In society, we often hear a saying:CharacterDecide your fate. No matter how hard we work, ifCharacterIf you don't pass the test, you will still fail in the end. Because ugly things, the negative energy of society cannot occupy the mainstream position for a long time. ConfuciusHe once said: "If the source of water is the source of water, it is like the wave of water." This sentence tells us that oneCharacterThe better the virtue, the more wealth will be accumulated, and the boat of life can sail freely and go to the distance. And to cultivate a top-notch oneCharacter, the key lies in one word "willing".
Interactions between people are often one of mutual exploitation. You can use the power of others to do your own thing, and this is to follow the trend. However, if the people around you don't get any benefit from you, they will naturally leave. As the saying goes, a smart boss will set up a reward system to keep employees motivated to keep working hard after completing the task. And we should also establish the concept of "mutual benefit", so that more people can benefit from us. The scientist Benjamin Franklin once said, "We have enjoyed great benefits from the inventions of others, and we should also be happy to have the opportunity to serve others with any of our inventions."And this is the kind of thing we should do voluntarily and generously. "Only by allowing the people around you to benefit from you can you become the backbone of everyone and have a higher value in life.
Some people can bring benefits to others, but they are not reconciled. In order to make up for this unwillingness, they choose to ask for something in return. However, goodCharacterIt's about giving and giving. When we give alms, annoy, and expect something in return, we turn goodness into ugliness. Let us learn Xi wisdom of Buddhism, less need for things, less troubles. If we don't care about the return, every good deed will make our lives more grounded. There is no obstacle in my heart, and I will be a hundred if I give it up. If someone else reciprocates us, it will be another kind of happiness, and giving and gaining will become two kinds of happiness.
There are always some people who have started the way of "goose plucking", and only their own interests are left in their eyes. Whether it is the benefits that pass through one's own hands or the things that come into one's hands, they are like entering an iron bucket and will never come out again. What is even more hateful is that some people ask for little from the outside world, but they calculate their families at home and do everything they can. This kind of nastyCharacterIt will inevitably bring about a collapse for itself, because if you do too much injustice, you will kill yourself. A person who is Xi willing to give up will lose nothing and don't care about anything, believing that what you have lost today will come back to you in another way. If nothing comes back, it doesn't matter, because your pattern has become bigger and your heart is more transparent.
Shede is oneCharacterThe highest realm, the more willing a person is, the more he can reflect his broad-mindedness and noble character. One person'sCharacterdetermines its status and influence in society. And if a person can be willing to give, it means that he has a good character and a lofty moral concept. By benefiting those who follow you, you can also get practical benefits from it;By being willing not to ask for anything in return, make yourself more pure and kind;By being willing to let go of one's own self-interest, one will get greater returns. So, to be a top one with a topCharacterWe should learn to give.
Only by giving up can we achieve the value of life and a great person. In the end, the success of a person in society depends on a personCharacter。No matter how hard you try, ifCharacterIf you don't pass the test, you are doomed to fail in the end. It is impossible for society to accept ugly things and negative energy for a long time, and only excellent moral character can occupy the mainstream position in society for a long time. ConfuciusHe once said: "If the source of water is like the wave of water." This sentence tells us that the better a person's moral character, the more contacts and resources he accumulates, and the ship of life can sail freely and go to the vast distance. Therefore, we have to keep cultivating ourselvesCharacterThe key lies in the word "de".
Zeng Shiqiang, a master of management, explained that "virtue" is "gain", and if you let others get something, then you are the one who retains kindness. In other words, it is giving. One top-notchCharacterIt's giving. Specifically, the meaning of giving up has the following aspects.
First of all, it is willing to let the people who follow you get benefits. In interpersonal interactions, there are many times a relationship of mutual exploitation. You can use the power of others to achieve your own goals, which is to follow the trend. However, you have to understand that the people around you follow you because they have benefited from you. If you don't let them get any benefits, they will naturally leave you. Therefore, let the people who follow you have income, so that you can have a higher social value.
Secondly, it is willing to let the person who gets the benefit not repay you. Some people can bring benefits to others, but they are not reconciled. In order to make up for this unwillingness, they will often ask for something in return. However, oneCharacterGood people don't care about reciprocation, and they don't expect anything in return when they help others, because they understand that good deeds are rewards in themselves. They turn their kindness into a force that they pass on to those in need without expecting anything in return. They give up their time, energy, and even wealth to help others, and this sacrifice makes them more kind and noble.
In the end, it is willing to let go of one's own selfish interests. There are some people who are reluctant to do anything, and they have started the way of "goose plucking", and only their own interests are left in their eyes. Whether it is the benefits that pass through one's own hands or the things that come into one's hands, they are like entering an iron bucket and will never come out again. This kind of nastyCharacterIt will inevitably bring about a collapse for itself, because if you do too much injustice, you will kill yourself. Only by being willing to let go of one's own self-interest can there be more rewards. Trust that what you have lost will come back to you in another way. If nothing comes back, it doesn't matter, because your pattern has become bigger and your heart is more transparent.
In short, Shede is oneCharacterThe highest realm, the more willing a person is, the more he can reflect his broad-mindedness and noble character. One person'sCharacterdetermines its status and influence in society. Only by being willing can we achieve a great person and the value of life. So, to be a top one with a topCharacterWe should learn to give.