Talking excessively will be disliked, no exceptions
In this complex world, communication between people is the bond that maintains emotions and the bridge between hearts. We want to be understood, we want to find empathy, so confiding becomes a way for people to seek comfort and recognition.
However, when confiding becomes an over-dependent Xi, it can have negative effects and even lead to disgust.
Talking excessively, like an insatiable diner, sitting at the table, and constantly ordering food from the chef until the chef can't bear it anymore, and disgust arises.
Everyone has their own living space and spiritual territory, and we are willing to share our joys and sorrows with others, and we are willing to listen to others. But excessive confiding, like an endless flood, breaks through the boundaries between people, making the otherwise comfortable communication heavy and oppressive.
Excessive confiders tend to be immersed in their own emotions, ignoring the feelings of the other person, and blindly pouring out negative emotions. Not only does this not bring real comfort to oneself, but it is more likely to leave the other person feeling confused and exhausted.
On the stage of life, everyone is an actor and an audience. When we pour out our worries and pains in our hearts, do we ever think about the other person's feelings?Excessive confiding is a selfish act that acts like a double-edged sword that cuts not only the person who confides in it, but also those who are forced to listen.
No one wants to be someone else's emotional trash can, not even your parents. Confiding is not a one-way vent, but a two-way communication.
In the process of confiding, we should not only pay attention to our own emotional expression, but also pay attention to the feelings and needs of the other person. Moderate confiding can shorten the distance between people, so that they can understand and trust each other better;Excessive confiding can create an urge to run away and even cause a rift in an otherwise intimate relationship.
In order to avoid falling into the trap of over-talking, we should learn to be silent and self-digesting at the right time. When we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we can try to face and solve them alone, and cultivate inner tenacity and strength. At the same time, we must also learn to empathize, respect the feelings and needs of others, and not let our emotions become a burden to others.
In this era of competition and pressure, we all need to find a balance that can express our inner emotions while maintaining harmony and beauty in our relationships.
Make talking a beautiful way to communicate, not a burden to avoid. Only in this balance can we find true empathy and understanding, so that each other's hearts can be nourished and grown in communication.
May we all find those close friends who are willing to listen and know how to listen in the journey of life, share joys, sorrows and sorrows with them, walk through the wind and rain together, and welcome the sunshine. And when we become the object of confiding, please accept each other with a tolerant and understanding heart, and give them warmth and support. Because in this world, everyone deserves to be treated gently.