It was rumored that Dong Jie and Pan Yueming wanted to get back together, Pan Yueming did not refute it, and Dong Jie even paid attention to Pan Yueming's Weibo behavior, which caused an exclamation from netizens!
To know in 2012,"Gambling, rudeness, and debt" are just three words, which have made Pan Yueming bear the "wretchedness" for more than ten years.
"Leng Qingqiu" in the play, and "Dong Jinlian" outside the play.
Dong Jie has relied on her own strength over the years to ruin her reputation, and even more so that her ex-husband has cleaned up the mess for her.
However, Pan Yueming, who was ruthlessly abandoned by her, never said half a bad word about Dong Jie, and reduced all the wrong things to one sentence:"I have a responsibility too".
Pan Yueming's actions make people confused, does he want to continue to love each other after being slandered by his wife and watching his wife betray him?
Sure enough, a sentence:"There is no difference between missing you and dying", completely exposing his inner thoughts.
The name Pan Yueming will sooner or later become "Pan Hanhan", but who understands the true purpose of his forbearance?
01, "three words" to break off marriage
In 2003, "The Family of Gold Powder" was broadcast, and Dong Jie became popular overnight with the role of "Leng Qingqiu". In everyone's eyes, she is so holy, like a hollow valley orchid.
Pan Yueming is not idle, with one high-quality work after another, he has become a popular "white-faced student". 's peaceful personality makes people can't help but sigh: "The son is as warm as jade."
In 2005, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie, who had become popular, finally filmed together!
When he saw Dong Jie, Pan Yueming was like crazy, and he was extremely good to her.
Is it love between them?
Maybe in the beginning, there was pure love.
Pan Yueming, I'm hungry."
I'll go buy a late-night snack right away, and you eat some cookies first." Pan Yueming took out a small bag of biscuits from his backpack and handed it to Dong Jie.
Dong Jie looked at the dark night, she said that she could eat a little biscuit and drink a little boiling water, and Pan Yueming didn't have to buy supper.
Pan Yueming didn't stop, turned around and rode a bicycle outside the crew.
After a while, Pan Yueming bought back a very fragrant noodle.
When Dong Jie held it in her hand, it was still hot, and the noodles were just right, not soft.
Pan Yueming is always careful to Dong Jie, and Dong Jie also cherishes the love between the two. At that time, the Internet was not so developed, and the two usually expressed their love through text messages.
Dong Jie was afraid that these text messages would be accidentally deleted, so she copied the text messages of the two chatting sentence by sentence every day.
She said that this is a testimony of the love between the two and will never be forgotten for the rest of their lives.
After 3 years of love, the two entered into marriage and gave birth to a son. When they were interviewed on the stage together, Dong Jie's eyes were full of Pan Yueming, and Pan Yueming even said that in her life, she only loves Dong Jie, and she is the best wife.
However, when a thing has reached its peak, it will also usher in a tragic end.
In 2009, when Pan Yueming went to make a movie, he accidentally had a major car accident. He almost died at that time, and was issued a critical illness certificate many times, and when he woke up, he only saw Dong Jie guarding him by the side.
Dong Jie hugged Pan Yueming and cried, saying how could he leave her and her son?
Seeing Dong Jie's pale face, Pan Yueming was very moved, and at the same time felt sorry for his wife.
Since then, Pan Yueming has been better to Dong Jie, often greeting his wife, and bringing her roses, necklaces and other gifts. In the room of the two, there was a small drawer, all of which were necklaces and bracelets that Pan Yueming bought for her.
Each necklace bears witness to his cherishment of her.
It's a pity that a divorce letter in 2012 completely made Pan Yueming's life fall into a trough.
How ruthless is Dong Jie?
can use words like "gambling, rudeness, and debt" to describe Pan YuemingOvernight, Pan Yueming's career fell into the abyss, and the directors terminated the contract with him one after another.
02, ten years of "nesting", just to not hurt the other party
Again and again, in exchange for betrayal.
It's like Pan Yueming said:"A home, how did it become like this"?The moment he saw the divorce paper, he couldn't believe it, because he hadn't done anything in it.
This can't help but remind Pan Yueming of some of Dong Jie's previous actions.
Since the second half of 2011, Dong Jie has begun to hand over her salary to her parents and no longer use it for the family.
And when she went to **, she wouldn't report to her husband, if he asked more, Dong Jie would immediately ask him: "Don't you believe me?"
Pan Yueming believed in Dong Jie 100%, and finally got a "forced divorce".
After Dong Jie framed Pan Yueming, Pan Yueming contacted Dong Jie many times, but Dong Jie refused. It wasn't until 5 months later that someone ** revealed that Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi kissed.
Extrapolating from time, she betrayed her husband during marriage.
The most angry thing is that Dong Jie can take a fancy to anyone, but why does she fancy Wang Dazhi?
Wang Dazhi's appearance is really indescribable.
Compared with Pan Yueming, one day and one earth. Could it be that eating too much fairy meat is like wanting to taste the taste of leprosy?
Dong Jie's operation is incomprehensible, and it is even more incomprehensible to Pan Yueming's heart.
For the sake of such an unfamous and ugly-looking actor, abandoning him is undoubtedly a shame for Pan Yueming. Pan Yueming couldn't bear it anymore, and directly sued Dong Jie's side, saying that she slandered herself.
In the end, Pan Yueming's crimes were all slander, but Dong Jie really betrayed her marriage.
Divorce is not the end, this is just the beginning of a pain for Pan Yueming.
The son was sentenced to Dong Jie for raising, but Pan Yueming had visitation rights.
