Right and wrong are in oneself, reputation is up to others, and gain or loss is not only - this is an attitude towards life and a philosophy of life. In this complex world, each of us will encounter a variety of people and things, how should we look at and deal with these things?
First of all, we need to understand that "right and wrong are in ourselves". Everyone has their own values and morals, and different people may have different opinions about the same thing. We can't force others to agree with us, but we can stick to our principles and have a clear conscience. When faced with right and wrong, we must have our own judgment, not blindly follow, and not follow the crowd. Only in this way can we find our own direction in this complex world and forge our own path.
Secondly, we must understand that "reputation is ruined by others". In this world, no one can please everyone. Sometimes, we are slandered and attacked by others because of some misunderstandings or prejudices. In the face of these, we must learn to face them calmly and not care too much about other people's opinions. Because, a person's worth is not determined by the evaluation of others, but by their own efforts and dedication. As long as we stick to our beliefs and try to do our own things well, one day, those slanders and attacks will be self-defeating.
Finally, we need to be able to "gain or lose". On the road of life, we will always encounter some gains, losses and setbacks. Sometimes, we feel frustrated and disappointed because of a failure;Sometimes, we get complacent about a success. However, these gains and losses do not determine our lifetimes. We need to learn to look down on the gains and losses, and focus on our own growth and progress. Only in this way can we go farther and wider on the road of life.
In short, "right and wrong are in oneself, reputation is ruined by others, and gain or loss is not matter" is an attitude towards life and a philosophy of life. We must learn to find our own direction in this complex world, stick to our beliefs, look down on gains and losses, and strive to become a better version of ourselves. Only in this way can we gain a foothold in this era full of challenges and opportunities and realize the value of our lives.
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