Men always think that women are a difficult thing to understand, and this is a big mistake!
Men's way of thinking is relatively simple and direct, and many times they see the superficial meaning, like a book without connotation. They tend to think that everything a woman says is true, and they don't even think about the deep meaning. For example, if a woman says "I'm fine" to a man, the man may think that it is a real thing to do and that he can do things with peace of mind. However, now she should be really angry! At this time, if the man leaves, the woman will inevitably have an argument with him, and then realize that she has offended the other party, which is a big mistake!
Women, on the other hand, are good at hiding, and there are always countless words in the discourse, which are as unpredictable as a mystery. They may say something sarcastic, and they will also show their feelings in a more tactful way, so that the other party can't guess. For example, if a woman says to him, "You're busy," then there's a good chance that he'll think he's eager to let him work and continue with his work. However, she was a little sad and wanted him to spend more time with her. At this time, if the old man doesn't know the general situation, wouldn't he be unlucky!
Sure enough, if you want to read a girl's heart, you need more patience! It is difficult for girls to understand what they think, and sometimes, what they say is not the same thing as what they think in their hearts, and it is up to us to distinguish them carefully.
First of all, he wants to know whether a girl is resisting or pretending. Here are some tips for your reference!
Sometimes, they seem to be refusing, but in reality, they are happy to accept it! Just like when you confess, she will say, "Maybe we are not suitable, we should be ordinary friends." ”
Don't be discouraged when you hear this! This shows that her feelings for you are still there, but if she wants to change her mind, I'm afraid it will take a while. At this time, you can keep in touch with her, care more for her, and let her feel your sincerity and warmth. Who knows when she will open her heart to you and accept you!
However, if she said it bluntly:"Sorry, I don't love you", this is the real rejection. At this time, you better spend less effort and change to a better girl. After all, the love between two people cannot be forced.
Let's say you go to a party and you want to bring her back, and she says, "No need, I'm going to bother you." ”
I said, boys, don't be cowardly! Perhaps, she is pretending to be calm! She may be shy and won't be embarrassed to ask you to drive. However, she must have wanted you to bring her back! You can't be fooled by what she says!
But if she said, "No, I'll do it alone." At this time, she is either worried that you insist on taking her back, or she just doesn't want you to meddle in her private affairs.
If you pretend to be reserved, you may pay lip service but not be real, which is confusing. It's like, you're chatting with her, and all of a sudden, she's making an excuse to refuse. However, if she finally accepts your proposal, it means that her feelings for you are fake. After all, girls are very fickle, and sometimes, they will test a man's patience and perseverance!
But if she tells you bluntly: "I'm too busy to go out with you", it is tantamount to being rejected by her! In this case, she may behave with indifference or even disdain. After all, if you don't have any feelings for her, then, what you do is in vain. My friend, you have to learn to observe other people's expressions! Wouldn't that be more able to read a girl's heart!