but to acquiesce.
In the face of her mother-in-law's coldness, Zhang Mei did not deliberately please her. On holidays, she only superficially fulfilled her filial piety responsibilities. She didn't deliberately pretend, because she knew that no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't cater to her mother-in-law's heart.
Seeing Zhang Mei's indifferent attitude, her mother-in-law was even more angry, but she couldn't find a chance to grab Zhang Mei's handle, so she could only choose to endure it silently. Until Zhang Mei became pregnant and gave birth to a child, she clearly promised to take care of the confinement and the child, but her mother-in-law chose to disappear.
Without informing Zhang Mei and her husband, her mother-in-law quietly hid in her brother-in-law's house. After Zhang Mei gave birth to the child, everything seemed to be in a hurry, because her mother-in-law was not around. It wasn't until Zhang Mei's parents came to relieve her that she was able to spend her confinement with peace of mind.
02, "My mother is sick, you take care of it" The husband requested.
In the process of following confinement and taking care of the child, the mother-in-law did not show up again, and even when the child was full moon, she did not show anything. Zhang Mei was surprised by her mother-in-law's attitude, she didn't expect her mother-in-law to be so indifferent and ruthless.
The mother-in-law is unreliable, but fortunately, her parents can support her, otherwise Zhang Mei may have quit her job and gone home to take care of her children because she couldn't cope. The parents stayed behind to help her raise the child. Although she has repeatedly offered to give her parents some hard work expenses, her husband has always disagreed. In the end, Zhang Mei had no choice but to secretly stuff the money to her parents.
If it weren't for the sudden illness of her mother-in-law, maybe her parents could have stayed at Zhang Mei's house to take care of them. When he learned that his mother-in-law was sick because he was taking care of the children for his brother-in-law, his husband became very anxious and made a direct request: "My mother is sick, you take her to take care of her." ”
Zhang Mei thought that her husband was just joking, after all, she had a holiday with her mother-in-law. However, it turns out that she overestimated her husband's conscience.
The wife said angrily: "When I was confined, she actually hid in my uncle's house. Zhang Mei was speechless angrily, and her husband saw that she didn't agree, so he was anxious again: "How many years have passed since this, can't you let go of that little confinement thing?"Your mind is too narrow-minded, how can there be hatred and resentment between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?”
Zhang Mei still didn't want to respond to her husband, but he didn't give up, he had to ask her to agree, and even threatened to divorce. Faced with her anxious husband and his concern for her mother-in-law, Zhang Mei felt disheartened.
Over the years, her parents have been helping them raise their children and contribute money and efforts, but whenever her parents are sick, how can her husband show such anxiety and worry?Sometimes they even complain: "The elderly just have a lot of problems, and they drag us down in vain." ”
This time, Zhang Mei decided not to tolerate it anymore and directly scolded her husband: "She hid at her uncle's house during my confinement, and she was tired and took care of the children there." Whoever takes care of the children is responsible for providing for the elderly, it has nothing to do with me, I am just an outsider. ”
Zhang Mei did what she said, not only did she not take her mother-in-law home to take care of her, but took her parents and children back to her parents' house. Does my husband want to be filial?Then ask him to take time off to take care of his mother.
Once some people's hearts are cold, they can never be warmed again. There is actually not much hatred between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, after all, if it weren't for that man, these two women might never have crossed paths for the rest of their lives. But because of this man, the contradictions and conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began. If men can deal with issues fairly and not take sides, perhaps the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not deteriorate to the point of incompatibility.
However, because of foolishness, men can't distinguish between them and can't handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fairly, so that one party has to be wronged. Some grievances have been going on for a long time, and they will eventually erupt. Because sometimes, once the heart is cold, no matter how hard you try, you can't get back up.
Today's topic: Do you support Zhang Mei to take care of her mother-in-law?