Marriage solicitation generally refers to the process of announcing one's main information such as age and occupation and the requirements for the other party through **, matchmaker, marriage solicitation ** or marriage matching platform, and finally determining whether to develop into a marriage on the basis of suitable conditions for both parties.
It is said that the marriage originated in England in the 18th century. At that time, because a noble woman advocated freedom, the noble woman published a marriage notice in the newspaper, trying to find a wishful husband in this very trendy way.
However, it is regrettable that when this aristocratic woman published a marriage notice in the newspaper, she was immediately criticized by members of the society, and some people in society believed that this aristocratic woman's behavior was really "immoral" and unacceptable. Because the noble woman's actions were criticized by the society, the woman was never married, and finally the woman died of depression.
After a few years, the person and the story of the woman who was married had been forgotten. One day one year, an English man was again asked for marriage. After many parents who had women and were worried about marrying saw this marriage notice, it immediately caused a social carnival, so the wind of men reporting for marriage began to prevail, and then the wind of women reporting for marriage also began to prevail.
According to some sources, before the founding of our country, there were already people who were reported to seek marriage. However, at that time, most of the marriage seekers were men, and few women were listed for marriage. But after the 80s of the last century, many women began to report for marriage, and with the development of the times, online marriage began to become popular.
A senior netizen pointed out that in recent years, the self-** platform has begun to rise, and with the rise of the self-** platform, some people have begun to use the self-** platform to seek marriage, as for the effect, it is still unknown.
In fact, this senior netizen's statement is still very reasonable. No, this year's 22-year-old woman Song used the self-** platform to ask for marriage for herself.
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
The woman Song, 22 years old this year, suffered from a strange illness when she was a child, which caused her to look different from ordinary people. And in the case that her appearance is different from ordinary people, although she is not young anymore, there has been no matchmaker to propose marriage for her. For this, her parents were very anxious.
Although Song's parents were very anxious about Song's marriage, Song was not in a hurry. Song thinks: first, he has a unique charm and is not ugly;Second, now that there is a self-leading platform, you can find your favorite object through the self-leading platform.
On December 22, Song started a live broadcast of marriage, and Song said in the live broadcast: "I was once pursued by a village chief, but because I felt that the village chief who pursued me was small, thin and ugly, and he was 'caught in the middle', so he decisively rejected the pursuit of the village chief." ”
Song went on to say in the live broadcast: "I like to wear red and bright clothes, and I also like to wear double ponytails. I see that many people are not optimistic now, but I am optimistic. In me, there is self-confidence. ”
Song continued in the live broadcast: "My height is only 1.6 meters, but I think I need to find a handsome young man who is 1.8 meters tall and looks very handsome to marry." Outsiders may not know that I am only eight years old, rich in five cars, with unique charm, besides, I am not ugly, very attractive, I want to find a handsome guy to marry is not too much. ”
At the end of the live broadcast, Song also said humorously: "I'm not afraid of not knowing the goods, I'm afraid of comparing goods." If you understand what I mean, introduce me to a handsome guy to get married!If you don't understand what I mean, then you're a little ignorant!”
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
How can netizens be embarrassed: praise for Song's courage. As long as she dares to ask for marriage for herself, it will be good. It's a pity that I'm already married, so I can't pursue her anymore, otherwise, I like Song quite a lot.
Netizen years are like a song: As long as Song has enough self-confidence, he will definitely be able to find the object he likes. Let's all bless her!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
A psychologist pointed out that self-confidence is an inner strength that brings out our potential and makes us more determined and courageous in the face of challenges.
Lao Hu felt that we should praise Song's self-confidence. As long as Song is firm in his beliefs, perhaps, one day in the future, Song's wish will be able to come true!