A word wakes up the person in the dream, and do not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself. When you are inside the system, you often yearn for freedom outside the systemOnce you take that step resolutely, you will look back and regret everything you once had. My friend Xiao Wang also fell into such an embarrassing situation.
Xiao Wang is the only daughter of an ordinary civil servant family in the county. My father is a grassroots civil servant, and my mother is an employee of a state-owned enterprise. When he was studying, he had excellent grades, and after graduation, he was successfully assigned to work in a county ** unit.
When he first joined the company, Xiao Wang was very satisfied with the iron job bowl of civil servants. The job is stable, the pressure is not great, and the benefits are good. There is no need to work overtime, and you can go home on time every day, and you can spend two days on the rare weekend leisurely. As a civil servant, it can be regarded as a good home in the county, and you can raise your value a lot in the blind date market.
But the peaceful life didn't last long. Xiao Wang gradually found that with a monthly salary of only about 4,000 yuan, it was still stretched to buy a house in the county to get married and raise children. On weekdays, although I have done something and I have not done anything, I feel that I have nothing to do in my career, my work is dry and boring, and I can't find a sense of accomplishment at all.
By chance, Xiao Wang met a rich second generation who opened a chain restaurant in the provincial capital. This rich second generation has just returned from studying abroad, and with a wave of his hand, he opened several Western restaurants in his hometown. Business is booming, and there will never be a shortage of many workers on hand. Xiao Wang was deeply attracted by his foreign lifestyle, and had the idea of traveling lightly to the provincial capital.
So, after serving in the county ** for 5 years, Xiao Wang chose to resign. She wants to take advantage of her youth to break through and realize her dreams, instead of burying herself in desk work all day long, facing meaningless documents and lengthy meetings.
After resigning, Xiao Wang quickly took out his savings of 300,000 yuan, followed the rich second generation to learn catering management knowledge for 3 months, and then rented a store in the provincial capital and opened his own Chinese restaurant. With high-quality dishes and considerate service, business is gradually booming. In the first two years, Xiao Wang's restaurant accumulated a net profit of more than 2 million yuan and achieved a well-off life.
However, the good times did not last long, and in the third year, the new crown epidemic suddenly broke out, and Xiao Wang's restaurant business suddenly became bleak. As a newly opened small restaurant, the customer base is not stable, and the proprietress Xiao Wang does not have many social resources, so it is difficult to survive during the epidemic.
At that time, Xiao Wang suddenly realized that the work in the system was the safest. As a civil servant, you don't have to worry about performance pressure and business risks, you get paid every month, and you don't have to worry about old-age security. Even now it's too late to resume her job as a civil servant, so she has to fight alone and stick to running the restaurant.
After experiencing this blow, Xiao Wang realized that his choice back then was purely impulsive, and the obstacles in real life were far from as simple as imagined. She began to regret why she was in such a hurry and hurriedly resigned from her stable job as a civil servant.
I once persuaded Xiao Wang that since he had chosen to leave, he didn't have to regret it too much. After confirming the new direction, it is still necessary to take a firm and optimistic heart and move forward. The more difficult the time, the more important it is to maintain concentration and believe that the dawn is ahead.
Attitude adjustment and cognitive upgrading are needed everywhere in life. We all aspire to success, but success is never within reach. On the road of pursuing ideals, even if you fail, you must learn to be tolerant of yourself, after all, accidents and impermanence are the normal state of life. There is a good saying, endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky.
Although Xiao Wang's choice may be a little out of reality, at least she dares to chase her dreams, and this courage and determination are commendable. In contrast, those who have been trapped in their comfort zone for many years and are reluctant to take half a step may need to reflect more.
Therefore, I do not recommend that you resign easily while you are still in the civil service. The world is very realistic, and it is also very cruel. Although there are some constraints in the system, at least food and clothing can be guaranteed;If it were me, I would first polish and accumulate a few years in the system to gain knowledge before thinking about the next step.
No matter how the environment changes, inner strength is the key to determining destiny. Therefore, it is most important to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and be brave to explore. I believe that through hard work, we can all find our own wonderful life.
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