In this bustling world, most of us live at the bottom of society, working hard every day just to make ends meet. We are burdened with heavy responsibilities and endure endless ridicule, as if we exist only to satisfy someone else's sense of superiority. Those who seem to be doing better than us, they show their superiority in front of us, making us feel small and powerless. I was once tormented by the madness of low self-esteem and humiliation, but I tell you, I will never let these things get in my way.
I always feel that my ability is average, and nothing I do can satisfy me. The people around you will continue to deny, and after a long time, the state of the whole person will be problematic. Don't always think that human nature is good, in fact, there are many bad people in this world.
For a long time, I became timid when doing things, and I was always worried that I couldn't do a good job in a simple thing, and I fell into an emotional internal friction for a long time. Then the bigger problem arises, the procrastination becomes intensified, because I am afraid that I will not do it well, so I resist doing it from the bottom of my heart, so I put it off again and again.
By the time I realized that something was wrong, I felt powerless, to the point where I was powerless to argue with others, and my tone was full of inferiority and lack of confidence.
Many people feel that they are aware of the existence of this problem, and as long as they find a solution, everything will be fine. But for me, it got even worse.
Imagine that kind of psychological state, a person who is full of negative energy and low self-esteem, but knows what his problems are, and then struggles unwillingly, that kind of internal friction and anxiety will only increase and not decrease.
I have experienced being humiliated in public, and although I am angry in my heart, I can't say a word of rebuttal. In fact, your subconscious has Xi or tacitly acquiesced that you are the situation in other people's mouths. It's not that the brain is stupid, but that the brain is kidnapped by the subconscious and obeys the arrangement of the subconscious. Then it must not be easy to get rid of the subconscious, otherwise I would not be so miserable at that time.
But I took a more alternative approach to gradually gain self-confidenceDeceive your subconscious and constantly instill in yourself that you are a good person.
After reading some books, I realized that this method is a bit similar to the law of attraction.
How to deceive the subconscious of a person who has terrible abilities, no self-confidence, no motivation, no expectations for life, and no desires has become a problem that I need to solve.
Thankfully, the problem was quickly resolved. Because I am a very blessed person, not only for myself, but also for those around me.
Although there will be many misfortunes in life, there must be lucky things that happen. Even if I go out and pick up a few yuan at that time, I will prove again and again that I am a blessed person.
Maybe my abilities are limited in my work and life, but I have the ability to bring luck to myself and others.
But this alone is not enough, because low self-esteem has long affected the subconscious. Then if you want to make the subconscious mind confident, you need to constantly strengthen and deceive. And this time will not be short.
But this was my lifesaver, and I deceived myself every dayKeep reinforcing your memories, those lucky moments. After about three months, first of all, my personal state is different, I am more confident in conversation, even if I encounter difficult things, my first feeling is that I am a lucky person, and there is nothing that cannot be solved.
Although there is no special improvement in life, I can obviously feel that there are more people around me and more things to choose from.
There's nothing to say about the future, until now I'm a lucky person, although I will also encounter failures and setbacks, but compared to before, I have the motivation to act and the ability to think.
As a low-level person, there is no level of competing with others for talent and effort, as long as you say goodbye to procrastination and improve your execution, you will definitely be happier than most people.
Don't brush those short ** all day long, teach you how to counterattack, first get back your self-confidence, adjust your mentality, and many problems will not be a problem.
Self-confidence = execution, execution = future life. Therefore, when you are at a low point, you must not try your best to solve the problems you are currently facing, you must start from the subconscious mind, and only by changing the way of thinking can you completely change your life.