Text丨The West Chamber is affectionate.
It's not a long time, may you see you in my words before it's too late!
Maybe you've also heard a saying that if a man doesn't want to break up in a relationship, you won't be separated.
Yes, when maintaining a relationship, if a man is in love, he can't do without you at all.
Then you will have to give less, you will be more relaxed in the relationship, and you will go longer.
But that's easier said than done.
Because most women don't find a good way, they always like to take the initiative to give too much sweetness to men, which causes men to forget to take responsibility and give emotions.
Therefore, smart women know that when men and women get along, they must learn to "snub" him so much, so that he can not do without you.
First: if the connection is immediate, there is a purposeful neglect
Don't try to tease a man from the perspective of "brothers" and "girlfriends".
Because as a result of this, it is likely that the man really sees you as a friend and can no longer have any feelings for you.
When you get along with a man, if you want him to become more and more obsessed with you, you must always make there an ambiguous atmosphere between you.
Because the aura is faint, but it is real, men can't wait to make more.
When a man takes the initiative to look for him, you can properly snub him.
At this step, many girls have a misunderstanding, that is, she will be inexplicably cold, making men scratch their heads.
Obviously, the man has taken the initiative to please, but she never replies to the message, which causes the man to feel bored and give up completely.
Women with high emotional intelligence will snub men with purpose.
She will not suddenly disappear when the man is on top, but when the relationship between the two parties reaches a platform, she appropriately chooses not to take the initiative.
She will wait quietly, waiting for the man to take the initiative to please, and in the face of the man's enthusiasm, she will also respond appropriately, instead of saying nothing.
This kind of imminent *** often makes men more up-and-coming and wants more.
Second: to snub him at certain critical moments
If you want a man to be inseparable from you, you have to make him always remember you and everything about you in his heart.
Women have an inertia in their relationships, such as when a man says, "Next time we must go to the movies!".At that time, the woman will always be concerned about this and always look forward to the arrival of "next time".
But think about it from another angle, why can't this person who cares about him day and night be a man?
A woman who can flirt is like having a pair of cat's claws, and occasionally scratching a man's heart will make him haunted by dreams and think about it day and night.
For example, when the chat is at the end of the conversation, you can find an excuse to end your chat, the man will only think that you are really busy, so he will always worry about you and want you to end the matter quickly and continue the chat with him.
Or when a man asks you out frequently, you can choose to decline a few times once in a while, so that he doesn't succeed every time.
A smart woman will create a sense of crisis for a man, she will not continue to maintain enthusiasm, but will snub the man at a critical time, making him realize that you have to put more effort into it in order to really grasp your heart.
When a man starts to work harder, he will be even more inseparable from you.
Third: show the man your "calmness" after the top
There is a kind of coldness, not coldness, but calmness.
In fact, what men are most afraid of in a relationship is that women become too rational, because when women are too calm, it means that men's crises will become bigger.
Feelings are actually based on an impulse, both men and women. If you want to be noble in a relationship, you have to show your "calmness" to the man at a certain moment.
Some silly women will frequently emphasize their sanity at the beginning, and it is clear that she and the man have not yet been attached to each other, so what's the use of staying calm at this time?
Men will only find you boring and do not want to develop further with you. So you have to wait, wait until the man has completely taken care of you, and then become "cold".
You have to make the man realize that at this moment, you are already thinking about the emotional relationship and future development of both of you, and you are thinking about whether this man is worth it.
This process must not be silent, you must let the man understand what you are thinking, only in this way will he have a strong sense of crisis, so as to give you more thoughts.
Conclusion:
In general, when a smart woman snubbs a man, she will not use hypocritical means, let alone disappear inexplicably, and every turn in her attitude is purposeful, just to make men love more.
So do you get it now?When you get along with a man, if you want him to be more and more inseparable from you, you have to control the man's emotions and master the man's psychology.
When he is on top of you, you quietly turn cold;When he makes frequent appointments with you, you are to put up your own shelfWhen he is madly thirsting for you, you have to stay calm.
Doing this, no matter how calm and self-contained a man is, it will be difficult to resist, and he can't give his heart to you!