This 11-year-old many people are annoyed by blind dates, collapsed, hey, many men have asked me, I've been dazzled by so many faces, what kind of marriage is suitable?Auntie, I'll give you a summary today, I've been introducing people to people for so many years, what kind of woman is suitable for marriage?Listen well, it's all about experience, looking for someone to get married, giving you the most core and most important advice, emotional stability must be in the first place Many people go on a blind date, most of them look at the feeling, eh, I like you, I'm willing to talk to you, but I feel that this thing is very empty, and you will find it after more experience, in fact, everyone is the same, then everyone is very ordinary, don't think of yourself as Romeo and Juliet. There is a type of girl, in the relationship is shown to be particularly unstable, when she is in a good mood, the two of you are like glue, when she is in a bad mood, she scolds you for scolding the bloody head, the six relatives do not recognize, the man is still inexplicable, the last second is still very happy, the next second will turn his face and do not recognize people, and he will complain at every turn, this is not willing to be so willing The mental internal friction is too serious, and you yourself have collapsed after a long time, this kind of girl is not suitable for marriage, don't have a heart attack, try to change him, you are not his father, you can't teach it, the character is changed。
I can't change, I told you before, what about adults, only choose not to educate, second, as long as you survive in the environment of China, facing the choice of marriage, the support of the family on both sides is very important, the parents are from the past, their opinions are not necessarily right, but most of them have gone through experience for your good. There was once a boy with a very high education, I saw a girl, hey, the education is very low, sales, I have to get married, the man's parents are civil servants, the woman is a rural family, the man's parents are very opposed, that I think the door is not right, and marriage is not child's play, you only look at the appearance and feel that there is no way to get married, in the end these two people do not listen, secretly get a certificate to get married, as a result, the two in-laws do not come and go, and the enemy, the two have a big difference in education, these three views are also different, quarrel every day, and finally, a divorce ended。 There are still many young people, who eloped for love, can a marriage without the blessing of relatives be successful?Yes, can you be happy, you can, but after all, it is difficult to become a family, because I didn't accept it at the beginning, so the word harmony has become a luxury. You see, an important part of marriage is harmony.
This third, the three views are very important, there is a saying that is very right, the three views are more important than the facial features, it is true, there is a pair of men and women, this person is very good, this girl is not very good at living, a salary of 3000 a month, you have to buy 2000 clothes, the salary has to be spent, the man is very distressed to see it, and it is never more than 100 to buy clothes. Two people always quarrel, the concept of consumption is different, what about the woman, it's okay and envy how good the life of other girlfriends is, suppressing her boyfriend doesn't make enough money, she can't look down on the man, the two of them will quarrel because of various concepts, you think it's right, but she firmly thinks it's wrong. Two people with different views often quarrel because of all kinds of small things, whether the marriage is good or not, it must depend on how bad your life is, and those who often quarrel must not be suitable for marriage. Someone will raise the bar with me, there are no two people who are born right, the relationship needs to be run in and compromised, I have been introducing people for so many years, I can tell you very realistically, youth is just a few years, don't raise the cost of trial and error too high, the good half a year of running-in is about the same, there will be fewer and fewer contradictions, if there are more and more contradictions, it must not be run-in. Oops, hurry up and make a substitution, this fourth.
Whether he is suitable for marriage, be sure to see how he treats your parents, family, and friends. A lot of that network ** is very interesting, and they all shoot men very badly, and women can scold and scold on their toes outside, hey, men have to be like grandchildren. In fact, regardless of men and women, the other half who is suitable for marriage must give you enough face outside, even if you try to clean up at home, but the face that should be given to you outside will still be given. There used to be a man, I persuaded it, because the girl I felt a little strong after I saw it, and a little domineering, at first glance it was not the kind of very filial woman, but she just didn't listen to persuasion, said why to marry home, now married for two years, the family is restless, women are not filial to their parents-in-law at all, often arrogant, think that men earn less, and do not want to give him children, so ah, marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous is really important, marrying a wrong will really ruin three generations, no matter what, the shoes are not suitable, only the feet know, take a long-term view, find someone to marry, you must look at the inner quality, I have said it many times, this is the key, such as good emotional stability, which determines the basic tone of future married life. There are certain ones.
Local ability and good social role, economic ability can help you stabilize the family, normal gender relations, should not be a model of women's mothers and sons, but should be possessive, grow together. In addition, see if his tolerance is kind, kind people will still choose to accompany you when you face a huge setback in your future life, and the combination of three views will make your marriage happier. Finally, let's take a look at the appearance, people don't be too ugly, choose people, don't put the cart before the horse, oops, let people worry, don't let me worry about you more than your girlfriend.