With the increasingly fierce competition for college students' employment, many young people are worried about employment, especially in first- and second-tier cities.
However, in addition to many "novel professions", this has also led to eye-opening.
A new way of gnawing the old is on fire: parents give 4,000 yuan a month to let the baby be a "full-time child" at home
Daughter Lily is a graduate of a 985 university, but she can't find her dream job after graduation.
She struggled alone in the field, and her life was lonely and hard.
Seeing their daughter's situation, the parents were distresseddecided to pay her daughter a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan and invited her to return to her hometown as a full-time child.
Lily gladly accepted her parents' offer and returned to her home.
Every morning, she takes her adorable puppy to the park for a walk, enjoying the sunshine and fresh air.
When she gets home, she cooks a delicious home-cooked meal that will leave her parents with a fragrant taste that will linger for her parents.
Then, she will accompany the elderly to go out for a walk, or go to the square to participate in various colorful activities.
Every now and then, the family will take a small trip to the surrounding attractions to experience the beauty and tranquility of nature.
Lily feels very happy, and the care and love of her family makes her feel extremely warm.
Although working outside the home has a different sense of achievement, it is also a kind of happiness to be able to return home to accompany your family and feel the warmth and harmony of the family.
At home, she felt the endless love of her parents, and it also made her understand the importance of her family. She enjoys the happy hours every day and is grateful for the love and support of her parents.
Lily's parents are also happy and satisfied to be able to spend this quality time with their daughter.
They feel that the happiness and happiness of the child is the most important thing, and whether she chooses to struggle at home or outside, as long as she is happy, the family will have no regrets.
They enjoy every day with their daughter, every laugh, every warm family time.
This is what happiness looks like, you don't need too much money and material things, you just need the company and love of your family.
Why are many parents now very supportive of their children returning home as "stay-at-home children" after graduation?
So, why is this happening?
Employment pressure is mounting
Especially for college students at this stage.
Many college students find it extremely difficult to find a stable job after graduation, especially when the employment situation in some industries and professions is not optimistic.
In this case, many college students choose to return home to become full-time children, which can temporarily avoid the pressure and challenges of employment.
They can use the family's resources and support to seek more opportunities for self-development and growth, especially with the support and help of their parents in terms of finances and life.
This will not only reduce the pressure on college students to survive, but also give them more time and opportunities to plan for their future.
The pace of modern life is getting faster and faster
There is also a growing emphasis on family relationships.
In such an environment, many parents are willing to support their children to return home and become stay-at-home children.
Some parents prefer to provide a warm and harmonious family environment for their children
Children can be cared for and cared for at home, giving them more opportunities to develop their hobbies and professional skills.
At the same time, many parents also hope to enhance the relationship with their children in this way, establish a closer parent-child relationship, and make up for the estrangement neglected by their children's busy work during their growth.
While many college students choose to return home to become stay-at-home children, many parents support this decision;
But this phenomenon has also caused some controversy and questioning.
Some believe that this practice may make children become overly dependent and lack independence and autonomy, affecting their growth and development.
In addition, some people believe that this phenomenon may lead to the family becoming too dependent on the children, affecting the harmony and stability of the family.
Conclusion:
Many college students choose to return home to become full-time children, and many parents support this decision, influenced by employment pressures and modern family values.
Although this phenomenon has a certain positive effect, it also needs to be moderate, and parents and children need to maintain an appropriate balance in this relationship, so that children can grow up in the warmth of the family;
At the same time, it is also necessary to cultivate their awareness and ability of independence, so that they can be more confident and determined on the road to growth.
I hope that every child can grow up healthily with the care and support of the family and realize the value of their own life.