But since the two divorced, the son Dingding rarely saw his father. Once, Dong Jie went to filming, Pan Yueming wanted to find his son, but Dong Jie's agent knew about it, and Dong Jie immediately went to school to take his son home.
Pan Yueming called Dong Jie, but she didn't answer any of them.
The son wanted to see his father, so Dong Jie said:"If you have a mother who loves you, what do you want your father to do"?
One or two roars, making Dingding obedient. He knew that not being able to mention his father's name in front of his mother would make her very angry.
Pan Yueming lives in Beijing, and occasionally Dong Jie will take Dingding to Beijing to film.
Every time I go to Beijing, Dingding's biggest desire is to see my father. But when he looked at his smiling mother, he could only bury his thoughts in his heart.
In 2018, Pan Yueming's father was seriously ill and wanted to see his grandson. He called his ex-wife, but his ex-wife refused without hesitation, and finally Dingding did not go to see his grandfather.
Because of this incident, the two once again triggered an Internet war.
Everyone called Dong Jie "Dong Jinlian", and her behavior was really unacceptable.
If it continues like this, the most hurtful thing is Dingding. For the sake of his son, Pan Yueming made compromises again and again.
Even though he was hurt by Dong Jie again and again, Pan Yueming never said a bad word about his wife, and he still said to the outside world that he had done something wrong.
I'm afraid the most wrong thing he did was to marry Dong Jie and let himself be ruined!
Obviously, he didn't do anything, but in the end he became a person who was criticized and ridiculed.
After so many years, Pan Yueming has changed from a cold noble son to today's "Uncle Fa Fu", isn't the reason for this because of Dong Jie?
But on the contrary, Pan Yueming will go crazy and be obsessed with Dong Jie again.
03, it's going to get back together again?Pan Yueming's love is too forbearing
A "bull cow head and balloon" is Pan Yueming's way of celebrating his son's birthday, but he has never seen Dong Jie or his son respond to him.
Even if they ignore themselves, Pan Yueming still never breaks.
In his heart, his son is the crystallization of the love between the two, and no matter what differences there are between them, they should not involve their son. It's a pity that Dong Jie didn't think deeply, is it her own fault or the other party's fault that she has come to this point?
Her love is completely gone in one mistake after another!
In the past few years, Pan Yueming has had a girl by his side, but he has never acknowledged the existence of the other party. Many people say that Pan Yueming is thinking about the old relationship and wants to give Dong Jie a chance to mend his ways.
If Dong Jie proposes to reunite, presumably Pan Yueming will agree without hesitation.
But Dong Jie didn't mention it, he was still approaching Dong Jie.
In 2021, someone discovered that Pan Yueming's portrait was a painting he once painted for Dong Jie. After so many years, he still has this painting, and his mind is clear at a glance.
Looking at Pan Yueming's living status, in addition to filming, he drinks tea and chats with friends, travels, and never seems to have talked about emotional problems.
However, occasionally when you are drunk, you will send out a confusing message.
"Is there a difference between missing you and being dead"?Seeing such a piece of information, many people were amazed, could it be that Pan Yueming is also a love brain, and he was injured like this, and he was obsessed.
Someone really couldn't stand it, and commented directly:"Did you drink fake wine"?Didn't you drink your head badly?I think this is what everyone really thinks.
Pan Yueming was not angry at all in the face of everyone's controversy, and joked that he would drink some real wine next time.
Some thoughts, once vented once, will continue to vent out.
Starting in 2022, some people discovered that Pan Yueming's life has been getting closer to Dong Jie little by little. Dong Jie likes to eat leek boxes, and Pan Yueming posted the leek boxes he made.
Dong Jie likes to cook and eat, and Pan Yueming also said that he loves cooking.
Whatever the other person likes, he will follow. is such an obvious pursuit of love, will Dong Jie not know?
Many people say that Pan Yueming is a "Pan Hanhan", but who knows what he forbears again and again?Son Dingding is his only child, and he is also the child he has loved for many years, but he can't hug it.
Pan Yueming tried many methods, but still did not get the right to visit.
If someone else were replaced, he would have already fought a lawsuit with Dong Jie to fight for the custody of his son. But after so many years, what has Pan Yueming done?He did nothing for fear that his son would be harmed.
Dong Jie relied on him not to dare to do anything, so he refused without hesitation, and didn't even give Pan Yueming a chance.
In 2023, the relationship between the two will usher in a turning point again.
On his son's birthday, Pan Yueming sent a message to celebrate his son's birthday, and Dong Jie responded for the first time and paid attention to Pan Yueming.
Some people suspect that the regression made by the two is to let their son enter the circle and develop.
Today, Dong Jie's reputation has not picked up, but Pan Yueming's fame is very great, and in the past two years, he has relied on his own ability to save a lot of family property in Beijing.
At this time, Pan Yueming is not what it used to be, if Dingding can get closer to Pan Yueming, he can also get some resources. Even with Dong Jie, maybe with the help of Pan Yueming, he will become popular again.
Why Dong Jie pays attention to Pan Yueming is really hard to guess. As long as it doesn't set up another game for Pan Yueming, it would be good if he was ruined!
Conclusion:
After leaving Dong Jie, it took Pan Yueming nearly 5 years to completely turn over. Now, another 5 years have passed, Dong Jie is back in his life again, what should he do?
Maybe for the sake of his son, Pan Yueming will make concessions, but can the already scarred love go back to the past?
For the current Pan Yueming, Dong Jie is no longer important, so he will not be sad and complain. But when he occasionally thinks about his previous marriage, he still regrets it.
They used to love each other so much, but in the end they came to this point!
It's just that no matter how much Dong Jie hates Pan Yueming, she shouldn't let her son suffer the pain, and she wants to see her father but doesn't dare to see it.