What do you think about the marriage between Mr. Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan?
The age difference between them is 54 years, which is no longer a gap between generations. However, despite this, they have been living together for 18 years, and it seems that both have found happiness in this marriage.
Mr. Yang Zhenning was particularly satisfied with Weng Fan's performance, and once said: "Weng Fan is the last gift God gave me", so the old man cherished this "gift" very much.
In 2004, Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan got married, when Yang Zhenning was 82 years old, his original wife Du Zhili died not long ago, and Weng Fan was only 28 years old.
He came together with Weng Fan because of the double emptiness of spirit and life, and firmly proposed to Weng Fan.
Maybe Weng Fan himself didn't expect such love. But as a well-educated young man, she may have had a noble yearning in her heart for a long time, right?
She regards Mr. Yang Zhenning as an idol because his achievements and contributions are incomparable to her.
Therefore, Weng Fan firmly chose to move forward hand in hand with Yang Zhenning. In the academic world, age may not be a decisive factor, as knowledge is constantly updated and understanding can change over time.
Once this marriage was established, ** had a considerable impact on it, especially for Weng Fan. It is generally believed that the reason why she chose Yang Zhenning was more out of the pursuit of his fame, rather than the real fancy of him himself.
For this reason, a large number of onlookers who existed to watch the excitement kept lining up neatly, waiting for how long Weng Fan would last in his first marriage, which was also turned over.
Facts have proved that there is a deep spiritual affection between Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan, and they never seem to be able to get along enough, even after 18 years, they are still as loving as a newlywed.
Yang Zhenning was also apprehensive about this marriage at first, after all, he was old, and Weng Fan was still young. She had been married once, but at the right age of youth.
Therefore, Yang Zhenning attaches great importance to his health, works hard to exercise, and persistently walks every day even though he is old.
Every day, the residents in the community can see Yang Zhenning strolling by Weng Fan's hand.
Yang Zhenning likes to call Weng Fan "Fan Fan" and tells her: "I can go alone, but I prefer to hold your hand and move forward together, so that my heart will feel stable." ”
It can be seen that Yang Zhenning's dependence on Weng Fan is far beyond the speculation of the outside world.
And, when it comes to the body, Yang Zhenning is full of expectations for the future, because he once expressed such thoughts:
Over the past few years, Weng Fan has taken good care of me, and my health has always been very healthy, and I believe that I can live longer than the average 88-year-old American man.
Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan are very concerned about age, and the outside world is also very concerned.
Lianhe Zaobao conducted an exclusive interview with Mr. Yang Zhenning on March 13, 2010, when he said that he hoped to live to be 108 years old.
Why did Yang Zhenning have this idea?Because he knows that in China, 88 years old is called "Mi Shou", and 108 years old is called "Cha Shou".
At that time, Feng Youlan said to Jin Yuelin: "Not only to eat, but also to drink a cup of tea together." When Feng Youlan said this, he was already 88 years old, so he was looking forward to "tea longevity".
Therefore, Yang Zhenning even conducted research and learned that American men can usually live for another five years when they are over 88 years old, and he himself is different from ordinary American men.
Therefore, this is Yang Zhenning's remarks.
I'll outlive them because a lot of 88-year-old men are sick now, and I'm not sick at all. When I "meet for tea", Weng Fan will still be as young as a teenager, and in another 20 years, she will still maintain the demeanor of 54 years old. Of course, I understand that "meeting for tea" is just a luxury.
Some people question why Yang Zhenning is so confident?He lived to be 88 years old, which in itself is a remarkable achievement. What's more, it is not easy to live to be 100 years old. Why does he want to pursue "tea longevity"?
Yang Zhenning has his own reasons, so he summarized several reasons:
Mr. Yang himself said that the main reason why he can stay so healthy is because he has excellent genes.
Yang Zhenning's mention of this is also well-founded, although his father only lived to be 77 years old, which is already considered a long life in that turbulent era. His mother was born into a family of Chinese medicine practitioners and remained in great health until her death in 1987 at the age of 91.
Yang Zhenning's younger brother Yang Zhenhan is now over 90 years old, but he is still healthy. With such genetics, this is indeed a very ideal situation.
Subsequently, Yang Zhenning also expressed such a view:
I am fortunate that I have not experienced extreme material and psychological stress except for the years when Du Zhili was sick, so I have been doing well for so many years.
Therefore, Yang Zhenning believes that he has a good foundation in spirit and life, and he also said: "Later, I met Weng Fan, and she cared about me very much. "This makes it more likely that he will live a long life.
In 1997, Yang Zhenning had a heart bypass surgery, but now many years have passed, and his heart condition has been very good. Although some people think that heart bypass surgery is only valid for 10 years, after which the "bridge" will be blocked and need to be re-bypassed, I was lucky that I did not need to have another bypass surgery.
It is clear that Yang Zhenning's expectations for the future are not unfounded. Last year, he celebrated his 100th birthday and is still in good health, still refreshed when he sits with Weng Fan.
Yang Zhenning has always been in good health, and the outside world once asked him: "Why don't you have a child with Weng Fan?""That's what they were.
Yang Zhenning said: "This is a decision we (and Weng Fan) made together, if one day I am gone, I don't want her to take care of the burden of taking care of the children alone, it will be very difficult." ”
Yang Zhenning expressed his deep love for Weng Fan in his words and deeds, and he decided not to have children because he considered the difficulty of letting Weng Fan raise the child alone.
He made no secret of his hope that after my death, Weng Fan would be able to remarry, despite the fact that the two were far apart in age.
Is this love?When I'm there, I crave to spend time with you;And when you are not there, you are expected to be cared for by others. Love may be selfish, but that's one side of it. Although Yang Zhenning is a scientist, he still pursues a colorful life, so he is no different from ordinary people.
Weng Fan knows this very well, so she has been silently by Yang Zhenning's side for many years, adjusting her life and rest to enhance her husband's healthy physique.
Weng Fan believes that her husband's health is more important than anything else.
One year, she once said to a friend: "I think that through climbing the Yellow Mountain, I deeply feel how important it is for a person to be in good physical condition." ”
Yang Zhenning is now old, and due to sciatic nerve problems, he spends far less time walking than he sits. Weng Fan followed her husband's lifestyle, and almost always guarded her husband except for necessary exercises.
Therefore, Yang Zhenning humorously asked young people such a question: "Have your parents relaxed the age limit for your boyfriend a lot?"Perhaps this is the pride that Mr. Yang has in the love between himself and Weng Fan. May Mr. Yang "take tea in the future".