Wanting to be liked is equal to weakness.
Because the flip side of wanting to be liked is the fear that others won't like it, which will make you become other-centric.
To be free and powerful is to not care whether others like you or not
How to gather powerful, valuable, and successful people around you?
You think it's more social, more partying.
However, even if you meet someone in a social occasion and your own value is not in place, you just add a WeChat, and at most say a few words during the holidays, which will not form a stable and interactive resource.
Of course, it is useful to gather more and socialize, and the usefulness will only be reflected in increasing the number of friends on one side.
My answer is:First of all, make yourself valuable and continue to contribute in one area。In this way, you can attract more valuable people, so that others can take the initiative and voluntarily come to see you, or communicate with you about how to do this field, and you will start to make others take the initiative to add you.
Then, add to that socialization.
When you have a certain value, you go out to socialize, and then you come with energy. The friends you meet in this way will be of higher quality than if you were obsessed with meeting new people at parties.
The difference between a master and an ordinary person is the ability to distinguish between certainty and randomness.
Masters put a lot of energy into certain things, while ordinary people are confused, don't know why they succeed and why they fail, always attributed to luck (good or bad), and live in a daze, never accumulating.
Over time, the gap with the master was widened.
Good luck and early awakening.