Recently, Dong Yuhui's speech has been on the hot search again.
This time, he stood on the podium of Tsinghua University.
He said:
“……In my first year of college, I didn't spend much time relaxing, making friends, participating in club activities, staying in the dorm day and night, practicing Xi pronunciation, improving my transitions and intonation, and expanding my vocabulary ...... It's boring, but I try and persevere, and time will tell. After more than a year, my improvement was noticeable, so obvious that the teacher praised me for the first time in class. I practiced day in and day out Xi and of course, the hard work paid off and I got a lot of recognition. I know you're all from top universities, and congratulations, you're so much better than me. I'm not (the top university), so I worked really hard and traveled a long way to get in front of you. ”
From the silent cultivation of the three-foot podium, to the diligence in the live broadcast room after the great changes in the industry, and then to the classroom standing in Tsinghua University, word by word, neither humble nor arrogant, he is so shining, I don't know how many passers-by under the starlight have been moved.
This speech also made everyone understand that his popularity was definitely not accidental.
No one can succeed casually, and behind all the amazing sentient beings' falling and generous, there must be diligence and struggle day and night.
Tell your child that you can be good if you are willing to work hard.
Your tomorrow
It's up to you todaySomeone once asked: If you could turn back time, what would you choose to do?
Some people say: I want to go back to junior high school, tell myself to study hard, get into a good school, and now I won't be like this;
Some people say: I want to go back to my freshman year of high school, not to fall in love, not to rebel, not to skip school, to be kind to my parents, if I worked hard enough at that time, I will not regret it today.
However, time cannot be turned back, regret has no effect, do not wait until time is gone, opportunities are gone, then remember to work hard, then it is already too late.
But kid, you're different, you're in the time period that many people want to go back to the most.
You have a lot Xi of time to study hard, you have too many opportunities to change your fate, and your life has just begun.
There are countless roads in front of you in the future, and whichever path you choose, what kind of life you choose.
Everyone has to sufferIt's just the difference between morning and nightChild, is it hard to study?Of course, there is no doubt about it. In the early morning of winter, you reluctantly leave the warm bed, get up early to go to school and read early, and your little face is blown red by the cold wind;Countless late nights, you sit under the desk lamp, just thinking that you can make progress in the next exam.
Sometimes you are so tired that you cry and complain, "Why is it so hard to study?".Why do I have to study hard?”
Yes, who wouldn't want to live a comfortable life if they could live an easy life.
But life is one torment after another, you can survive it, you are outstanding, you can't get through it, you are out. You think that studying is hard, but your parents are also hard at work, everyone in society is not idle, everyone is gritting their teeth for their own happiness and the happiness of their families.
Everyone has to go through hardship. Today you suffer a little more in your Xi, and in the future you will suffer less in lifeIf you sweat a little more today to learn Xi, you will be able to shed a little less tears in your life in the future. So child, please let go of your impetuousness, let go of your laziness, let go of your three-minute heat, empty your brain that you can't help but **, let go of your eyes that are easily attracted by anything, calm down and do what you have to do. Xi is the fairest, and how much you pay for it, it will give you what kind of results. is also a cold window to study hard, how can you be willing to bow to the wind;When you hear the word teenager, you should be repelled with mediocrity!
Child, you are young, you should have a lot of energy!
Anyone has a chance to be that dark horse, why can't that person be you?
May you be your own sunThere is no need to rely on anyone's lightThe debate topic for the finals of the sixth season of "Wonderful Story" is: "If you are just an ordinary person all your life, do you regret it?"Huang Zhizhong said: There are so many stars in the sky, we will not say which one is fainter, even if the stars are faint, they are a constellation that can guide the direction.
Child, you can be ordinary, but I don't want you to use the most precious ordinary as an excuse for your laziness.
It's tiring to persevere, but giving up is the easiest thing in the world.
If you don't want to study, you can close your book and sleep on the table, go outside to play, pick up your phone and play games, anyway, anything is happier than learning Xi.
But what about after such a brief period of happiness?
It's dazed, it's empty, it's at a loss, it's uneasy.
On the contrary, learning Xi is tiring, but it is fulfilling and satisfying.
Every day I feel a little more knowledgeable than yesterday, every day I feel a little more confident than yesterday, every day I feel a little more dazzling. Bingxin said:
"Successful flowers, people only envy her current brightness!However, what they get is often what they deserve, and any gorgeous turn is after countless falls and getting up.However, at the beginning, her buds were soaked in the tears of struggle and sprinkled with the blood of sacrifice. ”
Child, I hope you have the courage to be the sun more than the stars, even if you can't do it, but you still have to work in that direction.
The easier it is to slack off, the harder you have to try, because, when you feel pain, you are going uphill.
Therefore, don't be discouraged if you don't get good grades, you have to quietly rise to the top, and then amaze everyone, and the life of turning the tables against the wind is the happiest!
