After marriage, Xiaoqing found that her husband Guodong was not the person she knew. Before getting married, Gordon was a considerate and competent boyfriend, and his mother-in-law also gave people the impression of being flexible and sensible. However, once they get married, the whole family changes its true face. Xiaoqing found out that the reason why her mother-in-law took a fancy to her wedding room was for the purpose of collecting rent for her family. Although Xiaoqing and Guodong do not live with their elders, Guodong is very dependent on his mother and often quietly has some private conversations with his mother. And the family's financial situation also made Xiaoqing suspicious. Guodong is a middle-level leader of a state-owned enterprise, and the salary amount is low on the surface, but the various benefits and dividends are self-evident.
However, Guo Dong never took the initiative to reveal the existence of these hidden interests, but handed over his salary card to Xiaoqing, and as for the rent of the wedding room, who is at his disposal, Xiaoqing has no idea. The young couple originally lived a fairly comfortable life, and Xiaoqing also had a stable job and did not worry about financial problems. However, since she became pregnant, Xiaoqing's expenses have significantly exceeded her income. Instead of taking on the responsibilities of her husband, Gordon often complained about the financial pressure. During an altercation, Gordon even hinted at beating the child. Xiaoqing is dissatisfied with this, and is disgusted by Guodong's attitude of relying on his mother. The mother-in-law took the opportunity to provoke and make irresponsible remarks about Xiaoqing, which aggravated the conflict between the husband and wife. Xiaoqing's mood is getting worse day by day, and she spends every day in enduring tension and quarrels, and she doesn't enjoy the happiness of pregnancy.
When Xiaoqing was doing laundry for Gordon, he found that he had a large deposit slip in his pocket. It turned out that Gordon gave most of the money to his sister and mother-in-law, and bought expensive things for his sister. In Guodong's eyes, only his sister and mother are relatives, and Xiaoqing is just an outsider. This discovery made Xiaoqing even more disappointed with Gordon, and her attitude towards him became cold. All the joys, sorrows and sorrows of Gordon will be shared with his mother and sister, and Xiaoqing gradually becomes like a stranger. The mother-in-law took the trouble to sow discord and exacerbated the estrangement between the husband and wife. Xiaoqing couldn't bear it anymore and decided to leave the house and live independently with her son.
Xiaoqing's experience reminds us that before getting married, we should distinguish each other's character, especially have a clear understanding of the important values and responsibilities of the family. Husbands and wives should establish a pattern of mutual respect and balance in their relationship, so as to avoid one party becoming too dependent on or favoring the family, which may lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. In addition, couples should maintain open communication and solve problems in a timely manner to avoid backlogs and grievances. The most important thing is to establish common ideals and goals, and work together to create a stable and harmonious family environment.