Child, yesterday's confrontation between you and your mother, your angry eyes, the way you show your teeth and claws, and even yelling at your mother who was pregnant in October, the mother who gave birth to you and raised you, my heart was really broken, that night, I lay on the bed with tears wet my pillow towel, tossing and turning, all the time thinking, why, why is this?
From the soft and lovely baby in my arms, full of my daughter, all of a sudden become like this, our conflict is just because I am forcing you to read?
But how do you understand, if you can bear the pain for others, then heaven must be full of mothers, and mothers are not the same as you say:
When you win a Go prize, your mother happily tells other aunts that it is to show off, and your mother is expressing her pride in you.
When you don't do well in the exam, your mother criticizes you, not because you are ashamed, but so that you can have a better future through studying.
Mom doesn't care about your life or death, only cares about your studies, Mom just knows the law of the jungle in this world, the law of the jungle, the weak eat the strong, you don't become a talent, you don't feel comfortable becoming a talent, you don't work hard when you are young, the boss is sad, Mom hopes that you will not regret it in the future.
Find a school with the best teachers for you, take care of everything in your life, even if it is difficult, you have to pay for you to go to cram school, it is not easy for parents to make money, is this just for face?
Isn't it more so that you can step on the shoulders of your parents, so that you don't regret it when you grow up, and change your destiny by reading!
1 Ordinary family, the best way out when studying
People always have a goal to do something, and I will talk about the purpose of letting you study: that is, to be admitted to a good university, find a good job, live a relaxed life, and realize your value in society.
Because a good university will determine your social level, my mother came out of the countryside, with the study, I walked out of the countryside step by step, went to high school, took the elevator for the first time, and saw the prosperity of the city, although it was only a county seat, went to university, only saw the mountains for the first time, saw the prosperity of the provincial capital of Jinan, got acquainted with the civil servant family, the children of the business family, and knew that our gap is so big. Mom's university is not very good, which is a lifelong regret of Mom, so Mom hopes that you will take 985 and 211.
Mom's high school classmates are scattered in various universities, and Mom knows that everyone in a good university is studying hard. Chang'an University even turns on the lights in the library at night, and many of our ordinary students only watch dramas and play games.
Shandong Normal University, your aunt's school dormitory was admitted to graduate school, the lowest one is your aunt 211 Beijing University of Chemical Technology, and your mother's school has three graduate students in a college, the environment can create people, and my mother hopes that you can meet better people.
When my mother graduated, she was looking for a job everywhere, and it is true that good companies went to prestigious schools to recruit, and your mother didn't even have the entry qualifications, do you know how disappointed I am?In college, I took all the required certificates, but the company stuck me in school.
Child, indeed, my mother is an ordinary teacher, with an average salary level, barely maintaining food and clothing, and your father is also a front-line state-owned enterprise worker, we may not be able to become a section chief or bureau chief for the rest of our lives, and we can only struggle in the middle and lower classes of this society. We can't make you rich, some people are born in Rome and you are not, it may take us generations to catch up with them, or we may not be able to.
But, kid, you know what?Your starting point is much higher than your mother's, your father and I at least have pension insurance, pensions, and all kinds of benefits, even if you take leave and don't go to work, you won't deduct a penny of wages. The two of us can still lift you to go further, and we will always rely on you, which is also the longest sentence my mother has said:"I want to live well, so that when I am old, I will have a high retirement salary, and I can help you when you are in trouble. "
Your grandfather slipped on the ice last winter, and if he didn't earn money, there would be no unit that would pay him because he was a farmer. If we are sick and have a serious illness and are hospitalized for more than 2,000 yuan, the state will reimburse most of them, but if your grandma or grandfather is sick, even if there is a "new rural cooperative medical system" now, that is, rural cooperative medical care, we need to bear most of the personal burden. And your grandma, the people that grandpa can rely on can only rely on us, and the state can't manage them. Their quality of life has a lot to do with us. That's the difference that comes with identity.
There is a courier who once lost a mango because of the courier and knelt down for the customer, and the man had ** under his knees, why is this, have you considered it?In order to survive, for his wife and children to have a better life, so you have to respect the hardships of every person at the bottom, my mother has an older brother who used to work on the construction site and fell to his death, why?Have you thought about it?
