They were originally a pair of sweet and loving lovers, and they had already taken wedding photos and were ready to get married.
As a result, a car accident changed everything, the woman was half paralyzed, almost turned into a vegetative state, and her intelligence regressed to the level of two years old.
The young man's parents all feel that fortunately they are not married, you are a soldier, and you will definitely find a better one.
But the guy insisted on refusing, not only took care of his girlfriend, but also married her.
Now that 14 years have passed, what happened to them?Are they still together?
The source in this article is from "Communist Party of China News Network", October 10, 2015, but in order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be polished, please read sensibly, for reference only!
The guy's name is Lu Lei, and he is a very good soldier.
In 2015, he stood on the stage of the program "China Dream Show" and sang a song "I Grow Up with You" for his wife Pan Xiaoxia.
All the audience present felt that Lu Lei was handsome and had a dashing military spirit, so his wife must also be a beautiful woman with an extraordinary temperament, so that a talented and beautiful couple would look good when standing together.
However, when his wife Pan Xiaoxia came to the stage, all the audience was stunned.
This Pan Xiaoxia looks ordinary, her figure is still a little bloated, and more importantly, she has been hugging Lu Lei and crying since she came to power, and her behavior is not like a normal adult at all, but like a child.
With tears in his eyes, Lu Lei told all the audience that his wife Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence was only two years old.
So in the shocked eyes of all the audience, Lu Lei told the story between himself and his wife.
In fact, my wife was not born like this, a few years ago, she used to be a beautiful and gentle girl.
The two met through a blind date, and Lu Lei had already been on a blind date with many girls, but because Lu Lei's family did not buy a house, all of them failed on a blind date.
Only Pan Xiaoxia is different, she took a fancy to Lu Lei's military spirit at a glance, and felt that he was a good man worthy of trust.
So the two began to try to date, and as long as they were free, they would ask each other out for dinner, shopping, and movies.
At that time, it happened to be snowing heavily in Henan, and the two walked in the snow, building snowmen together, playing and making trouble, which was very romantic. Because the relationship developed very well, the parents of the two families also agreed very well, and they made a marriage contract after knowing each other for more than ten days, officially transforming from lovers to unmarried couples.
Because of Lu Lei's identity, he had to return to the army, and the two began a long-distance relationship for a period of time.
During this period, Lu Lei called his fiancée ** from time to time, and at the same time applied for a wedding leave for himself.
Soon the marriage application was approved, and Lu Lei happily went home to reunite with Pan Xiaoxia and discuss marriage matters together.
The two also happily took a set of wedding photos, which froze the happiest time of the two of them.
Everything went according to a bright future, step by step, but everything changed because of a car accident.
It was one night on January 1, 2010, and the two were holding hands and shopping after dinner, discussing their married life together.
However, it was a hopeful day, when the two of them came to a corner without street lights, a farm truck suddenly rushed out, and the two of them had no time to react at all, but were knocked off in an instant.
Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia fell into a coma on the spot, and bright red blood suddenly spilled all over the street.
Passers-by saw this scene and immediately called the police and called 120 for emergency services**.
When the police arrived, they found out that the driver of the farm truck was driving drunk, which led to the tragedy.
Fortunately, the ambulance came in time, and the two were sent to the hospital for rescue, when the doctor carried them on the stretcher, Pan Xiaoxia still had a very faint consciousness, her hand tightly grasped the doctor's sleeve, and a faint voice came out of her mouth: Save my husband, save him first!
But the fact is that although both of them were injured, because Lu Lei had received long-term training in the army and had good physical fitness, the injury was not serious, but there was a large area of contusion on his body and a moderate brain **.
But Pan Xiaoxia is different, she has not been awake since she was sent to the hospital, after the doctor's diagnosis, Pan Xiaoxia's head was seriously injured, there was a large amount of blood stasis in the brain, and a craniotomy was needed, and there was a very high possibility of becoming a vegetative person in the future, and his life was in danger at any time.
Lu Lei felt that the whole world was about to collapse, and the original happy life was completely gone.
Seeing this, Lu Lei's parents persuaded their son, fortunately you didn't get a certificate, you are not a legal husband and wife, find a better and better girl, you are a soldier, your grades are still outstanding, there must be better people waiting for you.
But Lu Lei didn't think so, he felt that since he was a soldier, he couldn't give up easily, not to mention that although the two didn't get the certificate, they had already told each other that they would swear an alliance with each other, how could they just abandon her?
