My 32-year-old husband couldn't have children, and my father-in-law came up with an idea to make me a successful mother
My name is Li Lin (pseudonym), I am 32 years old and I am a primary school teacher. My life was quiet until last year, when I faced a big challenge.
My husband Zhao Ming (pseudonym) and I have been married for five years. Zhao Ming is a talented programmer, he is gentle and considerate to me, and our life has always been very happy. However, when we went to the hospital for a full check-up last year, the doctor told us the shocking news: Zhao Ming was suffering from a certain disease that made it impossible to have children.
This news plunged both Zhao Ming and me into deep pain and confusion. We always thought we could build a wonderful family together, but now it seems impossible to make that dream come true.
As the days passed, we tried to accept this reality. However, when we hear colleagues and friends around us talk about their children, we can only pretend that we don't care. It makes us feel very lonely and miserable.
At this moment, my father-in-law, Mr. Zhao, suddenly found me. He is a retired doctor who is nearly seventy years old but still in good spirits. He told me that he once helped a couple with a similar problem while practicing medicine. He suggested that I consider the adoption route.
Adoption?I looked at him in amazement. While I knew this method was legally permissible, it never occurred to me to do so. As a teacher, I know that doing so can cause a lot of problems for myself and my children.
I rejected my father-in-law's suggestion, but at the same time thanked him for his concern and help. Zhao Ming and I decided to bear this pain on our own and face the future life together.
Soon after, however, my father-in-law approached me again, this time with a detailed plan. He said that the couple he had helped had a child who had been adopted. They adopted an orphan, and the child is now growing up healthy and happy, and the family is very happy.
As I listened to my father-in-law's story, my heart began to waver. I know it's the right thing to do, but I also know that doing so can be problematic. I was caught in a deep conflict.
One night, Zhao Ming and I sat in the living room, looking out the window at the night sky in a daze. Zhao Ming suddenly asked me, "Linlin, do you remember the vows we made when we got married?"We said we would face all the difficulties and challenges together. ”
I nodded, a warm current welling up in my heart. I realized that I couldn't pass up this opportunity and couldn't leave our family without children forever. I decided to face this challenge bravely and make our dream come true.
Zhao Ming and I started looking for relevant adoption information. We've learned a lot about adoption and we've seen a lot of families happy in this way. We gradually understand that this way is not as scary as we think, but a way to achieve our dreams.
We decided to adopt a child first. We met a lovely little girl in the orphanage, her name is Xiaoyu, she is five years old. Xiaoyu is smart and cute, and we quickly fall in love with her. After a series of adoption procedures, we successfully adopted her.
After adopting Xiaoyu, our lives have become more fulfilling and happy. The light rain brought us endless laughter and happiness.
Whenever we came home, Xiaoyu would excitedly run to greet us, bringing us warm hugs and sweet smiles. Her innocence, liveliness and innocence make us feel the beauty and hope of life. Although our family does not have biological children, adopting Xiaoyu is the most correct decision in our lives.
We are grateful for the arrival of Xiaoyu and for all those who have given us help and support. With the company of Xiaoyu, our lives become more beautiful and meaningful.