Childhood nightmares, how he escaped from his mother s shadow

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

It is a proven truth that only freedom can be achieved when you break out of the cage. If a person wants to break through himself, or want to get out of some influences, he can only be saved by rushing out by his own strength, otherwise he will only continue the previous cycle. There is no one who can complete his own salvation through the help of others, therefore, instead of asking questions, it is not as good as relying on oneself to go out, and desperately go out, only in this way, without breaking or standing, a new life will begin.

The film "Game of the Night" recommended to you today tells such a story. A young man who had experienced a life of drunkenness during his childhood has returned to his home, and this once-glorious place is now missing many familiar faces, but it is still difficult to hide its gorgeous nature. Young people come to a familiar place, memories are constantly intertwined, slowly, two familiar and parallel lines are intertwined, and in this way something else evolves, the young man's mind is stretched, everything that was once familiar becomes familiar again, but the things mixed between the familiar have also become the nightmare that plagues the growth of young people.

Gorgeous is not a favorite word in childhood, or gorgeous is not a word that everyone needs in childhood, for children, what they need in childhood is friends, what they need is love, but everything that the young people in the film experienced in their childhood is missing these two points, therefore, it seems to be gorgeous and graceful, and it seems to be brilliant, but in the childhood world of young people, such luxury shows coldness, because no one really cares.

The resplendent of the house was accompanied by the changing of glasses by all kinds of people, people sang happy songs, danced beautiful dance steps, and everyone's face was filled with a smile, which looked very cheerful, but in fact it was difficult to hide the coldness behind the smile, when everyone gathered in this splendid place for money and profit, this place called home became more and more cold.

Young people want to bring their fiancées back to this place to say goodbye to it, but goodbye is an indescribable sadness, marriage means a new beginning, but the real beginning is to say goodbye to the past, as for how to say goodbye, everyone has their own way, but the way that belongs to young people seems very lonely. After all, the past is his own, and he can't fully unfold his past in front of his fiancée, and similarly, he can't make his past just the past just like the past.

Welcoming a new life means saying goodbye to the past, but saying goodbye is also a pain, because between goodbyes, familiar scenes resurface.

The childhood of young people is cold and false at the same time, and the trauma caused by this falsehood and coldness has a deep influence on young people in adulthood, which essentially determines the sentimental character of young people, on the one hand, he wants to come out of the clouds of the past, on the other hand, he also has a feeling of reluctance when he faces the past.

Because the past is not as cold as I imagined, in the cold moment, young people have also had a trace of warmth, when their mother and other women who sincerely love them at a certain moment also give their memories, this is also a kind of comfort for young people in childhood. If starting a new life means turning everything from childhood to ashes, young people are not willing to say goodbye to their childhood like this, this is another kind of profligacy, and at the same time, it is also a complete exorcism of the only remaining warmth in their hearts, but this is life.

If you can't say goodbye to the old life, then you won't usher in a new life, don't we all come out of the old life every day, and then catch up with the new life when it's over?If a person can't say goodbye and completely withdraw himself from the old life, then he will not be able to usher in a new life, any compromise or compromise is all things that hinder his progress, only by saying goodbye to the past completely, there will be new possibilities, otherwise, more of us are still in the same place cycle.

However, not everyone has the courage to face the tempering of a new life, because there will always be a reason for you to be nostalgic from the past life, we are used to one state, there is no way to develop another state, we are used to a life and there is no way to completely free ourselves from it. No matter how nostalgic the old life is, but for time, this nostalgia is just a kind of nostalgia, because no one can stop the pace of time, but when we move forward, will we have the courage to move forward?

The last fire makes young people say goodbye to the past completely, let the past turn into ashes, sacrifice what they think is warm and then say goodbye, this is a kind of farewell, but also the beginning of another form, because of saying goodbye, so there is a new starting point, because of saying goodbye, so in the face of a new life can be unscrupulous. Only by getting out of the vanity can we usher in new growth, and we must dare to take the first step in the face of the unknown future.

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