1. People with ability are often low-key and not arrogant.
There are many capable people in life, they may be experts in a certain field, or people with a certain status.
However, these people often don't bother and show off their abilities and achievements. Instead, they tend to be more low-key, modest and cautious.
I have a friend named Li Ming, and he is a very capable person. He works as a senior engineer at a large internet company, as well as an amateur photographer and travel enthusiast.
Although he has a lot to be proud of in his work and life, he doesn't show off his abilities and achievements.
He always does his own thing quietly, and he does not easily show the praise and praise of others.
Li Ming's low-key, modest and cautious attitude has made him respected and liked by many people in his work and life.
His colleagues and friends admired his abilities and qualities and considered him a great person to associate with.
2. In the face of fear, you can grow quickly and find yourself strong.
As we grow up, we inevitably encounter some things that frighten us. These things may be challenges we've never attempted, or areas we've failed in the past.
But when we face these fears bravely, we find ourselves much stronger than we ever imagined.
I remember the first time I stood on stage and performed, I felt very nervous and scared. My hands and feet were shaking, and my heart was beating a lot faster.
However, I told myself that I couldn't run away from it, and I couldn't let my fears become an obstacle to my growth. So, I mustered up the courage to go on stage and start my performance.
Even though the performance wasn't perfect, I found myself performing much better on stage than I had ever imagined.
This experience made me realize that facing our fears allows us to grow quickly and discover how strong we are. Only by constantly challenging ourselves and overcoming difficulties can we become a better version of ourselves.
3. Don't complain easily, because few people really sympathize with you.
In life, we will inevitably encounter some difficulties and setbacks, and some people always like to complain to others, hoping to get sympathy and help from others.
However, there is often not much benefit to doing so. On the contrary, we should learn not to complain easily, because few people really sympathize with you.
I have a friend named Wang Li, who used to suffer because of relationship problems. She often complains to her friends, hoping to get their comfort and support.
However, she found it useless. Friends may sympathize with her at first, but soon lose patience and interest. And those who can really understand her are rare.
Later, Wang Li began to realize that she should be strong. She began to work hard to adjust her mindset and lifestyle to get herself back on track.
She no longer complains to others easily, and she has also learned how to face problems independently and seek solutions, so that she can solve various challenges in life independently.
4. No matter how strong a friend is, he can't afford to have a huge conflict of interests.
In our lives, there will always be some good friends. We may think that these friends can share everything with us, including great benefits.
However, we must realize that no matter how strong a friend is, he cannot resist a huge conflict of interests.
I used to have a very good friend and we had a very close relationship. But our relationship was put to the test when we were faced with some important interest choices.
At the time, we were both working for the same company and facing the opportunity for a promotion. Both of us are excellent and both have what it takes to do the job.
However, there is only one position in this position, and competition between us is inevitable.
In the process, our friendship took a huge hit. Despite our best efforts to remain calm and sanity, there were some cracks in our relationship.
In the end, I chose to fight for the position, and my friend chose to give up. Our friendship has taken a bit of a stray as a result, and our relationship is not as close as it used to be.
This experience made me realize that a huge conflict of interest can destroy the most intimate relationships. Even if our friendship is iron, contradictions and conflicts between us may be unavoidable when faced with important choices of interests.
Therefore, we should try to avoid letting issues of interest affect our friendships and other relationships.
If we have to deal with the issue of conflict of interest, we should try to find compromise and balance to keep our relationship unaffected.