There is a kind of unlove, called indifference, you really have to understand

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

When you love someone, the sky is warm, and when you think of the other half, your heart will be full of sweet smiles, and whether you meet or not, your thoughts will become a city.

I can't help but want to get in touch in the morning, and when night falls, I say good night and want to continue to say good night.

If you don't love, everything has nothing to do with you, no matter what kind of experience and mood the other person has, it will not be in your heart.

If all the love in the world can be satisfied, everyone must be happy, but the probability of not being loved is equal to the value that people hold in their hearts.

When you are not loved, you can feel that you have nothing to do with the other person, that all you, the response you get from the other person, is indifferent.

I once talked about online dating, chatted happily with each other, and talked about meeting offline, thinking that I had met the right person and could develop deeply, but after getting along, I realized that I had never really walked into each other's hearts.

I made it clear in advance that as a ** seater, I have a slight cleanliness habit, I don't like to eat together, and I don't like to take the initiative to hold hands without my consent.

The first time we met, all the taboos were touched, no chopsticks, put the dish in my bowl and deliberately touched my index finger.

When I expressed my dissatisfaction, the other person became more impatient. I was embarrassed to break up after a meal, and then there was no contact anymore, and I suddenly realized that this love, which was very important in my heart, was not true love, but became the prey of the other party, just because of the stubbornness of the character, it was not so good.

If a man truly loves you, he will care about your needs, stand in your shoes, and do everything to make you feel comfortable. Especially when you meet for the first time, you will be more cautious in exchange for a good impression, which can develop in the long run, will meet all your needs, and make you feel respected.

On the contrary, you will have nothing only if you don't love, you will do whatever you want, proceeding from your own interests, and once you feel uncomfortable with each other and you don't get the goal you want, you will immediately withdraw from a relationship.

If a person really loves you, he will empathize and feel your emotions, even the smallest ones, he can capture.

Just like Ruoxi and the fourth young master in "Step by Step", Ruoxi did not hesitate to kneel in the rain in order to intercede for the thirteenth young master, and after the fourth young master learned the news, he also knelt down with each other, and the rain swirled in the hearts of the two people like tears, at that moment, the hearts were connected, and the love was also blended.

Taking care of the emotions of a loved one is a compulsory course in emotion, and you can sensitively feel a person's joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

If, when you are crying, the person who says that he loves you is indifferent, do not think that this is the reason, the person who really loves you, sees your tears, it will not matter, either gentle words to comfort you, or heartache and blame you for not taking care of your body.

All in all, when you are emotionally sad, the other person will not choose to stand by and watch, but anyone who can ignore your emotions will not be able to empathize with you, and will not be able to call your beloved you if they are angry and sad.

If a man really touches his heart, he will have the idea of marrying you back home, and when they get along, he will inadvertently reveal a desire to spend the rest of his life with you.

To determine that you want to spend the rest of your life with her, and also to give you a clear future, he will carefully test your vision of marriage and expectations for your future life.

When a person is willing to give you a future, you will make every little wish come true one by one.

Just like in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", in order to show Zhen Huan's determination, the emperor specially arranged for people to arrange raw dumplings and wedding candles according to Zhen Huan's folk customs.

Although the two hearts later cracked, they must have truly loved each other when they were happy.

Only when a man doesn't love someone, will he completely ignore the future, just like one of my best friends, who was in a relationship with her boyfriend for three months, as an older young woman, her best friend especially wants to make a commitment to her boyfriend about the future, and will even take the initiative to hint at it.

Unfortunately, the two soon broke up. It turns out that everything has omens, and the man who has never promised his girlfriend a future has never given his sincerity.

It doesn't matter if you don't love someone, it doesn't matter what the other person wants, just give yourself what you're willing to give, of course, on the premise of not loving, giving may become stingy;

The other party's emotions don't matter, anyway, they don't matter, so they don't spend too much energy, and would rather be a bystander without any distress.

I don't care about each other's future, because I don't want each other to participate, I just feel that there is a reason for being together at that moment, and once I have a better choice, I will immediately run away from the existing relationship.

When a man is indifferent and shows obviousness, don't overpay and ask the other person to change his mind.

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