Introduction: WithSocialMore and more elderly people are faced with the phenomenon of having only one child. In this case, the old peopleRetirementThe pressure is focused on the child, and at the same time if the child's spouse is also an only childRetirementThe pressure is even greater. In order to avoid children being unable to bear the heavy burden of caregiving, we should arrange three things in advance after the age of 60, namely, arranging the residence for the elderly, arranging the use of the money in hand, and arranging the will. This ensures our old agelifeBe more autonomous, more comfortable, and lighter of your child's burden.
It is very important for seniors to have a home of their own. Even a small house is a base for the elderly, who can be free to dispose of without being restricted by others. However, housing prices are getting worse and better, and some parents have to ** their only residence in order to help their children buy a house, and they can only live with their children in the end. However, relying on children alone does not guarantee harmonious coexistence. In particular, some parents with gentle personalities live with their children and their spouses, and many grievances and grievances will accumulate over time. Therefore, we should avoid huddling with children, and choosing to live alone will be more comfortable. After the age of 60, ifEconomyIf possible, don't give up your only place of residence for the sake of your children, unless we are able to arrange another place for ourselves. lifeThe wishful needs their own space and independence.
Arranging a good retirement home is not just about enjoying autonomy and comfortlife, among other benefits. First of all, the choice of residence can also take into account the living environment, transportation convenience,Medicalthe degree of coverage of the facilities and other factors. A comfortable and convenient living environment will be for the elderlylifeQuality brings a big improvement. Secondly, the ability of the elderly to live independently can also reduce the burden of caring for their children. When parents and children live together, it is inevitable that some friction and contradictions will occur, and the pressure on the family relationship cannot be ignored. And if the elderly have their own independent home, they can spend their time and space freely, and they will be better able to maintain a good relationship with their children. The most important thing is that the elderly are able to better protect their privacy and dignity while living independently, and not only can they maintain their ownIndependent personality, you can also better maintain your social circle and actively participateSocialActivity.
After the age of 60, we need to plan our wealth and ensure old agelifestability and fulfillment. We can divide the money in hand into two parts, one for daily expenses and one for spare funds. For the part of daily expenses, a detailed section should be formulatedBudgetto indicate how much you spend each month to avoid extravagance and unnecessary spending. At the same time, we should also arrange the use of each money reasonably, and do not spend money blindly and wait until the funds are exhausted to start worryingRetirementproblems. In addition, we can also help our children appropriately if our financial conditions allow, but we must leave a certain way out and do not spend all the money on our children, because human nature cannot stand the test.
Rational planning of the use of wealth in one's hands, not only for the elderly themselveslifeThere are benefits, and at the same time, it can also be lightened for childrenEconomyBurden. Reasonable control of monthly expenses can not only ensure that the elderly have enoughlifeexpense, but also to avoid unnecessary waste. At the same time, build a detailed oneBudgetIt can also help seniors better plan for future spending, so as to achieve financial stability and security. In addition, it is also a form of care and support to help children appropriately, but we also need to make clear boundaries that we should not spend all our wealth on our children. Because children also have their own families andlife, too muchEconomyAid can have a detrimental effect on their growth and development. Therefore, the rational distribution of wealth and leaving a certain way out for oneself is also to protect the independence and autonomy of children.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are a reality that everyone has to face, and although we often avoid death, we still need to be prepared for our own death. Before we pass away, we should think about distributing our inheritance as early as possible. If conditions permit, one can be madeWills, clarify their last wishes, and avoid the inheritance from being privately appropriated by relatives. In addition, some elderly people also hope that their ashes can be placed in their hometown or other specific places, which also need to be explained to their children in advance. Arranging the aftermath in advance is not a "curse" for ourselves, but for uslifeBe more calm and no longer worry about regrets.
Arranging a good will can not only ensure the reasonable distribution of the estate, but also avoid conflicts and disputes between relatives. A definite oneWillsBe able to clarify the rights and interests of each heir and avoidInheritanceof unfairness and injustice. In addition, a reasonable oneWillsIt can also protect the people that the elderly care about and cherish, such as some charitiesSocialPublic welfare organizations, etc., passedWillswill be their ownLovePass it on. In addition, when the elderly are thinking about their own death, they can also take this opportunity to complete some things that they once regretted to achieve spiritual relief and comfort. Arranging a will after the age of 60 is also an affirmation of one's own life and love for one's loved ones.
withSocialThe development of the elderly with only one child is more and more facing, and they are facingRetirementThe stress is focused on the situation on the child. In order to avoid putting too much burden on our children, we need to make three arrangements in advance after the age of 60: arranging a place to live for the elderly, arranging the use of money in hand, and arranging a will. ReasonableRetirementHousing allows the elderly to enjoy more autonomy and comfortlifeto reduce the burden on children. Proper financial planning can ensure old agelifestability and fulfillment, and protect yourselfIndependent personality。Arranging a will can ensure the reasonable distribution of the estate and avoid disputes and conflicts between relatives. Through such an arrangement, we can make our own old agelifeBe more at ease and protect your child's independence and autonomy. The age of 60 is a new beginning, let us take good care of our bodies, plan our wealth reasonably, enjoy the beauty of every day, and reduce the burden on ourselves and our children.