I believe that many people have been occupied by this short ** on the home page-
A middle school student felt that her mother worked too hard all day and cooked four dishes and one soup for her, but her mother pointed her nose and scolded her for wasting money and food.
Although we should not be in the state of "why not eat minced meat" to blame the mother, but the love expressed by the child, even if it is not responded, is it too cruel to blame and scold in such a way?
In life, we often find that some parents always behave too seriously and harshly in front of their children, they always demand their children according to their own wishes and standards, and ignore the feelings and needs of their children. This behavior not only disrupts the parent-child relationship, but also has a negative impact on the growth and development of the child. Therefore, instead of being unhappy parents, we should learn how to get along with our children properly.
First of all, we need to learn to respect our children's individuality and interests. Every child is unique, with different personalities and interests. As parents, we should respect their choices and give them full support and encouragement. If we are too our children, or if we don't care about their interests at all, it can make them feel frustrated and lost, and even affect their self-confidence and self-worth.
Secondly, we need to learn to communicate and communicate with our children. Maintaining good communication and communication with your children is the key to a healthy parent-child relationship. We should communicate with our children frequently, learn about their lives and Xi, and listen to their ideas and opinions. Only in this way can we better understand our children's needs and problems, and give them better support and assistance. At the same time, we must also learn to express our emotions and care, so that our children can feel our love and care.
Third, we need to learn to guide our children correctly. As parents, we have a responsibility to guide our children in the right direction. However, we should not be too coercive and constrained by our children, but should let them realize their own problems and shortcomings through guidance. At the same time, we should also give our children enough freedom and space to explore and develop their potential. Only in this way can we raise children who have the ability to think independently and make decisions on their own.
Finally, we need to learn to accept our children's shortcomings and mistakes. It's normal for every child to make mistakes or show shortcomings. As parents, we should accept our children's shortcomings and mistakes, and help them correct their mistakes and improve themselves. If we criticize our children too harshly, it will make them feel frustrated and disappointed, and even hit their self-confidence and self-esteem. Therefore, we should give our children enough support and encouragement so that they can continue to improve and improve in the process of growth.
In short, not being a disruptive parent is a goal that each of us should aspire to. Only by respecting children's personality and interests, maintaining good communication and exchanges with children, guiding children correctly, and accepting children's shortcomings and mistakes, can we establish a healthy and harmonious parent-child relationship and lay a solid foundation for children's growth and development.