This article is very important for men who have been hurt. I hope you'll read it a few more times. A lot of people ask me, what would you do if someone you love betrayed you?
I replied that if my lover betrayed me, then I wanted to see if he was in love, and if he was in love with someone else, and he used to say that he would marry me, and in the end he fell in love with someone else, had a relationship with someone else, or was ambiguous with someone else, then I would choose to leave. It's not that I don't love, but I think I should give him a chance, I should give myself a chance, after all, this opportunity, each other is too rare, if she loves me, how can she talk to me with other men!How can you disrespect me, how can you be irresponsible to me. So I gave her a chance, not because I didn't love her, but because she had a better choice and chose the person she thought loved her. If she betrayed me in marriage, if we didn't have children, I would have left too, because we didn't have crystallization, no burden, and I should have given her a better choice;If we have a child, then I will ask her if she will give the child a warm home, and if she does not want to, then I am also willing to give her a chance, and give myself a chance. If someone outside of her is important to her, I would accept her being with that person, but if she wants to step on two boats, I will never allow it. So my thinking is clear, I'm rational, and then, I want to tell her, if we've been married for 20 years, I'll give you a chance too. If for her, even if we have lived for more than 20 years, it is not as good as her relationship for a few days, months and years. Then I shouldn't take advantage of her. Besides, after more than 20 years of marriage, we are all old, and I have to have the ability to be self-reliant. Moreover, I am not worried that my children will not support me when I am old, and I don't need children to kidnap her morally, because she is also middle-aged and understands better than me, so I don't need to occupy her anymore. No matter how entangled, how contradictory, how much complaining, then accusing, then insulting, and then repeating the so-called past, there is really no point. If she leaves, she will not live well with others in the future, and you want to come back, I personally will not accept it, because I know what we have experienced in a year, ten years and 20 years, we are together every day, there must be pressure in life;I'm finally single again, I finally want to eat, I want to drink, I want to play, I don't have to be restrained, so now that she wants to come back, I have to weigh it too.
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