Moreover, Pan Xiaoxia needed 200,000 yuan for the craniotomy operation, and the driver who caused the accident only took out 80,000 yuan because of his poor family background, which was not enough to pay for the medical expenses, not to mention the follow-up expenses.
Pan Xiaoxia's family is not very wealthy, and he can't come up with so much money at once, but the situation is very urgent, so Lu Lei doesn't know how many relatives and friends he begged and how many places he ran to get the operation fee.
However, after the surgery, the situation was not as rosy as everyone imagined.
After the craniotomy, Pan Xiaoxia has been in a coma.
The doctor told Lu Lei with some concern that if he couldn't wake up, then he was very likely to become a vegetative person.
Lu Lei was worried, and the doctor suggested that he tell her the previous story next to her, maybe he could wake her up.
So Lu Lei sat on the side of the hospital bed every day and told stories to Pan Xiaoxia, telling them the process of meeting, knowing each other, and falling in love.
also read out the text messages that the two usually send word by word.
Every time he read it, Lu Lei couldn't help but shed tears in his eyes, but he still didn't give up.
Because Pan Xiaoxia has been in a coma, Lu Lei is worried that she will have bedsores, so he will turn her over every hour, and give her a full body massage and scrub every night.
In the more than 20 days that Pan Xiaoxia was in a coma, Lu Lei was taking care of her, and every night he just slept on the stool in the hospital for a while, watching everyone lose a lot of weight.
But a miracle still happened, and after more than 20 days, Pan Xiaoxia actually woke up!
This was a big surprise for everyone, but soon reality poured cold water on them.
The doctor observed that Pan Xiaoxia had been in a groggy and confused state after waking up, and she didn't pay attention to anyone who spoke, something was not quite right in this state, so he gave her an intelligence test, and the test results surprised everyone.
Her current intelligence level is only two years old!
Moreover, the left half of Pan Xiaoxia's body is still in a state of hemiplegia, unable to move, and the whole person is almost completely useless.
Lu Lei felt very uncomfortable when he saw his beloved become like this, in order to take care of her, Lu Lei still told her the previous stories, and often played her favorite songs.
And Lu Lei also took out the wedding photos that had just been taken to show her, and told her that we were about to get married, and the marriage certificate was ready.
But Pan Xiaoxia has never been able to respond very well, she is just dumbfounded, or crying, completely a newborn baby.
Pan Xiaoxia's sister found Lu Lei and persuaded him to give up, because it would not be cured, and there would be no way to marry him.
Lu Lei's parents also took the opportunity to persuade him, but Lu Lei always refused to agree, he was unwilling to give up a living life like this, not to mention, it was still his lover.
In this way, under Lu Lei's meticulous care, Pan Xiaoxia gradually regained consciousness and was already able to communicate with people simply, but her language center was damaged, and it was difficult to have a conversation with people, so she could only use blinking and closing her eyes or some small movements to complete the communication.
More than two months after her car accident, Pan Xiaoxia's left half of her body can actually move!
This is a miracle, in order to make her recover as soon as possible, Lu Lei patiently taught her various basic life skills like a child.
Stand, eat. Some very simple daily actions for us, but they are all difficult for Pan Xiaoxia.
Fortunately, the patient Lu Lei took care of her on the side, and gradually, Pan Xiaoxia also learned a lot of things and could sing, which was a great surprise for Lu Lei.
Seeing that their son was so stubborn, Lu Lei's parents also accepted this daughter-in-law, and also helped take care of her when Lu Lei was away.
On October 16, 2010, Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia held a grand wedding, and Lu Lei wore a military uniform at the wedding, as if symbolizing how important the responsibility of a soldier is in his heart.
He said to Pan Xiaoxia, I will be good to you for the rest of my life.
Although Pan Xiaoxia still can't understand the meaning of these words, I believe that she must also love Lu Lei.
It's like when you are in a car accident, you have to be injured more seriously, and you have to be saved by the doctor first.
In 2015, Lu Lei took Pan Xiaoxia to Zhejiang Satellite TV's "China Dream Show", and he sang "Grow Up with You" on the show, this song was written for them by his comrades-in-arms, and every lyric symbolizes their love and will never disappear.
No matter how big the world is, no matter how long the road is, I will accompany you to grow up slowly.
Now Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence has recovered to the level of five or six years old, and the two are still actively seeking medical treatment, hoping that Pan Xiaoxia can ** as soon as possible, bless them!