In real life, many men often feel that it is difficult to pursue women, but in fact, it is a pity that they fail to understand the female soul and thus miss the fate.
We know that women are very delicate in their hearts, they are always subtle and meticulous when expressing love, and if you can't get to their hearts in time, it's easy to lose the opportunity to love.
Because even if women love you deeply in their hearts, if they don't see you pursue you for a long time, they will feel disappointed in their hearts and gradually let you go. After all, it is difficult for women to wait long in terms of affection, and if they are allowed to wait for a long time, it is easy for them to hesitate.
Therefore, when women face the men they like, they will deliberately reveal some hints, expecting you to quickly understand her sincerity.
One of the most common ways to do this is to use humorous words in the chat to remind you that the time is ripe for pursuit.
There are two benefits to this: on the one hand, humorous banter is not embarrassing even if it is rejected;On the other hand, once you understand her mind and take the initiative to confess, she will not feel pressured and will always take the initiative.
Therefore, when women say these "humorous jokes" when chatting, they often want you to pursue them, and men should not miss the opportunity.
1. "Are you single?"."When you're chatting, if a woman asks you this question a lot, she's actually signaling to you that she's expecting you to pursue it.
She asks if you have a girlfriend on the surface, but in fact she doesn't really care about your relationship status, but uses this question to test your emotional state.
On the one hand, she needs to confirm that you are single in order to decide if you are willing to go deeper into the relationship.
On the other hand, she wants to test your mind to see if you care about her. Therefore, your answer will have practical reference value for her, and she will decide the direction of the relationship according to the situation.
If you answer, "I've never had a girlfriend and have been single for many years." Such an answer will satisfy her because she thinks that you are single, will be more committed and willing to go further.
On the contrary, if you answer, "I've talked about a few, let's chase after it when I see the right one." Such an answer may be a little disappointing to her, who thinks that although you are single, you are too perfunctory and not dedicated enough to your relationship.
As a result, women may put their feelings on hold and stay friends with you before deciding whether to go further based on your performance.
In fact, women ask if you have a girlfriend, in large part in the hope of developing a relationship with you. She needs to consider your thoughts, test your character, and be loyal to your feelings.
Therefore, when you find that a woman frequently asks this kind of question, don't take it lightly, be sure to answer it carefully, and try to give her the most satisfactory answer.
At the same time, have the courage to take the initiative to pursue, confess sincerely, and believe that she will accept you soon.
2. "Think we're a good fit" When chatting, if a woman often says such things to you, there is no need to doubt that she does have a crush on you.
Because the woman feels very suitable to be with you, it's not just a joke, it's her true inner thoughts.
She sees you as a trustworthy man who meets her heart's expectations. As long as you take the initiative to pursue, she will gladly accept it.
Generally speaking, women will not easily make such jokes with the opposite sex, and only when she recognizes you in her heart will she take the initiative to let go of her inhibitions and test you with this kind of joke.
In her opinion, you are the most ideal object, whether in appearance, quality, or in terms of thoughts and pursuits, you can achieve a certain tacit understanding.
Therefore, she thinks that she is a good fit with you, looks forward to further developing the relationship with you, and longs to have a beautiful love.
When a man meets such a woman, don't hesitate, you might as well pursue it boldly, take the initiative to confess, and believe that she will not hesitate to fall in love with you.
3. "Do you want to chase me, or let's try dating" In front of her favorite men, women usually appear to be bolder, she wants to know your thoughts as soon as possible, so she may directly test you when chatting.
As a result, she may often jokingly say, "Are you trying to pursue me?".Why don't we try to get along. ”
This is a woman's way of expressing her heart, she can't control her emotions and subconsciously uses these words to test you.
On the surface, she is joking with you, but in reality, this is the truest thought in her heart, and she has been waiting for you to pursue her.
Men should know that women are reserved by nature, and if she does not have a deep love for you, she will not be so frivolous and bold.
Only when she is genuinely emotional and believes that you are the love of her life will she tell you these jokes without hesitation.
A woman who can put her body down and play an ambiguous joke with you in a relaxed way is a sign that she wants to be intimate with you.
Therefore, when a man meets such a woman, don't miss it stupidly, be sure to act positively, as long as you respond to her love in time, she will not hesitate to accompany you into love.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Love is a hundred years of loneliness, until you meet the person who is determined to protect you, at that moment, all the bitter loneliness has a way back." ”
Women have a longing for beautiful and passionate love in their hearts, they wait for years, and once they meet the man they love, they will devote themselves wholeheartedly.
Because, all her waiting and hard work is finally about to come true, and she feels that everything is worth it.
And you, the person she is destined to be, can give her happiness, and she is willing to establish a relationship with you and spend her life together.
So, when chatting, women say these "jokes", and many times they want you to start a pursuit:
Didn't you have a girlfriend?"It's testing your relationship status to see if you're single.
I feel like I'm a good match with you", she has already identified you in her heart and is willing to further develop the relationship.
Do you want to chase me, or let's try dating", this is a manifestation of true feelings, she put aside all her worries and looks forward to a better future with you.
When a man meets such a woman, don't miss it, as long as you boldly pursue and confess, I believe that love will come soon.