As long as you are admitted to university, come out to work, and get through the difficulties smoothly, the problem will be solved.
We've heard this kind of rhetoric too many times.
However, this is not the case. Going to university will only bring new challenges, and you need to work harder to earn money after working.
Even after getting through the current one, there will be the next one waiting for you.
Many people often live in the illusion that the future will be better, so they give up on persevering efforts.
If the previous generation did not arrange a future for you, then in the next life, you will face fierce competition, and the only way out is to keep moving forward.
In addition, many people have the illusion that if they learn more and are prepared, they will succeed.
They all say that they want to make a lot of money, but they are reluctant to take the first step, and they have been preparing and learning Xi.
In fact, for something you've never done before, you can never get off to a perfect start.
Think back, when you were still studying, the first time you participated in a competition, the first time you gave a speech on stage, the first time you received public attention, when was there a time when you were fully prepared to express yourself?
You don't dare to take the first step because you're afraid of failure and you're afraid of making a fool of yourself.
But if you're already an adult, you should know that failure and humiliation are the norm in life.
If you are doomed to failure and humiliation, it is better to experience it early and work hard, at least you will not leave regrets.
Also, as you mature, you will find that others simply don't have the time and energy to pay attention to you, let alone look at you more.
When I quit my job in the system and started my own business, I realized that there was nothing special about my daily life, and no one came to pay attention to how I spent my life.
From that moment on, I understood that the protagonist of this world was only himself.
Therefore, I do things wholeheartedly, constantly creating value for the outside world and injecting vitality into my own life.
If you have a desire to be free in your heart and want to expand your life, but you have been preparing and standing still, and you are afraid to take the first step.
Then, you will never be able to grow, and you will never be able to achieve the achievements and fruits you want.
Not growing, not having enough strength to take care of yourself and your family, and living in a state of no direction is the real failure and shame.
People often ask: I am a person from an ordinary family with no resources and background, how can I counterattack?
I replied that ordinary people can't fight back, because they always live in fantasy, worry about face, and pay attention to the surface.
If you want to counterattack, you must abandon face and bow your head to do those things that you looked down on before, but can bring income.
Go to live broadcasts, write articles, shoot funny**, constantly expand your influence, and accumulate traffic and fans.
Then sell products, sell services, sell yourself, and earn every possible income.
Even if others insult you and step on you, you have to put the money in your pocket.
Why do ordinary people feel that the strength of struggle is limited, and counterattack is just an extravagant hope?
Because they have been living in a carefully prepared framework by others, falling into ridiculous fantasies.
If you are an ordinary person with dreams, imagine that your family background is already ordinary and you can't use any resources.
Family doesn't help you much in life.
At this time, you still care about those ridiculous things, take care of face, how can you break through your growth?
Therefore, when you get rid of your mental limitations, let go of the various perceptions and definitions that have been instilled by the outside world, and really take what you were afraid of seriously.
Keep doing it, and over time, you'll become different.