Zhang Ailing: The ultimate in freedom is to leave anyone and everything I don't like, and I only obey myself.
On the stage of life, each of us is playing a different role and experiencing various encounters. Some people, some things, make us feel comfortable and at ease;And some people, some things, make us feel depressed and miserable. Zhang Ailing once said: "The ultimate of freedom is to leave anyone and things I don't like, and I only obey myself." This sentence is like a beacon that illuminates the way for us to pursue freedom.
First of all, we need to understand that freedom is a right, but also a choice. Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life and decide what kind of people and things to deal with. When we are faced with people and things we don't like, we have the right to choose to leave and not let ourselves fall into unnecessary distress and pain. This right to choose is something that everyone should have.
However, in real life, many people can't leave those people and things they don't like for various reasons. They may have to compromise because of family, work, social and other reasons, or they may choose to settle for the status quo because they are afraid of change. These choices may bring temporary stability and comfort, but they can deprive them of true freedom and happiness.
So, how can you leave the people and things you don't like?First, have the courage to face your heart. Think carefully about your values and lifestyle, and be clear about what you really want. Only by knowing yourself can you make the right choice. Second, be determined and take action. Leaving people and things you don't like requires effort and a price. Be determined to change the status quo and have the power to pursue your dreams. Finally, be wise and judgmental. When facing people and things you don't like, you must learn to analyze the pros and cons, weigh various factors, and make a wise choice.
When we are brave enough to leave the people and things we don't like, we will find that life becomes better and more fulfilling. We will have more time and energy to pursue our dreams and hobbies, and enjoy the beauty of life. At the same time, we will have more freedom and happiness. This kind of freedom and happiness cannot be experienced by those who cannot leave the people and things they don't like.
Of course, leaving people and things you don't like doesn't mean isolating yourself from the world or isolating yourself. We still need to socialize with others and participate in social activities. It's just that when faced with people and things we don't like, we must learn to be brave enough to say no and leave decisively. At the same time, we must also learn to appreciate and cherish the people and things that bring us joy and happiness. They are the good beings in our lives and the source of our pursuit of freedom and happiness.
In addition, we must also learn to cherish the present moment and be grateful for life. Whether we choose to leave or stay, life moves on. We must cherish every moment and be grateful for every encounter. Because it is these people and things that make up our colorful life journey.
On the road of pursuing freedom and happiness, we must learn what Zhang Ailing said: "The ultimate of freedom is to leave anyone and everything you don't like." This right to choose is something that each of us should have. When we are brave enough to leave the people and things we don't like, we will find that life becomes better and more fulfilling. We will have more freedom and happiness, and we will become more confident and strong.
In short, the ultimate in freedom is to be able to leave anyone and anything you don't like. Let's be brave in making choices and embrace those who and things that bring us joy and happiness. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish the present moment and be grateful for life. Only in this way can we truly have a full, free and beautiful life.