Helping others is kind, solving the urgent needs of others, so that others can have a way out. People have to love each other, respect each other, and help each other!When others need it, you help;Wait for you and someone to help!
Love depends on transmission;Goodwill depends on inheritance. But to help, we must have our own bottom line, these three kinds of help, no matter what. 
01. It's not your own helpSome people are particularly strong in asking you to help, if you don't help, you are unkind;If you refuse, you are a bad person. Morality kidnaps you and always takes advantage of you. Such people, you don't want to help, we help people with good intentions, not our debt to others, so, don't help, don't help, don't let yourself be wronged!
02. I can't do itThere are some things that you can't do, so why promise others?If you agree to what you can't do, you will make it difficult for yourself and cause yourself a lot of trouble. We don't care who we get along with, we have to help, we have to do what we can. Don't let yourself fall into misery and cause disharmony in your own family by helping others, and lose the meaning of helping others!
03, rotten people are busyDon't help rotten people, don't get involved in rotten things. But if you know that some things will violate morality, and you help them, you are aiding the abuse. So no matter how much the other party pleads with you, we can't help each other. We must have our own standards for helping, and we must not help if it is contrary to morality!
You should refuse to do what you shouldn't help;If you can't do it, don't do itDon't help hurt people!
The above three kinds of busyness,Helped, it's not a good thing,Instead, you will let yourself fall into right and wrongAdd trouble to yourself,Let yourself be flawed. Such a favor can't help,Don't be soft-hearted!