Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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Interactions between people, whether they are speaking or working together, consume energy.
We meet all kinds of people in our lives.
When you meet people with the same magnetic energy, you will find that life and work are smooth, and you feel motivated every day.
When you find people whose magnetic energy is repulsive, you will find that although you have no conflict, it will be very uncomfortable to stay in one space.
In life, spend more time with people who can bring you good fortune and good luck, and less people who consume you and hurt your good fortune.
If you meet the following three kinds of people, I hope you don't have too much empathy, otherwise you will hurt your good luck.
A colleague who likes to provoke trouble
As far as life is concerned, in addition to getting along with our families, the most important thing in our lives is to get along with our colleagues.
No matter where you work, you can meet colleagues who don't seem to have anything bad about them from the outside, and even seem to have a very good relationship with most of them.
He likes to intensify contradictions, likes to watch plays, and likes to push others into the whirlpool in order to satisfy his curiosity.
Maybe many times they don't realize that they are such a person, the person who hurts others to make themselves happy.
So when you say what they've done, and then point out that he's wrong, he'll even show a pitiful look.
If you meet such a person, it is best to stay away, because you don't know when you will be pushed into a vortex that you don't want to enter by him.
I often write about cause and effect.
In my opinion, such a person will always be tainted with countless causal lines, and if you have too much communication with him, you will also be contaminated with the causal lines on him.
In the end, you will inevitably encounter a lot of troubles.
To approach them is to turn away from the peace;To stay away from them is to draw near to good fortune.
The self-depraved hair is small
In fact, many of us have a desire to protect others and help others.
When you see people around you making mistakes, some people will unconsciously remind them and help them.
Despite the fact that there are times when they have to pay some price for themselves, they are still fearless.
You must know that it is very difficult to change a person, and the adult world has never been only for screening and not training.
Just as you can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, you can't interfere in someone else's life.
In the eyes of others, your efforts may be a futile struggle at the bottom.
Only by surfacing people who always want to move forward will you have the courage to move forward.
If there are some self-depraved haircuts around you, it is recommended that you stay away from them.
Because you will have some emotional foundation, there will be a lot of bonds, which will also make you try to meet the conditions put forward by him.
Once or twice probably won't make a difference.
But life is a game of energy transfer, and if you can't influence him, he is destined to influence you.
As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
Staying away from self-depraved people is a responsibility to yourself and a protection of your relationship.
Ungrateful loved ones
Although relatives are all blessings from the past, what a deep fate can become relatives.
But no one will give all their all, even if they are relatives, regardless of the consequences.
Because we are all human beings, there is an emotional account for interpersonal interactions, and if this emotional account is just consumed, it will not be long before the relationship falls apart.
Maintaining relationships requires reciprocity, and those who kidnap our loved ones with affection are only for their own selfish gain.
For their own benefit, they will exchange their friendship.
Staying away from them will not only save you from being taken advantage of, but it will also keep you away from unseen disasters.
If they can't satisfy their desires, they blame us for the crimes they want to impose on us.
Resentment keeps coming, our peace is disturbed, and our well-being is shunned by their resentment, never to be at peace.
The good fortune depends on our own practice, but we also depend on the good fortune of the people around us.
With kindness, life will naturally become smooth sailing, and well-being will naturally come.
If the heart is full of sorrow, life will be miserable, and good fortune will be far away.
So stay away from these three types of people, let your heart grow peacefully, be lucky, and live a happy life.
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.