Some time ago, there was a leak of chlorine gas in a chemical plant, why didn't the workers resign, didn't they know that there was danger?Know.
Because I've been in a chemical factory for a long time, I've been solidified, and I don't know what I live on when I come outThere are old people, there are children below, mortgages, car loans, all of them, they can only live by selling their lives, and unfortunately, they have to accept a salary cut. Why?Because that's the sorrow of the people at the bottom, who don't have the right to choose. Those leaders sit in the office, blow the air conditioner, and easily earn a million yuan a year, which is a great irony for the monthly salary of thousands of yuan for the low-level workers.
Those who work hard govern people, those who work hard govern people, and knowledge changes fate, because the leaders of this factory are basically graduate students or above
There is also Aunt Liu, who works as a doctoral supervisor in Shannong, she browses English pages every day, and her going to the United States to be an exchange scholar is as simple as me going to the city bureau for training. This life of hers is so far away for me. Even if I work hard without eating or drinking, I can't reach the same level as them, whether it is ability or financial resources.
"The black hair doesn't know how to study early, and the white head regrets studying late."
People who read less, just like the children who can only herd sheep, often only envy when they see others can design bridges. Without knowledge, he can't do what he wants to.
I don't want you to wait until 20 years to regret it, I want you to take every minute of your life. I hope that the detours I have taken can give you some inspiration. I hope we work together to get through this most important phase of your life.
A good university is the brightest business card and starting point for you to enter the society in the future.
2. How can I get into a good university?
People who read and those who don't read have a completely different quality of life.
Your end point is the starting point of your child, a child of a diplomat's family, the conversation, behavior, and educational environment of the parents must be different from that of a family like ours, and people may go abroad for further study when they are young.
SoThe child with black hair does not know how to study early, and the white head regrets studying late.
Hurry up and learn, knowledge may not be able to change fate, but if you don't have knowledge, you must not be able to change fate.
So how do you learn?The child's mother was also a top student before high school, so I can give you some advice.
1. Refuse to procrastinate, cherish time, and start now
Chaplin said:"Time is a great author, and he can write the future ending. "
Lu Xun said"Time is like water in a sponge, there will always be a squeeze"
Mom believes and firmly believes that although time is silent, it never lies. If you don't work hard, the result will definitely be different.
2. Strong self-discipline
Child, your slack today is the bitterness of tomorrow, how high your heart is, how hard you should work, students who enter key high schools, there is no difference between smart and not, there is only the difference between hard work and not. Strong self-discipline is the only way to succeed now and in society.
You want to study, but every day after class is just playing, playing games, can you get into college?Only by overcoming laziness and refusing to procrastinate through self-discipline can you do a good job. Only by overcoming laziness and refusing to procrastinate through self-discipline can you do a good job.
3. You must have a strong concentration and master the learning method
The method is not right, and the effort is in vain, this sentence is an eternal truth. The efficiency of learning in class accounts for 70% of your learning output, which is why some students can review a little after class, while some students seem to work hard but do not get grades.
1. Regarding the subject of memory, you should combine conscious memory and unconscious memory, use multiple senses such as ears and eyes to participate, and use associative memory to improve learning efficiency.
2. To grasp the memory law of the Ebbinghaus memory curve, first fast and then slow, negative acceleration, timely review.
3. No matter which subject, you must sort out the wrong question set, and the wrong questions are the essence, and you must review more in order to improve.
4. Each subject has its own unique characteristics, but there are specific rules that conform to it, and you will be very easy to learn it by mastering its rules.
Children, learning is a student's vocation, and at this moment, there is really no choice but to study hard and hard. The road to a prestigious university is paved with a volume as tall as yours
In the future, we will work together, child, you will not be lonely, let alone lonely. I'm not going to let my high school confusion happen to you, absolutely not!We will work together, together!Child, no one will always be stronger than you, and few people can always stand on the spire of all living beings, and those who can persist are the real strong, and we must do our best to live up to this life!
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