58 year old blind date 45 year old eldest sister, eldest sister wants to live a married life?Pay me

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-29

My name is Li Yun and I am 58 years old this year. In this life, my biggest regret is that I lost my wife relatively early.

On our wedding anniversary, I prepared a surprise to give my wife an unforgettable evening. Who knows, on that very day, a sudden car accident took her life. I still remember the scene when she took her last breath in the operating room, and I will never forget the pain of the skin.

After my wife left, I lived alone for many years. At first, I felt Xi being alone and no longer thinking about finding someone else's company. But after a long time, when I look at the deserted double bed and dining table, I will also feel extremely lonely.

Ali looks like a gentle woman, dressed in a simple but neat way. After meeting and chatting for a while, I first expressed my thoughts, "Ali, through a brief conversation, I think you are a simple and good woman." I'm a person, I don't care about each other's financial background, as long as the two of us can support each other and get through this time. What do you think?”

Ali smiled and said slowly, "Thank you, I also think you are an honest and kind person." However, I still hope that the other party can give me a certain amount of living security. After all, it costs money to get by, right?As you know, it's not easy for me to get a job at my age. ”

I nodded to show that I understood Ali's thoughts: "You're right, life does need a certain amount of financial security. The situation on my side is that, as you know, I am a retired teacher, and I get a little pension every month, plus some savings can barely cover my daily expenses. I am not like a rich person who can provide a very rich material life, but I can be kind to you with my heart and care about everything about you. Do you think this is okay?”

As soon as I heard Ali's request, I was a little disappointed, but I still nodded understandingly: "I understand your thoughts, and you also have your own considerations." I don't have social security to pay for you, and my retirement salary limits my financial strength. But I really hope that you will give me a chance, even if it is to try it, if it is really impossible for two people to establish a relationship, they can go their separate ways in the future. ”

Ali frowned, and her tone was more resolute: "No, unless you pay me enough social security, I won't take this risk." At my age, if you regret it in a few years, it will be difficult for me to start over. I don't want to live in fear all day, always worried that you will regret not wanting me one day. Isn't it realistic, you say?”

My heart sank, swallowed, and said, "Ali, I know you're worried about the future, but so am I." But I was really lonely and really wanted to have someone to live with. I can't do anything about money, but I can be good to you wholeheartedly. Please give me a chance, we slowly cultivate a relationship, and maybe we will find happiness. ”

Nope!If you can't give me a sense of security, we can't do it at all!Ali immediately shook her head and rejected me.

I got a little excited, raised my voice and said, "Ali, do feelings have to be based on money?"Can't you believe my sincerity?I am also a man of flesh and blood, and I also long to have a confidant to accompany me. Why can't we be together because of love?”

Ali was silent, looked down at the table, and after a long while, she whispered, "Because I've been hurt too much." I used to really believe in a man's rhetoric and vows, but he ended up leaving me because of the money. I really don't want to go through disappointment and abandonment again. So now I only believe in the basis of facts, and I don't believe in empty words anymore. ”

Give me a chance to touch you with my sincerity and ** your past pain. You don't need conditions to love someone, all you need is two true hearts. You say that you have been injured, then I am willing to take care of you like a fragile flower. I whispered, staring intently into Ali's eyes.

Ali slowly raised her head, her expression was a little moved, but she still hesitated and said, "It's just your momentary feeling, life will always wear out the promise of beauty." I don't believe in romantic promises anymore, the reality is too cruel. ”

Give me a chance to prove myself. I know it's not easy to get you to believe in someone again, so I'm going to take it slowly, one step at a time. Start with the little things in your daily life, so that you can see that I will really keep my promise and will be good to you wholeheartedly. Relationships need time to cultivate, as long as you give me time, I will definitely let you regain your confidence in love. "I pleaded sincerely.

I sighed in frustration and couldn't help but ask, "Aren't you going to give me any chance at all?"”

At this moment, a sly smile suddenly flashed on Ali's face, and she looked into my eyes and said, "Actually, I have been testing you just now, trying to see if your commitment to feelings is only based on conditions. Now it seems that you really want to have someone who supports each other, not just for profit. What I just said is just hypothetical, in fact, I still believe in getting along with sincerity. ”

My eyes widened in surprise and I said excitedly, "Really?".Are you testing me?Oh my God, you're bluffing me!It turns out that you also believe in unconditional sincerity!”

Ali smiled, nodded and said, "Yes, I haven't actually experienced any pain, I just want to test your sincerity." Now it seems that you are really craving the company of someone. Me too, in fact, I am also lonely. We can start with companionship first, slowly cultivate feelings, and there will be a way in life. What do you say?”

Ali smiled and shook my hand back, her eyes shining with happiness.

Ali and I excitedly discussed our plans for the future.

In the future, I can cook vegetables for you every day to ensure that the most healthy and delicious meals are made. I said.

Ali smiled and nodded: "Then I look forward to every meal." I can also take you out for a walk often, we can go for a walk in the park together, go shopping in the supermarket, or go to a meeting, a movie or something. ”

No problem!I said happily, "I have a lot of time since I retired, and I have always been alone and rarely go out before, so it is perfect to have you by my side." ”

Yes, yes, yes, we will be inseparable from now on. Ali said happily, "I also wanted to find someone to be with before, but I always felt that I lacked a soulmate. Now that we care about each other, life will definitely be very nourishing. ”

I nodded and said with emotion: "In fact, the most valuable thing in life is to have a confidant with you." My biggest regret in the past was that I lost my wife too early, and I was actually very lonely after living alone for so many years. Now that I finally have you, I'm very satisfied. ”

Ali said gently, "Actually, I'm the same. I used to think that hard work in my career was the meaning of life, but now I realize that success can't enrich my heart. With a good partner like you, life will become colorful. ”

I will be good to you wholeheartedly in the future. I said solemnly.

Me too. Ali smiled.

In this way, Ali and I began a new cohabitation life. On weekdays, I do prepare meals and stew soups to make Ali healthy and satisfied. Ali would also accompany me out for a walk, we walked through the park, shopped for groceries together, and returned together in the sunset.

In my daily life, I take good care of Ali's daily life. I would take care of her when she was sick, carry her when she went out, and beat her back before bed. Ali also cares about my health and mood all the time, and we are like a couple who love each other.

Of course, there will be some hiccups or disputes. For example, Ali thinks I'm too greasy when cooking, I think Ali spends a lot of money on shopping, and so on. But we will all communicate with each other, understand each other, and soon we will be able to reconcile as before.

My dear, although we sometimes disagree, I believe that our relationship will grow stronger. "Once, I said this to Ali.

I believe so too. Ali looked at me with a smile.

In this way, Ali and I have lived together smoothly for more than two years. In the past two years, our relationship has been heating up, and life has been very sweet.

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