When the wife came home from a business trip, she saw the little nanny's dress and her husband's attitude, and immediately noticed that something was wrong
This afternoon, I returned home early from my work. As he walked into the living room, he heard a sound of Suosuo. I walked into the kitchen and saw a strange little girl, dressed in my clothes, stir-frying. I was stunned, this was obviously a nanny hired by my husband!However, I came home from a business trip and didn't inform him in advance at all!I was even more angry, and I stepped forward to her and asked, "Who are you?"Why are you wearing my clothes?The little nanny lowered her head shyly and twisted her face to face me. She hesitantly said, "The boss asked me to wear it." This sentence made me even more angry, what the hell is going on?I immediately dialed my husband's **.
Hey, honey, what's the matter with you?I came back from a business trip and saw a strange little girl cooking at our house!I confronted him directly. My husband's embarrassed laughter came from there, "Honey, this is a temporary babysitter, I'm a little busy today, so I'll let her help, don't be angry." "I was even more dissatisfied when I heard his words, I can hire a nanny when I go home, I just don't take me seriously!I suddenly felt like I was left out.
At dinner, my husband chatted with the little nanny while eating, and his attitude was very kind. I put down the dishes and chopsticks in my hand and watched them talk, and my heart became more and more unpleasant. They were talking and laughing as if I were transparent, and it hurt me deeply. I couldn't take it anymore, "What are you two talking about?!"."All of a sudden, I let out a roar.
My husband was like a chicken blood being incited, and immediately complained that I was too sensitive, and the little nanny quickly lowered her head to avoid my gaze. Seeing this scene, my heart was even more painful like a knife, how could the two of them do this to me?I stood up angrily, "I'm not eating, I'm going back to my room." I left the living room in a rage, my heart was in a mess, full of grievances and helplessness.
Now I'm sitting in my room, thinking about what happened just now, and I still can't help but feel uncomfortable. How did it come to be like this between us?Could it be that ordinary life will really make us go to **?Or is this a contradiction that we have been ignoring for a long time?My mind was so chaotic that I really didn't know what to do.
This is something I can't let go of until now. I need to rethink our relationship, what exactly is wrong with us?
My relationship with my husband seems to have become more strained after this incident. He worked late every day, and when he came back, he always looked tired, and we communicated less and less. Sometimes I look at his back, and I always have an indescribable sense of loneliness in my heart, as if there is an invisible barrier between us.
One day, when I was packing my luggage at home, I happened to dig out my husband's mobile phone. I didn't want to ** his privacy, but when I saw a woman's name frequently appearing on the screen of my phone, I couldn't help but be suspicious. I clicked on the chat history and was blown away by the conversation. Did he have an affair?My heart sank to the bottom, and I couldn't believe what I was seeing.
I didn't rush to question him, but silently pondered his every move over the past few days. I began to pay attention to his situation and carefully observe his words and deeds. Sure enough, I noticed that he has always looked nervous lately, and he will have all kinds of inexplicable excuses when he goes out for a while. I can't be sure if he's actually cheating, but this suspicion makes my heart twist.
On a weekend night, he didn't come home for a long time, citing overtime. I sat anxiously in the living room, the hands of my phone constantly moving forward. Finally, he returned home late at night. I quickly rushed up and asked him where he was today. He innocently explained that it was indeed because he was busy with work that caused him to return late. However, my heart could no longer believe his words.
This conflict between us is gradually escalating. I don't know what the problem is between us, but the situation is making me feel more and more suffocated. I used to fantasize that we would spend our lives together, but now I feel that fantasy is in jeopardy. My heart was full of contradictions and helplessness, and I really didn't know where we were going from here.
Looking up at the ceiling, I pondered in the dark. Me and him. There seems to be a contradiction all the time, but we never really face it. I found myself less and less aware of what he was thinking, and I was afraid to express my emotions openly and honestly. The gap between us grew deeper and deeper, and it seemed to overwhelm me.
It was another ordinary evening, and he and I were at home. He sat on the couch, staring intently at his phone as if I didn't exist. I wanted to talk to him, but I felt a struggle and I fell silent. I went into the kitchen, maybe I'd feel better. I went to the kitchen to make myself a cup of tea, but I found a scene that made me stunned - the little nanny was pouring water for him, her and her smile were like a thorn in my heart, and the pain made me unable to breathe.
Why are you messing with again!I'm afraid you really don't want to live with me!His abrupt words shattered my thoughts. I looked at him, speechless, my heart was full of grievances. He looked at me a little angry, even a little helpless. "It's not going to go on like this, we need to talk about it. He said in a deep voice. I was stunned for a moment, and although I struggled with my heart, I still couldn't resist his suggestion to sit down and communicate.
We sat in the living room and ordered two drinks on the table. He looked at me, and I looked at him. After a long silence, he spoke. "There seems to be some problems between us, and I know you're not happy about this time. Before I could finish speaking, I interrupted him, "I also feel that we are getting stranger and stranger to each other, and I don't even know what you are thinking." He was silent for a moment, "Maybe we did overlook something, and I'll communicate with you well during this time." Don't just put up with it, we need to be honest. ”
I looked into his eyes, and for a moment I realized that he also seemed to have a lot of unspeakable secrets. Although there was a breakthrough in our dialogue, the knot was not really untied. It made me feel heavy and deeply tired. I knew it was all about the missing communication between us, but the feeling of detachment caught me off guard.
The man in front of me, who used to be the closest person to me, has now become so strange, it makes me feel deeply lonely. What exactly is wrong between us, and how can we fix it?
I don't know how many difficulties I will face next, but I am willing to bravely meet them for the sake of our relationship. Perhaps, this is the only way for our relationship to evolve......
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A long time ago, the door of my parents' house was splashed with paint. Someone climbed up to the second-floor balcony at night and splashed wall paint on the windows. Xiao Zhao and I were not husband and wife at that time, I was in Shanghai and she was in Beijing. She told me everything that happened when I was standing on the balcony in slippers and pajamas. Although the ** received a string of baritone gossip, I didn't have the slightest sense of comedy about it at that time. At that time, I felt for the first time that the two of us were not thinking like ordinary people, and the two of us seemed to be unable to find a common language.
When I came to her house, she was the first to tell me all about the situation. The look in her eyes was unusually frank, revealing a sense of vagueness that bordered on absurdity. Xiao Zhao's husband was what I first learned about. At a party, a man who was not very popular invited her to dinner, but she politely declined. When she refused, the man's nerves seemed to go out of sorts, like a volcano erupting. He arrived at her house, 200 kilometers away, on the night of the incident, put on his hat and went to the roof. I don't know what's going on except that I feel very suffocated. He pointed a gun at her, making some vague threats. After that, he left in a hurry, and then ** and Xiao Zhao began to investigate, but there was no clue.
But two weeks later, the babysitter's incident added even more chaos to the family. She slipped on the stairs, causing serious injuries to her arms and legs. Then we had to schedule a long intensive care clinic**. This kind of blame is too unsafe, and the continuous blows have never stopped. The whole home is like a grinder, so that our hearts have nowhere to settle at all.
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