Maintain 6 Xi habits1.Keep exercisingPlato once said: "Movement is the way for human beings to get out of mediocrity and become strong and break through themselves." "So no matter how busy you are, parents should not forget to leave half an hour of sweat time for their children every day. If you have a sunny holiday, encourage your child to put down his phone and leave the room, even if it's a simple run, believing that the breeze will soothe his soul. 2.Do household chores.
For most children, they are usually Xi used to the care of their elders, and it is easy to develop a bad habit of not liking hands Xi Therefore, it is advisable for children to stick to hands-on household chores every day.
3.Organize and organizeFor children, if they can develop the habit Xi of organizing and storing from an early age, they can make their work more orderly and organized, which will be of great help to their future studies and lives.
Parents should cultivate their children's tidying Xi habits and let them organize their desks, toys and so on.
4.Go to bed early and wake up earlyDeveloping the Xi of going to bed early and waking up early requires persistence day after day, while developing the Xi of sleeping lazy only requires a few days of indulgence.
5.Eat a healthy dietFor growing children, a healthy diet Xi very important, meals are essential, and snacks are minimal.
In addition, parents should also pay attention to the fact that their children's diet should be nutritious and balanced, and children should not be picky eaters, let alone overeat.
6.Personal hygieneEvery parent should cultivate a good Xi of personal hygiene in their children from an early age.
Teach children to pay attention to personal hygiene, do not rub their eyes with dirty hands, cut their nails frequently, change their clothes frequently, and wash their hands before meals and after using the toilet.
Develop 6 college XiXi habitsGood learning habits XiXi help stimulate children's enthusiasm and initiative in learning Xi, help to form learning Xi strategies, Xi improve learning efficiency, cultivate self-learning ability, and benefit children for life. The following are good Xi about learning Xi habits that parents can urge their children to develop gradually.
1.Pre-XiXi habitsPre-Xi is a good learning habit and an important part XiXi of learning Xi, and it can improve the efficiency of learning Xi Xi and make Xi learning easier and more solid.
Therefore, it is necessary to let children carefully study and understand the knowledge of the new semester, develop the habit of taking the initiative to Xi Xi, and stick to it after the start of school. 2.Habitual XiXiRepetition Xi is always the most important thing in learning Xi, and systematic repetition can run through the knowledge learned Xi form a knowledge system.
Therefore, parents should guide their children to re-Xi, deepen their understanding of old knowledge, and form a good habit of re-XiXi.
3.Plan XiAs the old saying goes: "Everything is foreseen, and everything that is not prepared is wasted." "In whatever you do, you can succeed if you are prepared in advance, and you will fail if you are not prepared.
Therefore, parents should guide their children to learn to make a Xi plan, specific to the learning Xi of each subject, and develop a good planning Xi habits.
4.Xi of readingA famous writer once said: "Making children fall in love with reading will surely become the most cost-effective educational investment in your life." ”
Parents should help their children develop the Xi of loving reading through their own words and deeds, as well as the guidance of their children's interests, so that children can truly dig endless treasures from books. 5.Xi reading in the morningMorning reading can help children discover the beauty of words, especially exercising children's morning reading during holidays, which can help improve children's reading ability.
Therefore, parents should guide their children to read and recite articles in the morning to achieve proficiency in reading. 6.Calculation XiIn primary school mathematics, the most basic ability is calculation. If a child's numeracy skills are not good, it is difficult to learn mathematics well.
Therefore, parents must help their children develop good calculation Xi, supervise their children to do problems seriously, and teach their children to be good at drafting.
Teach children 6 social etiquette
For children, interpersonal communication is one of the most basic needs. Only in interaction with the environment can the development of children's personality, emotions, and intelligence be effectively promoted.
Therefore, in the process of raising children, social etiquette education must not be missing.
1.Teach children to respect peopleRespect for others will win more respect from others.
In the process of children's growth, parents should learn to respect their children and not interrupt them at will, only in this way can children learn to respect others.
2.Cultivate children's etiquette and etiquetteConfucius said: If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand. Cultivating children to know etiquette, understand etiquette, observe etiquette, and behave etiquette is the most important lesson of family education.
Parents should set a good example for their children from the small things in their daily lives, and gradually cultivate their children's knowledge of etiquette and etiquette. 3.Teach your child how to greet guestsParents should tell their children that they are going to receive guests with their parents and teach them how to welcome and entertain them.
4.Teach children greeting etiquetteParents should teach their children greeting etiquette, especially when getting along with their elders, what to say and what not to say, and teach them as soon as possible.
5.Teach children how to be a guestLead the child to someone else's house as a guest, and after entering the door, parents should guide the child to take the initiative to arrange the shoes taken off after saying hello.
In addition, parents should also tell their children not to touch other people's things, and if they want to play with toys, they must get the owner's consent.
6.Teach your child to take the initiative to shareThe dining table is a good place for parents to implement sharing education, such as sharing food with others, etc., and gradually cultivate children's good Xi of sharing.
Good Xi habits are half the battle, and maintaining good Xi makes you a better you.
Good Xi habits determine a child's life, and developing good Xi from an early age will benefit the child for life.