Feelings are an inevitable part of our journey in life. The ups and downs of feelings bring us endless joy and pain.
However, in the world of feelings, there is nothing more taboo than moving yourself. This self-deception may bring us short-term gratification, but it can eventually lead to hurt and suffering.
In the pursuit of affection, sometimes we fall into hallucinations. We want to be loved and hope to find the person who makes our hearts tick. However, when we exaggerate the strengths of the other person and deliberately cover up their shortcomings, we are moving ourselves.
We have high expectations of love and hope that the other person will satisfy us flawlessly, and this excessive fantasy will only lead us into an illusory world and eventually face a painful reality.
In addition, moving ourselves is also reflected in our active pursuit of feelings. Sometimes we express deep friendship with each other, show our tenderness and thoughtfulness, and hope to move each other. However, this kind of performance can only bring us a short-term sense of satisfaction, because true feelings cannot be obtained through external interpretation.
If we only seek the admiration and emotion of the other person, rather than sincere communication and understanding, then we are only deceiving ourselves, and in the end we will only make ourselves feel empty and disappointed.
In addition, our own touching of ourselves is also manifested in our attachment and stubbornness to our feelings. Sometimes we hold on to a relationship that has broken down or a relationship that is clearly inappropriate, just because we want to believe that the other person will change, or think that we can use our own efforts to move the other person.
However, this stubborn persistence will only lead us deeper and deeper down the wrong path, and in the end it will only make us feel more miserable and hopeless.
In the process of pursuing feelings, we should get rid of the trap of moving ourselves. First of all, we need to be rational and not be blinded by feelings, over-amplifying the strengths of the other person or ignoring their shortcomings too much.
Secondly, we must treat our feelings truthfully, not relying on fake performances to get the other party's touch, but showing ourselves through real words and deeds. Finally, we have to learn to let go, and when a relationship is doomed, we should be brave enough to face reality and stop clinging to what has been lost.
In conclusion, feelings are a complex and diverse world. In the process of pursuing feelings, the most taboo thing is to move yourself. Only by facing our feelings truthfully, rationally, and calmly can we pursue true happiness and fulfillment. Don't let yourself fall into illusory fantasies and let yourself be moved. I believe that sincerity and reason will lead us to true happiness.