The English writer Charles Dickens once said, "A healthy mind is more powerful than a hundred wisdoms." Mentality determines life, and the key to happiness lies in mentality. A good attitude makes people full of sunshine and self-confidence, and has happiness everywhere. On the contrary, a bad attitude makes people hindered everywhere, everything does not go well, and all they see is gloom and misery. In life, no matter what you have, it is better to have a good attitude. When you have a young mindset, you can have vitality in life. Some people are dying of age in their twenties, while some people are still alive and kicking at the age of eighty, and the difference lies in their mentality. When the mentality is young, people appear young. National grandmother Wu Yanshu is 84 years old, but she is still full of vitality and vitality. In her, you can see wrinkles, but you can't see aging, because she gives people the impression of being young and energetic. In this era when people want to lie flat, she insists on exercising every day, insisting on exercising the way of life and mentality, and making herself look young and attractive. She tries new things every day and is curious and passionate about the world. She once said: "I am 84 years old, but I still have dreams to achieve. Her smile is bright and her eyes are bright, because she has a young mentality, which makes her look charming and attractive, and she has countless fans for a while.
We can't keep our youth, but we can keep our youthful mindset. I often hear people in their 40s sighing: "What do you expect when half of your body is about to fall into the ground?"Let's just mix it up!And some young people in their early 20s think that "the rest of their lives are all about living for children" as soon as they give birth. "They seem to feel that their youth is over and that life is over. Without a young mindset, people will age prematurely and lose their vitality and passion for life. "Don't give up on yourself too soon and let the rest of your life trickle in, it's well worth it. Chen Chun, a long-lived old man, once said: "Many times, it is not that you are really old, but that you feel that you are old." If you feel like you're still young, you won't be old, and others won't think you're old. "So, no matter what age we are, mindset is crucial. A positive and optimistic mindset can keep us young and make life full of life and vitality.
Dale Carnegie once said, "In addition to money, optimism is an intangible wealth of the world." "If optimism is a tangible asset, then it is priceless. A person with an optimistic attitude will find the source of happiness because they are the source of happiness. When Robert celebrates his 70th birthday, his friends celebrate his birthday, and one of them sees that his bald head is not good-looking, but he thinks it is good and laughs at himself for being the first to know about rain. This reminds me of a quote from William Shakespeare: "He who is optimistic in his heart is always the first to see the light." ”
There is a girl in Jiangxi who did not give up after a series of ups and downs and blows. She took her infant child and went away to deliver food in Anqing, Anhui Province. In the face of difficulties and challenges, she did not complain and retreat, but chose to face them positively. She smiled and said, "If you don't suffer now, when will you suffer?"At only 21 years old, it is the time to endure hardship. "This optimistic and positive attitude is worth learning from.
In general, don't give up on yourself too early, cherish every moment of the rest of your life, keep a young mindset, and face life with optimism, this is the lifestyle we should pursue. She wants to rely on her own efforts to buy a house and a car for her children, so that they can have a warm home in the city. Seeing her innocent and bright smile, we are convinced that her life will definitely get better and better. As Rabindranath Tagore said, "The things of the world are better to laugh at them than to wash them off with tears." "In the face of all kinds of difficulties and challenges in life, optimism is always a sharp sword to dispel the gloom. In this busy world, we have to deal with the pressure of work, the complexity of interpersonal relationships, the uncertainty of natural and man-made disasters, and the indifference of birth, old age, sickness and death. If life is destined to endure hardship, then optimism is our best medicine. A person with an optimistic attitude can see the hope in life and lead himself and his life to a future full of flowers and sunny weather.
Let's imagine a picture of a person with a generous mindset who is always able to live happily. There is a story about a theft from Roosevelt's house. Friends came to comfort him, but he comforted them by saying that although he had lost some of his things, his life had not been harmed. He emphasized that the thief had only defiled his character, while his soul remained holy. People with a broad mindset are broad-minded, measured, and able to see the positive side of things. They don't just focus on the negatives, but are good at finding the good and bringing comfort to themselves and others. As a result, they tend to be able to calm down and stay happy in a short period of time.
However, in real life, we often meet some people who are difficult to be happy. An unintentional word may make them linger;A small unfulfilled request can provoke ridicule and ridicule from themOnce they cut the queue for shopping, they may be furious;If they don't get a bonus, they may make a big fuss in the leadership office. And the conflicts between family members make it even more difficult for them to let go.
Therefore, we need to learn to adjust our mindset and maintain a tolerant attitude. As a wise man said, "It is good to be lenient to others, and it is a blessing to be lenient to yourself." "Only people with a relaxed mind can meet happiness in life. Whether the mentality is tolerant or not directly affects our attitude and habits towards life. Senica's words remind us that a narrow-minded man cannot hold a grain of sand in his bowl or a thorn in his heart. And people with a relaxed mentality, they can tolerate thousands of mountains and rivers, and everything is in an instant throughout the ages. They can understand and accept the shortcomings of others and the shortcomings of the world, and can calmly face success and failure, honor and disgrace, gain and loss, and profit and harm. This kind of tolerant attitude seems to be considerate of others, but it is actually love for oneself.
Kazuo Inamori said in "Dry Law": "The path of life is depicted by the heart. "Having a peaceful mind is like having an invisible bridge, and the road will be unimpeded. When we relax our hearts and harmonize our atmosphere, our lives will be smooth and our mood will be broadened.
A passage from psychologist Maslow reminds us that when the mindset changes, the attitude changes;When attitudes change, habits change;When habits change, personality changes;When your personality changes, your life changes. Mindset is the beginning of life and the end that determines everything.
Also at the moment of sunset, Li Shangyin, Zhu Ziqing, and ** have different mentalities, and their exclamations are also different. Therefore, we must slowly cultivate our good attitude. If you have a good mentality, everything will be fine. Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude at all times and in all places, because this is the best way to face life**.